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why why no pics? 3/7/2009
After being on this scene on and off for over 20 years we've
come to realise its a total absolute waste of time and breath
asking people to put SOME kind of pics in profile! Despite
us sayin they dont have to be facial or explicit, still
they dont! its especialy difficult if you're a standard member
and therefore cant access some profiles fully. so that
one little pic we CAN see makes ALL ...
7 Comments, 126 Views,
15 Votes
,4.05 Score
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Sore Losers... 1/27/2009
I had a guy email me with interest of talking and I politely
told him he had a great profile, seemed like a nice guy, but
I had recently started dating someone/am looking for a
girl to join us.
His reply got him blocked by American Sex Dates...
What is the appropiate way to say "No thanks"...if
there is one on here?...
7 Comments, 251 Views,
21 Votes
,5.97 Score
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When a woman says no 1/20/2009
I'm sorry for all those guys who
don't understand the word... NO! When you meet a woman
and there's just no attraction and she tells you so.
Normally that means one thing leave her alone! Not continue
to harass and bother her. It's just creepy and weird
to have someone following your every move and having to
check up on you after you tell them that you want nothing
to do with ...
5 Comments, 95 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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Why can men not take a hint 1/12/2009
I'm a straight man. Says right in my profile who I'm
lookin to meet. So why is it that gay or bi men still feel the
need to contact me and not take no for an answer? I'm
curious if women have the same issue with the men on this
site be they straight bi or otherwise?
2 Comments, 72 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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omg... get the picture! 1/11/2009
so as i sit on my computer doing my own thing talking to the
random guys that have come across my screen and i wonder
if they even have looked at my profile. i have an issue with
age cos of how young i am and how i want to find somone closer
in age.. i dont understand why older men find it fun to keep
trying. listen when a person says no they mean it. just listen
and respect!
3 Comments, 109 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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saying no thanks 1/10/2009
saying no thanks
0 Comments, 23 Views,
1 Votes
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just no 1/7/2009
you know on this website i have so many guys trying to talk
to me and it get kinda of annoying when they get persistant
and to the point of scary when they end up sending you messages
and photos everyday...so please guys if the girl doesnt
reply its for a reason take the hint!
2 Comments, 82 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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Be Polite and Respond 1/2/2009
One of the things that I've noticed here, and to be honest
on every other site is that people don't respond, even
to say, "No Thanks." Whatever happened to common
courtesy? It doesn't cost anything to simply say,
"Not Intrested, " and it will probably keep
you from getting repeat messages.
3 Comments, 91 Views,
8 Votes
,4.64 Score
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Why Waste Time? 12/29/2008
I've been a member of American Sex Dates for 6 yrs now, my question is:
Why do the Gold members have to spend money for standards
to view their profiles? Then these "cheap-os"
have the nerve to "request" VIP be in Gold's
profile, to guarantee an reply. I must have spent $400 on helping standards and they reply at least twice, then vanish. Or most woman members claim they're interested(even
in your local ...
3 Comments, 140 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Co-ed 12/23/2008
I have this colleague at work who's been flirting with
me. She doesn't know that I have a girlfriend. She keeps
bending forward showing off her cleavage to me. Once at
the pantry area, she groped me and told me that she found
me attractive. How do I say no without hurting her feelings
or embarassing her?
4 Comments, 112 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Identify an potentially bad idea 12/9/2008
I just want to alert the women here.
I met someone on this site, who seemed like a sweet, sane
person. He has a very popular profile, and has many regular
visitors to his pages. Initially, I felt pretty honored
that he found me attractive. We had a couple of dates, and
a lot of email and texting. Due to problems with schedules and proximity, this relationship
did not work out for me. I ...
18 Comments, 813 Views,
63 Votes
,7.81 Score
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big, big woman 12/1/2008
To them I always have to say No Thanks. Don't look hear.
Look elsewhere, not interested. I can't do that, nope,
and sorry.
1 Comments, 109 Views,
11 Votes
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Sign of the times ! 11/21/2008
You try to enter your password on the microwave.
You haven't played solitaire with a real deck of cards
in a year.
You have a list of fifteen to reach your family
of three.
Your just bought a CD of all the records your college
roommate used to play that you most despised.
Every commercial on television has a web-site addy at the bottom of the screen. ...
15 Comments, 152 Views,
58 Votes
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Divorce ! ! ! 11/11/2008
The word "divorce, " from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals up through
his ass, through his Levi's and plumb through his wallet
and on to freedom. ...
15 Comments, 193 Views,
58 Votes
,0.79 Score
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What to do... 10/28/2008
Question for both sexes...
What to do when the opposite sex wants to meet for a sexual
encounter but you are not into the physical for whatever
reason.
Things to consider?
Am I a jerk for not wanting too...
Your thoughts?
3 Comments, 90 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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Just saying No thanks 10/8/2008
I have been invited to have an unmeaningful relationship
with a beautiful lady once a week. I actually was wanting
a little more than unmeaningful so I had to tell her no thanks.
She has hassled me about it and I finally had to ignore her.
3 Comments, 130 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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swapping partner for a ! 10/6/2008
We recently had chat with 1 gut who was up to arrange a swap.
However, as the conversation panned out, it turned out
the person he was gonna bring was in fact gonna be a .
How could he expect us to agree to this exchange? His emotional
connection with this female was totally non-existant,
wheras me ands my partner have been together over 10 years.
Sometimes, the politeness of the answer should be ...
4 Comments, 161 Views,
12 Votes
,6.16 Score
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If Someone says "Thank you but I am not interested".. 9/26/2008
Or one of those others pleasant let you down easy one liners,
why do you feel the need to counter the statement with "Why?"
or some other pestering comment or rude comment?
Would these replies honestly make the person reconsider
the rejecting reply that they initially sent?
If you got one of those responses, would you take the reply
as a hit and then move on or if you like what ...
18 Comments, 256 Views,
17 Votes
,3.83 Score
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YOU SUSPECT A STD 8/31/2008
You meet someone online. You meet in person and like one
another. You decide to have sex. You're both naked.
Then you see it. A bump, blister, redness, or something
else that you think could be a std. But you may be wrong. It
might be nothing. The other person might not be aware of
it. How do you stop without hurting the other persons feelings?What
is the polite way to handle this situation?
2 Comments, 155 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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how do i tell someone no thanks 8/18/2008
well it starts with a guy that has been trying to get with
me forever and im just not intersted in him im try to hint
it but how do i tell him no thanks without being mean
5 Comments, 88 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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repeats 8/6/2008
how can you nicely say I DONT WANT YOU, after you ignore and
tewll them they are not your type
7 Comments, 130 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Not an easy thing 7/29/2008
Guess it depends on how warm/cold
a person you are to how difficult you find this.
We are very tactful and warm people
so find it quite difficult. We can make our minds up pretty
quick to whether or not we are interested. Will tell you
now we definately aint interested in people without pix
on their profile as it shows ...
1 Comments, 44 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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kissing on first date 7/25/2008
MOst women will give a kiss the first date.Some even hand
the kat over.My thing is with all the variables, do ladies
chosse right off the bat who can hit it?Or the guy has to change
her mind overtime?
3 Comments, 73 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Is it wrong to just say no? 7/7/2008
Despite what Nancy Reagan may have started with that expression,
I don't mean drugs. I'm talking about oral sex.
To be frank, I've never really been one for the cunnilingus
or the blow jobs, to be honest. I've always found it
be at best, impersonal and at worst, dangerous. Stay with
me on this one.
I agree that oral is a valid point of foreplay (something
I have often enjoyed over ...
5 Comments, 76 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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just say it 7/5/2008
after chatting with someone and you find that your really
not interested. Just say "no thanks" don't
just ignore the person, that is really cruel.
7 Comments, 48 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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why is it so hard 7/5/2008
I have found that many people will just ignore you instead
of just saying I am not interested. Why? I wouldn't
do that to anyone, so, lets just have some common manners.
1 Comments, 16 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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It sucks when it happens to you 7/5/2008
Married? No thanks. No offense, but if you're not being
satisfied by your man, then leave him, but don't go
looking for some side fun. My first wife cheated on me, and
knowing what it feels like, no matter how hot she is, if she's
married, I'm the one that has to sleep with my conscience
at night. I know there are people who disagree with me, though.
Your thoughts?
1 Comments, 61 Views,
8 Votes
,4.64 Score
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is it too much to expect an actual rejection when getting rejected? 6/25/2008
Is it just me or do people who reject you via ignoring you
just piss you off.. at least tell me to go fuck off.. I recently
met up with a woman I met on here.. drove about an hour to meet
up with her.. brought a friend for her roomate.. shared
photos and talked on the phone for days.. could tell within
the first five minutes she didnt want me there.. she eventually
went to bed about an hour into ...
2 Comments, 85 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Lets be adults 5/28/2008
Most people ( men especially ) are too cowardly on this front
and will bumble around making until the other person gets
upset and annoyed.Be honest and upfront, we are all adults
on here and should be able to take the rejection by now ;O
0 Comments, 52 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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"No thanks" 5/26/2008
5/25/09 Most people appreciate when you're being
upfront with them. If it's "Sorry, I'm not
interested." "No thanks." It's
all the same, people on this site, and in general have been
around enough, that they should be able totake no as no,
and keep on going.
4 Comments, 72 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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