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Why are We Women so Dificult? 4/29/2013
We girls don't know how good we have it. We certainly
don't appreciate all the men making an effort to try
to talk to us. Even when the men are nice to us we still treat
them like shit, that's not fair at all, its completely
wrong, and I agree with the men that we don't deserve
to be praised like we are on this site. Most of the guys on
here aren't half bad, Take it Coming from a Female.
SO THIS ...
8 Comments, 121 Views,
17 Votes
,5.67 Score
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ok 3/27/2013
It hurts a little but its polite and averyone should have
their say
0 Comments, 42 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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fitness 3/27/2013
lets try and look after our bodies. at least lets try. its
always sexy to our partners
2 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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I have a difficult time saying "no thanks" 3/14/2013
In general, women that I meet via American Sex Dates fall into three main
categories: "Yes!", "Not great, but
she'll do" and "No $%#@ way!!".
You can call me shallow. You can call me a sex fiend or a predator. I don't think so - just an ordinary guy looking for some
fun.
The twist is that I'm a gentleman. I don't abuse the women that I meet. I treat them well - with respect and try to keep ...
3 Comments, 93 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Implied "No Thanks" 2/16/2013
I can accept a "no thank you". Its clear, and
easily understood.
What ALOT of us men get unfortunately, are NO responses.
If the man actually took time to write a paragraph that didnt
include WANNA FUCK, or COME FUCK NOW, then shouldnt you return the common courtesy
of a response?
NO response is just rude. If you had time to read it, you have
time to type a response.
4 Comments, 95 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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confused 2/14/2013
i am not into sex chat and stuff at all, but i did chat a lot
with a girl from this site...for about a couple of months...she
kept postponing to meet me due to some family emergencies..but
loved talking to me...now she has taken some time out due
to some family crisis and asked me to wait. is it working
for me or not?
2 Comments, 79 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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rejection 2/12/2013
girsl probably reject a lot here.. i mena seriously they
must get like 100 messages a day and they get to pick who they
wanna fuckk.... isnt it tru ladies....
1 Comments, 45 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Question, Would You Rather Be Told No Up Front 2/5/2013
We have a couple we like and have been talking to on a regular
basis for nearly two years. Both are extremely hot and both
tell us that they want to take their first plunge with us,
which I believe, but Danny is skeptical.
I say they're afraid to take the plunge, that it is erotica
for them to talk to us, share pictures with us, talk of swapping;
of their fantasies.
However, ...
8 Comments, 139 Views,
14 Votes
,4.10 Score
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Isnt Easy 12/24/2012
you email you chat you share picks and you decide that you
would like to me... You make the plans and you meet and on the surface all is cool...but
under the conversation and laughter that lil spark required
to get naked isnt what it should be.....you know it will
never happen
been there done that...it just isnt easy since the underlying
reason for meeting was to get naked.....I would ...
3 Comments, 83 Views,
8 Votes
,4.64 Score
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why so hard 12/21/2012
Why is it so hard for someone to just say "no thanks"
It seems to me that most people in general like to avoid confrontation
and would just rather ignore a person then to respond.
6 Comments, 76 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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How do you politely say NO? 12/19/2012
Just because I'm a guy it's assumed I want to sleep
with every woman I see. How do you let someone down gently?
I mean sometimes it's not about straight up attraction
or whatever, it can be about other stuff that's going
on.
I don't want to hurt feelings, but then again I don't
want to go home hating myself either...
Advice?
4 Comments, 55 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Nothing said. 12/19/2012
We met with a couple from American Sex Dates and had a nice dinner and good
conversation. During the course of the evening, however
I think they realized that neither of us were sexually attracted
each other. We ended the night in a pleasant manner and departed.
We see each other on occasion at a local club and speak and
go our separate way with nothing ever said about swinging
or swapping. So sometime you ...
3 Comments, 59 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Does it ever bother you? 12/10/2012
When a girl acts like she wants it, then says no...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
4 Votes
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A good friend wanting more... 12/10/2012
I have a great friend who has decided she wants more out of
a relationship lately. I have always known her as my little
sister but having trouble telling her no. Advice?
1 Comments, 44 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Manners.... 11/25/2012
Why do some people not takes a minute to say no thanks if they
arent interested. It's only polite...
8 Comments, 62 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Respect 11/23/2012
Why do some not understand that a simple no means just that...no?
Please people respect is essential if you respect others
you will simply get much further in the lifestyle as well
as in life.
1 Comments, 8 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Breaking one of our rules. 11/8/2012
We met a couple here on American Sex Dates and conversed several times on
line. After about two weeks, we agreed to meet at a local
hotel bar, with the intent to get a room if everything worked
out. We got there first and watched them walk in, they were
a very attractive couple. They came over and introduced
themselves and we hit it off very well. We were thinking
this is going to be great until they informed ...
2 Comments, 190 Views,
7 Votes
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No Thank You it stings only for a min 10/29/2012
We once had to have the most awkward of "No -Way back
in the beginning, our first encounter actually..before
the internet..so you spent time on the phone getting info
and mental pictures from their descriptions. After a number
of conversations we all agreed to drive half the distance
to the other and meet for coffee.
They had got there first and looking for the car we drove
and as we ...
0 Comments, 48 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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mm 10/27/2012
It Be Times When Some One ASk You If You Want This And That
, but it want hurt you to tell them no thanks at times
0 Comments, 10 Views,
0 Votes
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Well 10/19/2012
The only time I say no thanks is when they have a little dick.
0 Comments, 17 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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seriously people? 9/12/2012
I completely understand that most guys my age are a complete
pain in the ass and would probably make horrible swing partners
but I would really love the common courtesy of a simple thanks
but I/we are not interested.
2 Comments, 54 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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at least you replied. 8/24/2012
If I see someone has viewed me, or has flirted with me, I check
for them on the IM. If I do happen to find them there, I like
to shoot them a message asking if they actually did. Most
times they don't even respond, which is much worse
than someone actually taking the time to tell me that they
did, but aren't interested or that they accidentally
clicked on my profile.
It means a lot for ...
6 Comments, 112 Views,
12 Votes
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Why? 8/13/2012
I have come to notice that most people on this site are either
to full of them selves to be polite or just don't care.
Personally, being ignored is a personal pet peeve and is
the quickest way to piss me off. When you get a email or IM
from me and take the time to look at my profile even if you
are not interest you could do me the courtesy of saying sorry
not interested vs just deleting ...
4 Comments, 66 Views,
11 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Why are folks afraid to say "not interested", "thanks anyway", etc... 8/11/2012
Having been on here a while now, I have met some cool folks
and exchanged emails here and off the site. What I just don't
get though is the lack of response from members...
I've read and talked with others about how the sites
full of fakes, nobody is real, etc...
Is that the reason for lack of response? Or is it lack of decency
or some feeling of superiority? Something else?? ...
2 Comments, 65 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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No thanks is ok but at least answer 7/6/2012
So you send a message and wait and wait..is the person not
interested? Have they read your message? People should
at least say no thanks..my opinion
11 Comments, 102 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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One Should Accept No 6/27/2012
I am into swinging life style for last 8 years and over the
years I have met many Couples and women.My experiences
told me that No is a wonderful thing and one should accept
it very gracefully. Not every one I met went forward to have
sex. Many occasions we met and chemistry didn't worked
out so we had our coffee or drink and left.Not many could
take it gracefully and they bitch about you but few ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
4 Votes
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DIFFICULT TO AVOID 5/30/2012
I MYSELF FIND IT DIFFICULT TO SAY THIS WHEN SOMEONE INTIMATES
ME
1 Comments, 45 Views,
5 Votes
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being nice 5/26/2012
saying no can be harder than saying yes? right? sometimes
it is just easier to go with the flow and just sleep with a
partner because easier than to say i dont like y64, that's
life, you got to be strong.
0 Comments, 23 Views,
4 Votes
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When Did Common Courtesy Go Out the Window? 5/24/2012
I am truly amazed at the rude behavior being exhibited on
American Sex Dates these days. It hasn't always been this way. Ten
years ago, people were much more courteous and kind. If
you were not their type, they would politely say so.
Today, someone will message me or I them and once they realize
I'm married or not "perfect", they simply
disconnect without so much as a "sorry, your not my
type" or ...
6 Comments, 102 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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How do you do it ? 5/7/2012
How do you say "no thanks" to someone without
coming across rude?
2 Comments, 55 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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