First let me say - I AM married. No, I am not looking to cheat on my wife, and yes she knows that I am here. We have a VERY loving relationship, that also happens to allow for a little "flexibility" in regards to what we may or may not do with other people. (poly - other relationships possible) Now, having said that - My main purpose on this site is to find friend(s) that I would not normally meet in current social circles. Basically looking for a good friend to share connection with, hang out, and generally have fun - and possibly more. However, connection/friendship is the main goal. A little about me: Most people would probably say that I am shy and quiet...and I am - in the beginning at least. I am also fairly silly, witty, sarcastic, playful, and just generally like to have fun. I try to keep my head shaved, especially after finding out that not all of it is growing back :( I have a few tattoos. 2 on my right arm (that I am kind of "blah" about now, and plan to eventually get modified) and 3 on my back. 1 on each shoulder blade, and the last one filling up most of the remainder of my back. That one is still only the outline. Someday plan on getting it filled in... I enjoy outdoor activities like hiking, camping, swimming (kind of like an otter that way), biking (both kinds - I miss my Harley!), etc - though sometimes it is nice to just relax inside, cuddled up in front of a fire, a movie, or nothing at all. I also like cuddling. And kissing. Two very fun activities :) I really like movies - some might say I am a bit of a movie "geek", but not "over the top". I just like the stories, and have a natural "ability" to remember dialouge. And repeat them randomly. Unfortunately I am a little bit out of shape at the moment, which is annoying me to no end. However I am now starting to exercise more, after taking time off to recover from injury. Mainly fencing, yoga, skateboard, roller blading, walking, sex, etc.

My Ideal Person I am NOT looking for one night stands, or any other kind of "quick" hookup.

Ideal person? Someone that likes to have fun, watch movies, cuddle, kiss (kissing is a definate requirement! ) - while height is not really an issue for me, probably looking more for someone under 6' - having to look up when talking to someone puts a little crick in the neck, ya know.

Other than that - talk to me, let's see.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, Under a waterfall, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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