I've been on AFF for a long time. I've learned that the vast majority of people on here can talk a big game - which don't get me wrong, is very hot - but when it comes time to meeting in person, they get cold feet. So, I'm looking for a lady or couple who don't get cold feet. I'm also looking for kinky. Foreplay to me is a mental game before it's a physical game. I love to talk about fantasies before we live them out. I love to text and send naughty pictures to each other. I love to play out elaborate role plays via email/IM before we meet and then ACT them out. I have an enormous appetite for creativity and the older I get, the more aroused I am by things I never expected I'd find arousing. What about you? Do you yearn to try new things? Do you crave getting lost in a storm of passion and desire that opens new doorways for you and/or your lover? Are you lonely at home and needing a long term lover who is committed to learning all your buttons and how to push each one to please you beyond your wildest hopes. I am. And my search continues. Are you the one? Nobody will ever know unless you send that first email...

My Ideal Person If you want to know more please just ask. I'm here and willing to answer any questions you might have. I've given a taste above. But honestly this little text box is far too confining to explain my desires. I will say this though - I'm not looking for perfect. I'm not perfect. What I do seek is a genuine, introspective and patient lady who is willing to see where this might lead. I don't want to change your situation if you're married. But I do ask that you be able to handle your business. Nobody needs drama. But we ALL need to feel desired.