SMOKERS NEED NOT APPLY! Our profile name is a bit of a misnomer, he was on here solo initially... NO FLAKES, NO FLAKES, NO FLAKES, NO FLAKES If we contact you and you're not interested in us please let us know, we're all adults here, we can take it. Going to let this account fade into free membership status soon, if you want to say hi outside of here you can at funtimes644 at g(spot???) mail. And it's probably a good idea to include your handle in the subject line so it doesn't get missed. We are a young minded and young looking 45 year old married couple into an active lifestyle, the outdoors, the arts, music and culture. We have been in the lifestyle for a few years now and have met some great people and have had some fun times both in and out of the bedroom but in many ways we’re still finding our way, figuring out our M.O. What are we looking for? We prefer to take our time getting to know people before any play happens, ultimately hoping for a ‘friends with benefits’ scenario. We are open to meeting couples as well as singles. Any play with couples will initially be ‘same room’. We are hoping to create a space where everyone feels comfortable being themselves and participating within their own comfort zone with absolutely no pressure to ‘perform’. Our relationship is sort of open in the sense that he is 'allowed' to play solo once we all meet and know each other a little, so if you're looking for a wingman for sex positive events like PLUR, swingers clubs, etc. with no expectations he's your man. For us as a couple and individuals communication is key to every relationship's success be it marriage, friendships, business... and as such we are extremely honest and up front both with each other and people we meet.[COLOR orangered][/COLOR] Oh and in case it wasn't obvious enough up top we are not interested in smokers, it's disgusting.

My Ideal Person healthy, open minded, intelligent

In a perfect world we'd all just end up in a big pile of fun and mutual admiration.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, The brain is the biggest sex organ.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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