UPDATE I created this profile years ago when soft swing and voyeurism was my thing. I still enjoy meets of that nature. So please feel free to say if that's your thing to. But remember to make contact through my newer profile name which more accurately describes the focus of my attention these days...BLACKBULL4COUPLE... I’m a normal friendly professional guy that just happens to have a naughty dark streak. Reaably well spoken. Experienced but never pushy, never disrespectful and very much a people per first. Having said all that, I am a lone wolf in sheep’s clothing....you have been warned ;-) I believe in the power of chemistry and because I prefer regular meets I like the opportunity to get to know a couple a bit before arranging to meet. By that I mean both the husband and the wife. Every couple is different and I have found that a bit of an insight into what makes you both tick always helps. Been separated for about a year and like many of you I have a life away from this which will always comes first. However I'm a horny so and so and would like to be able to do something naughty and fun 3 to 4 times a month. Local and regular with no more than one or two wives or single ladies would be ideal but it doesn't look like that will happen just yet. THE LAW OF SOD One bitter sweet thing that keeps happening is that I never seem to meet couples that live less than an hours drive away. It would be really nice to meet a couple that lives close enough to make regular meets a realistic possibility. Below is my realistic wish list... MY WISH LIST: No such thing as the perfect match or circumstances, but the closer to it the better. 1) A local couple within a 1 hour drive who can accommodate. If you can’t accommodate and have to meet in a hotel you have to be prepared to split the bill. After all this is NOT a dating site. 2) An intelligent single woman for NSA fun within a 1 hour drive that can accommodate. If you can’t accommodate and have to meet in a hotel you have to be prepared to split the bill. After all this is NOT a dating site. 3) A couple into semi/regular cuckold fun 4) A couple into semi/regular hot-wife fun 5) A woman curious about BDSM or role-play fun and games on a semi/regular NSA basis 6) Invites to cozy erotic house party orgies (NOT GANGBANGS) I think the dynamics for meeting a single woman is completely different so I have created an additional profile to separate the two - darkknightlondon SOFT SWING FUN This is still a big passion of mine so if you are an exhibitionist and enjoy posing for pictures, , teasing, naughty erotic games, spanking sessions, masturbation in the company of others or mutual masturbation I would love to hear from you. . ONLY INTERESTED IN WIVES WHOSE HUSBAND IS AWARE MY TASTE IN WOMEN? Intelligent, friendly and kind. On a superficial level? black, asian, white, oriental etc etc etc ;-) Looks? If your smile hasn't been hardened by life we will probably get on. I'm not rigid about body type or height because chemistry can come from anywhere. However on a purely physical level it's women of size 10-16 that really do it for me mmmmmm ME WARTS AND ALL ON A BASIC SUPERFICIAL LEVEL What you are most likely to find appealing about me, besides my modesty a) Disarmingly charming lol b) Easy on the eye (when I take off my nerd glasses) c) Good sense of hygiene d) powerful piston thrusting thighs (a gift from my fitness obsessed youth) e) although no longer obsessed with training I still exercise to maintain my strength and stamina. f) thick creamy heavy cummer (have a video on Hamster to prove it lol) What you might not go for if you have a "type" a) a 5ft6 short arse b) Sixpack, what's a sixpack? c) Average size cock. At 6.5" it won’t stretch you but it will hit the sides I WANT TO MAINTAIN A MANAGEABLE FRIEND LIST AND WILL ONLY ADD YOU TO IT IF WE HAVE ALREADY CHATTED AND I THINK THERE IS A REALISTIC CHANCE OF US MEETING AT SOME POINT. To: Sydney University and all other institutions using this site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.

My Ideal Person Hopefully appeal to four types of people:

a) Brave newbies looking for safe soft-swing stepping stone fun as well as going all the way.
b) Highly imaginative people who understand the mental power of erotic fun.
c) S&M, BDSM, Cuckold, role-play fans....no explanation needed lol.
d) Tourists on holiday and looking for fun

Naturally it helps if you are a bit of an exhibitionist. If you like to tease or be teased? Mmmmmm all the better.....

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, Teasing to the limit

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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