We are both Hispanic in our 40's and have been happily married over 20 years. While we enjoy our play time we are very secure in our relationship and not looking to change that up at all. We both enjoy a very sexual life with each other and recently began exploring soft swap with other women. We are not here as a means to replace or fill a void with anything in our relationship, but to further our relationship and sexual experience as a couple. We enjoy the night life; music, drinking, dancing, social events, etc. We are great dancers to latin, swing and country music. She's a much better dancer when it comes to country music. We can both hold a good conversation which makes us easy to talk to and get to know. If you have a question just ask. Sexually we definitely enjoy foreplay. While we can always dive in sexually, if the feeling is right, foreplay is almost a must for us. We have always been voyeurs, but recently discovered we also enjoy playing in front of others. While he loves being in control he also loves showing his wife off and watching when she takes control of a situation to get what she wants with a woman she finds interesting. She has discovered her enjoyment of playing with other women. We've had a relationship with a few other women and have visited a swingers club recently. She really loses herself and enjoys being in the moment. FF is definitely what we are more interested in. However, we want to meet with couples as well if the woman has interests in other women for soft swap. We like being exhibitionist if the right situation comes up. She's enjoys making out and is very oral with women and likes the same in return.

My Ideal Person Laid back female or couple that enjoy hanging out and having a good time with good conversation, drinks and more.