im a sarcastic biatch, been in the lifestyle for 8 yrs. not interested in hooking up with just anyone...looking for friends more than anything... if we happen to mess around cool, but thats not my end goal... so i will shut that down unless i am feelin the vibe too... be respectful when starting a conversation with me plz! when i say i want a back rub THATS ALL I WANT not anything additional, and if it happens to be a fantastic backrub -i may reciprocate the gesture-

My Ideal Person im a finicky creature, i have to be approached the right way or else ill just be etremely offput and my face doesnt hide my emotions well at all. my ideal person is someone who values mutual respect, is kind and shows compassion, one who can effectively communicate, emotionally intelligent, attractive, practices good hygiene, one whos Dominant without the over the top exaggerated inflated/entitled ego.... submission is earned not given folks... just fyi.... i prefer the SoftDom/DD type because i am a very outspoken opinionated woman. i neeed the type of man whos gonna sit back and let me learn from my mistakes while being supportive and by my side the whole way... i am a bratty switch... so i dont just play along when a man identifies as a "DOM" and i use that term lightly, because i shake my head silently in disbelief at half of you.... anyways i love a great sensse of humor - infact it is vital and required because i am a goof ball and i need someone to be silly with me...