Older guy that does not look his age who is recently widowed and curious. I would like to meet people for friendship/companionship and sex, more or less in that order. That said, I would prefer to meet over a meal or cocktails. Should anyone be intimidated by age vis-à-vis intimacy, then I am open to meeting with people (all ages) who are interested in conversation and perspective. I view each person I meet as someone I can learn from, and that will enrich my life...and I hope that is reciprocal for those who encounter me. I respect virtually everyone I meet, regardless of political, philosophical, or religious differences that may exist, and expect that in return. If that does not occur, then I neither carry any anger toward them, nor do I worry too much about them. I enjoy the differences in people...it makes life much more interesting and exciting, and I relish exploring those differences. I have had some homoerotic experience in the past few years, and know that I appreciate both sexes, but prefer women. I am still working in a job that is fairly physically demanding. I take care of my body and mind by working out (lifting) 2 or three days a week. As a result I am fit, and toned. I know few men my age that have as pleasing a body as I do, and those people that I have been naked, and physical with are appreciative.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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