We are a married couple - I (female) am keen to have dates, flirtation and anticipation and good times with a talented lover. I am a 30ish woman, slim, tall and with a tanned body. I have medium length blonde hair. We are permanently in southern Europe (Montenegro) but AFF doesn’t list the country as an option. We came on this site to find me dates. I am not available each day as we still have ordinary life to live. If you are in or able to travel, then let us know!! I am open minded but some things are restricted - like safety. I am looking for a casual meetings now, but long term I want to have a regular lover who I can spend nights/days at a time with.

My Ideal Person Ideally, he will take the lead and dominate in the bedroom but respect boundaries of the existing relationship.

I like good looking men, not models or movie stars, but certainly nothing that is unattractive. You don't need to be any size but respect and behaviour will go far with me. Rude messages will be deleted. Please be reasonable - I am not looking for fat or old men. Don't be offended if I ignore messages from obese or men older than my parents. It simply does not pique my interest.

I like to be touched, flirted with, and build anticipation. Mental stimulation is all part of the fun, isn't it? Message me with your thoughts of what we can do together.

Please - no dick pics. It isn't interesting. Photos a must -even if yor face is turned. If I ignore your 68 yo penis photo - maybe consider that I did not wish to see it

For safety, during any early bedroom sports, husband will be present or nearby. Hygiene and safety are important.

Update:
May ‘23

We are still looking for someone genuine.
Ideally we want to have a man who will be clean, sexy and like to see me more than once, but casual dates still welcome.

These messages are read by my husband and me and sometimes he or I can answer. Please remember that we are a committed married couple. I just want something more

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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