I'll let you make the first move here, it's rough as a guy sifting through the crypto-bots, let me know if you think we're compatible :) Not sure this site is the best fit for me, but I'm also tired of pretending I want to chase sunsets in Bali on the other dating apps. Lady, I've been there, done that. Now I just want a cozy evening or the occasional hot-spring in San Luis Obispo. I'm not looking for a life-partner right now, and probably not a hookup, but something in-between. I am getting out of a period of focusing on myself after a long relationship. I have a wonderful that I raise half of the time. I'm fit and take care of myself mentally and physically, I am laid back and have my life and myself really well figured out. I like adventures, but also quiet evenings with some BBQ in the back-yard, a dip in the pool and a movie. I'm happy with that most of the time, but also like to take a weekend and head up the coast or take a flight somewhere. I'm pretty vanilla when it comes to intimacy, but happy and excited to try new things that makes us both get that feeling of newfound amazement. I'm totally fine with being monogamous with the right person even if things are casual, but that's not a requirement. It's important to me that we are on the same page about where we are in life, even if those are different places. Half of the time I'm a single father, and work in a very high-performing environment, and I feel I lack the time a serious partnership deserves right now. Regardless of what form our connection takes, it's important to me that we both understand where we are coming from.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone to share physical connection, but also someone who's alright with having some wine, having a laugh, and cooking a pie together (that's not a euphemism ladies!).

I'm looking for someone light-hearted who have themselves figured out and who knows what they want. I'm looking for someone with a good sense of humor who don't take themselves too seriously. I am looking for someone who is alright with either an easy evening together or an odd weekend of new experiences.

While right now I'm looking for something fairly casual with no pressure, with the right person I would be happy to explore more going forward.