I am a compassionate, intelligent, and ambitious young man trying to graduate from college and also looking for many sexual experiences as the pandemic continues. A wonderful sex life is a legitimate goal of mine--I'm nowhere near a "sex addict" or anything like that, but being on this website is my attempt to be the best sexual partner that I can be. For full disclosure, [B]do not expect a porn star because I only have an average-sized penis[/B]. So many things have happened in my life over the past several years, but I'm looking for women who are mature and insightful enough so I can be comfortable sharing things with the women I fuck and accept into my world for relationships. Once we begin to know each other from a verbal, emotional, and sexual context, I take a lot of pride in strengthening and maintaining a relationship with you. No matter how often we have sex, I will do everything I can do to show you the respect and attention you deserve. When I'm out driving I'll do anything to avoid traffic. Commitment-wise, I'm pretty casual... but if it becomes serious later on, I won't complain. I've reached the point where it's time to get past my shy nature and meet someone new. To me, traveling means finding a stimulating companion and making plans as we go. When I'm at home alone, a lot of pet projects and hobbies keep me occupied. I've always been good at sitting back and listening to what others have to say. I look forward to hearing from you soon. If you contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you. I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out.

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person: I want my woman to be confident, passionate, open-minded, intelligent, trustworthy, and loving. All that is required is that your demeanor is compatible with mine. I see beauty in many different sizes, shapes, and colors, but I do proudly admit to being the most attracted to dark-skinned Black women. In other words, married Black women are my preference but I don't limit myself to said preference.

I do not have a lot of hard-line, static preferences for the women I want to fuck and build relationships with. Nonetheless, here are some other qualities or behaviors that will make me more comfortable in being with the women I choose:

1. Ideally, I want my sexual partners to either be discreet OR establish some arrangement with their current partners because I do not want any unnecessary conflicts. Bad communication and a negative approach towards conflict can harm everyone involved and I do not want other parties to spoil the mood.

2. I am somewhat open to extramarital affairs as they could add excitement to our relationship, but discretion will be the most important aspect of whatever we exchange because I have no interest in being on a new episode of Cheaters with Clark Gable and security guards in my face.

3. Sexual activity in some different locations besides the bedroom would be wonderful. I'm not so sure about sex in public places, but I want the women I have sex with to be familiar with or open to it.

4. I am not the biggest fan of one-night stands because of the emphasis I put on actually investing my time and emotions into the women who enter my life. I sincerely cannot fathom just using women for sex and not caring about their humanity enough to never see them again--at least, for now. I envy those who have that talent.

5. During sex or a romantic evening, I prefer to listen to some old-school R & B or some smooth jazz or blues songs. Whatever is sultry enough to help create the mood, then that's what I am down for.

6. Sensuality--i.e. touching, candles, dirty talk and massage--is definitely just as important as sex. I cannot relate to a woman who either cannot or refuses to be sensual.

7. I love a good amount of foreplay as well before going straight to penetration.

8. Physical and mental health: as you get to know me, you will fully know about my struggles regarding staying healthy and making tremendous improvements in my physique along with my mental and emotional state. I MUST have a woman who is equally dedicated to working out, eating healthy, and engaging in some physical activities. I have reached the tentative conclusion that the more dedicated you are to staying healthy, the more likely you are to be a wonderful sex partner.

9. Willingness to teach: I am up-front in my admission that I'm not the most experienced person in the world; more succinctly, I've only had sex with seven people and have had one girlfriend throughout my entire life. I respect those who have preferences for a well-experienced and well-hung man, but I'm just simply not that guy. Please don't expect a stereotypical porn star to show up if/when you decide to contact me. When we get in the mood, I want for us to communicate what we like and dislike clearly and consistently, which can only help enhance our experience(s) together. Show me what it is you want from and I'll do my very best to give it to you.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Wu-Tang Clan, Coldplay, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Boyz II
Men

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My sexual fantasy is fucking a married Black woman every
weekend for an entire year, no fail.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Food Play, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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