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24u2touch 70,1970 C
15  questions
Exploring the Body with JUST touch - 7/15/2021

Might Seem a little odd or even to much for the system to stand. Although it is a fantisy of ours. One we would love to see manophest into the delightfull pleasure we vision. Is i possible or just a fantisy? For a couple that has never met other then on the IM chatting. To meet on a blined date and exchange in full body 's all night jumping in and out of the Hot tub lying naked on the bed ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
Stars12Dong 53 M
64  questions
What Do You Think ? - 7/15/2021

My lady and I was getting ready to go out to eat one day but, before we could leave she wanted to put on some more lipstick . She was unable to find her lipstick in her handbag so , she dumped out her bag and out flew a empty condom wrapper (we don't use condoms her tubes are tied) . So she started saying that she had know ides where it came from and that she can't believe that it was in ...

5 response(s), 1 vote
wifey3223 55 F
227  questions
MORE WAYS FOR CHEAP DATES? - 7/15/2021

WEB CITES, SEX LINES, MORE.....ARE PEOPLE USING THIS AS REPLACING DATING, CLUBING, MORE.DO WE ALL THINK ITS BETTER THEN PICKING UP A HOE OR .THE SITE DOSNT TEST EVERYONE FOR DRUGS, ETC.ALL WE HAVE IS THERE WORD, HOW DO YOU SCREEN YOURE LOVERS, FRIENDS ON HERE?THEN EVBERYONE WANTS TO MEET AT NIGHT , WEEKENDS.OR IS IT THEY HAVE NO LIFE WITHOUT American Sex Dates?EVERYONE SAYS ITS SPICE, FUN PLEASURE WHAT ...

4 response(s), 4 votes
rm_DandA98404 64 C
4  questions
What is the difference between a Slut and a Ho? - 7/14/2021

This question seams like it would be a matter of individual taste. However, I have found some spacific differences in the two. I want ALL the ladys who read this to know that I LOVE and RESPECT every one of you for who you are. I find that there's three types of women that MEN look for. Those are, Slut, and Take Home To Mom. At a certain age unmarried men as well as married men begin to ...

3 response(s), 3 votes
rm_bigdaddyjinx 50 M
0  questions
Ladies, why is it hard for some women to date a single father? - 7/14/2021

For the past 5 years of my life, I have been a single father of two beautiful and wonderful . I have raised my and since they were 4 and 1. In that time, I have only been in one serious relationship, and that ended due to the fact, the my ex-fiance, yes, I almost married her, called my a racial slur. Starts with an "N", so don't think too hard. And henceforth, I have had nothing but ...

6 response(s), 2 votes
icebreakerneeded 48,1943 C
1  question
Is being a parent a turn off? - 7/14/2021

Maybe I am just feeling this wrong but when we talk to someone on American Sex Dates who does not have and we tell them that we do, I always get the feeling that it is a turn off for them. Whether it be a young couple or a single man. Is it a turn off or am I just crazy?

6 response(s), 2 votes
Zero Sex Drive - 7/14/2021

We are both in our mid 40's. I have the sex drive of a but she has absolutely nothing. I have to initiate ALL the time. Once I persuade her(which I don't enjoy doing because I feel like I am begging) she is heavily into it and wants me to be the energizer bunny. We have sex only one every 2 or 3 weeks and I feel as though it should be more. We have been together for 8 years and she has ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Should be lega? - 7/14/2021

It seems to me that LOTS of people are looking for safe sex. In this age of danger and disease, shouldn't we just legalize to make it safer and easier to obtain? Nevada seems to have no problem with it, so why haven't other states joined in?

9 response(s), 5 votes
melandy 42 C
1  question
are men attracted to women with ? - 7/14/2021

i was just wondering if men are attracted to women who have . do they think the woman will be easy? or more sexual? maybe a silly question but it's something i have wondered since my first .

4 response(s), 1 vote
rm_banacealtach 47 F
2  questions
What is talking dirty? - 7/14/2021

I love to talk dirty before, during and after sex and masturbation but talking dirty seems to mean different things to different people. What I really enjoy is describing in detail my fantasies or what I really want to do/have done to me there and then ie I want you to cum inside my hot, tight little cunt or you feel really big, can you feel me squeezing you...? I'm cumming round your ...

18 response(s), 81 votes
notenufluvin4me 52 M
3  questions
Does species really matter? - 7/14/2021

One time I made my girlfriend mad...so mad she decided to mince my member. It was so bad that the doctors couldn't save it. Since there were no penile donors nearby, they had to look at "alternate" solutions. Turns out a farmer nearby had to put a down, and since they had no other choice... <br> I couldn't believe it myself at first, either. Why would a doctor sugically ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
Imasexyguy2005 58 M
3  questions
Should............?!?!?!?!?!? - 7/14/2021

SHOULD A COUPLE STAYED MARRIED FOR THE LOVE OF THE OR NOT?????? <br> EVEN IF WE LOVE THEM THAT MUCH, AS TO SACRIFICE OUR LIFES WITH SOMEONE YOUR NOT HAPPY BEING MARRIED TO. <br> THANKS TO ALL.

7 response(s), 2 votes
rm_pavy_555 49 M
16  questions
should porn be censored - 7/14/2021

i had got an outstanding response when i asked about the real need for the right sexual education we also in the forum came to an common ultimatum that pornography could give negative education <br> lets put this question on the dice how important it is to censor pornography In china they have put a ban on watching porn here in india DAY BY DAY ITS INSECURE to watch porn in ...

19 response(s), 46 votes
rm_pavy_555 49 M
16  questions
the importance of sexual education - 7/14/2021

out here , i see that many youth in search sexual education during their teens go in to pornographic sites that show sometimes more of sexual expoitation in a erratic way here sexual education is not taught to during the teenage and that could pave in for misery as students learn false knowledge through pornography etc parents are concerned do u think learning the right sexual ...

10 response(s), 19 votes
when has it gone to far!!! - 7/14/2021

ok i have this friend he is just a sex friend.. and we don't meet all the time not even every week.. but about a week ago i was stayin at a friends house, he calls at 3am. and says i will b over to ur place in 2 mins to fuck.. well i guess the first place i messed up was lettin him know where i live.. but anyway.. i told him i wasn't home, that i was at a friends.. he said ok well then i ...

6 response(s), 2 votes
sharesherry4all 57 F
1  question
Am I messing her up? - 7/14/2021

I am a single mother of a 17 year old , I am sexually active and as open as I think I can be, but I do not always tell her of my encounters even when she ask directly. Do I need to tell her or my encounters or am I entitled to my privacy. Of course I am very inquisitive of her and her relationships. Do I owe her the same openess and honesty I expect? If so would I be setting an example that ...

10 response(s), 6 votes
rm_rapkins 37 M
1  question
nice guys? - 7/14/2021

This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
OMG_Lizzy 66 F
0  questions
Is everyone aware of female condoms?? - 7/14/2021

I hear it all the time, especially from my 's friends (they ask me all sorts of questions like I'm "The Sunday Night Sex Show" host) that they or their partner can't or won't wear condoms cause of the lack of sensation or cause they makes them go limp or blah blah blah. Most are simply excuses but there is a very simple way to solve the problem, the girl/woman can wear a femdom, a female ...

4 response(s), 8 votes
T7hOmas 59 M
1  question
T7hOmas is back....Problem 2..i think not ! - 7/14/2021

Hi folks, looks like a different approach is required. For all of you that replied to my last posting...thank you one and all...some of the replies were really funny...good senses of humour out there...though some of you really need to pop a chill pill lay back and smell the Java baby....even though the majority of you do not like the sound of me and my problems....I am back ! Two ...

4 response(s), 1 vote
rm_BigDnLady 40 C
25  questions
Pregnant pussy? - 7/14/2021

Ok!! Here is the thing, I just saw this really sexy pregnant woman, and was looking at my own and truly enjoyed being pregnant!! But my question is rooted in something an ex of mine use to tell me about fucking a pregnant woman! He said it was nothing like it, that it was even wetter and it was just hot to fuck a pregnant woman!! (We had sex the entire time I was pregnant!) <br> ...

6 response(s), 1 vote
denia78 45 F
11  questions
what makes someone a sugar daddy or sugar mama? - 7/14/2021

i get asked this alot and contrary to popular belief asking for one does not make u a ...think of it this way...geishas catered to men and were some of the highest paid women in japan...well for me i think of it as a relationship without the hassles...call me a mistress or even a ...courtesans weren't hookers either by the way...they received gifts from wealthy suitors...many fell in love ...

10 response(s), 42 votes
on vasectomy - 7/14/2021

I'm a judge on diverce cases and the ratio of split tails comeing into my cort with another mans is woping 3/4% for some slow people out there is 75 out of 100 are raised by a good loveing father but the real father was denied hi rights to see there because condom broke or they didn't have one and she couldn't keep her leggs closed and the men they had done there deeds with think ...

23 response(s), 39 votes
ouch that hurts - 7/14/2021

why don't more men in the field of play get vasec it hurts but not that much and it isn't that much you can get them if you pay up front for $700 or less just have to have soft sex for the first week or so then you don't have to worrie about getting a call telling you that your reqested at a lab for a sample I have seen it happen and end up paying for a you didn't want to make and face ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
icewineroses 63 F
17  questions
Why is it that everytime we women go to the restroom - 7/14/2021

we meet other women, exchange recipes, talk about , about sex or even make new friends. A man just goes in and does his business and leaves. I'm curious to know your responses?

10 response(s), 5 votes
kym0862 60 F
9  questions
And you wonder why the ratio of men to women is so high - 7/14/2021

This question is for the guys. I know a lot of guys think that because a women puts up a profile on this site that you are in affect advertising themselves as a type of , and feels that it gives them the right to treat the woman on this site anyway they want to. <br> So my question is for the guys that think this way. Why do you think that any women that puts up a profile on ...

10 response(s), 10 votes
Am I Free Of Him Now? - 7/14/2021

I posted a question last month about my ex-fiance. He at the time was currently in jail for domestic violence and of me. He was just recently released a couple of days ago. He still has a sentencing hearing to attend but took a plea. I still have a few items that belong to him but do not know where to send it. Some of it is furniture. I am surrounded by the gifts he gave and I love. But ...

11 response(s), 6 votes
Is it ever okay to cheat? - 7/14/2021

This is really aimed at the females, but male input works too. My wife has lost interest in sex completely after the birth of our . I mean zero interest. After months of abstinence and years of talking about her waning interest, I have decided to try to find a mistress or girlfriend or homewrecker (you choose the word). Technically, I know this is wrong, but I am tired of no sex or ...

8 response(s), 3 votes
DarangeDaddy 44,1943 C
2  questions
Who should pay??? - 7/14/2021

If males wasnt so horny all the time. And females were. Would they pay for sex? See guys were dumb, for I used to be dumb. Pussy the same. There's a slit, It get wet and we break your backs to please females. But dick comes in different sizes right? I mean there thick ones, long ones, short ones, to Uh-Huh(too big). Just think for a minute now..... You know you got a big dick, and females ...

8 response(s), 64 votes
Married men--have you ever fallen in love with your lover? - 7/14/2021

I'm curious to know if the married men on this site have ever had a lover that they fell in love with--enough to make them possibly want to leave their marriage. And the question that piggybacks onto this--try to be honest--why do you stay married if you are not finding your marriage fulfilling? I'm not sure I buy the excuse that you love your wife but need to find sex elsewhere. Is it ...

6 response(s), 3 votes
kym0862 60 F
9  questions
And you wonder why the ratio of men to women is so high - 7/14/2021

This question is for the guys. I know alot of guys think that because a women puts up a profile on this site that you are in affect advertising themselves as a type of , and feels that it gives them the right to treat the woman on this site anyway they want to. <br> So my question is for the guys that think this way. Why do you think that any women that puts up a profile on ...

3 response(s), 1 vote