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YourFingers2 60 M
2  questions
Sending pics, making sure that aren't receiving them. Best practices? - 10/5/2018

I wouldn't intentionally send a suggestive picture to any youth. Though the question arises of making sure of the person on the other end of a chat about their age. Some 15 years ago and on American Sex Dates, I'm sure that during a chat there was a law enforcement officer on the other end posing as an as "she" claimed to be, I ended the chat and suggested that she stay away from the ...

28 response(s), 36 votes
Cam Problems - 10/5/2018

Anyone else having this problem? Gold member, but when watching cam's, the image is quickly blocked saying the person is no longer broadcasting... yet, you can click of the person's cam, click back on and there they are again...

13 response(s), 15 votes
horsestud6969 43 M
3  questions
cant view members webcam - 10/5/2018

hello about 2 weeks ago for whatever reason ive stopped being able to view members webcams. i click on the cam it takes 45 sec to a minute opening the page and says that person is no longer broadcasting. any ideas?

14 response(s), 12 votes
Rkokev89 34 M
2  questions
Getting people to respond ? - 10/4/2018

I'm having no luck in talking to people on this site so there for I'm not getting any dates or hook ups and advice

32 response(s), 53 votes
Rkokev89 34 M
2  questions
Having no luck on reply and hooking up any advice? About to throw in the towel - 10/4/2018

Having no luck in meeting or hooking up any advice starting to think this wasn't a good idea

23 response(s), 31 votes
pss13 60 M
1  question
scams - 10/3/2018

Are most of the views/nitifications on this site scammers, 1 pic always short similar message & an seperate contac details not through the sitet

26 response(s), 36 votes
Curiousthatsall9 50 F
5  questions
Sexual Assault and Online Dating - 10/3/2018

How many people have been sexually assaulted by someone they met here or on a similar site? I never see it discussed but I am SURE it must happen given the nature of what's going on here. It hasn't happened to me, although I have had a few creepy stalker type incidents that stopped short of actual physical danger. I realize that people who meet off of a sex site are putting themselves out ...

36 response(s), 76 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
Swinger Party Chaperone - 10/3/2018

Since I started my membership here, I've been contacted by many single men, asking me if I'd attend swingers parties with them. I'm aware of the parties, and know that they usually don't allow single males to attend. I'm also aware that I, as a single female, and especially being bisexual, am usually welcomed, even without a partner. I'm a little annoyed by this for two ...

15 response(s), 35 votes
johnnymarko987 37 M
1  question
How old were you the first time? - 10/3/2018

Always a curiousity of mine meeting new people. How old were you the first time you had sex? How old was your partner?

2 response(s), 3 votes
jtdouglas 29 M
3  questions
Older women advice - 10/1/2018

Lately I have been trying to meet and have some fun with older women.. Failing hard. Any advice on how to meet some older women.. and make some great nights

36 response(s), 75 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Would you... - 10/1/2018

agree the sky is green if absolutely everyone in your life insisted it was and every random stranger you asked said green? <br><br> I know this question isn't serious but doesn't mean it cannot be of interest or won't generate conversation. <br><br> Personally I would agree with them because I do not always have to be right and it is an innocuous thing to agree ...

32 response(s), 52 votes
NEVTcouple 38 C
1  question
Confirm Id for couples - 10/1/2018

So as a couple if we confirm ID, do we just do it once with one ID or do we have to submit two?

16 response(s), 19 votes
Dan4fun30 54 M
2  questions
cheeting. - 9/30/2018

question for the people who don't believe in cheeting. how would you cope with poor to none sex life when married and not want to change your life, but your sex drive is high and thurst for pussy is strong.

33 response(s), 52 votes
Dan4fun30 54 M
2  questions
cheeting. - 9/30/2018

question for the people who don't believe in cheeting. how would you cope with poor to none sex life when married and not want to change your life, but your sex drive is high and thurst for pussy is strong.

1 response(s), 0 votes
funstik74 50 M
1  question
Involving my mate - 9/29/2018

I have had a profile on here for couple of years, recently my girlfriend asked to be included. Should we edit our personal profiles or just start a brand new one?

21 response(s), 37 votes
undermythong 43 F
51  questions
How long do you think? - 9/29/2018

How long could you go without having sex for some people it might be easy for me it would be rough .It would be like people giving up smoking they get so tense.

34 response(s), 66 votes
rm_makemepurr34 50 F
3  questions
Broadcasting...Should I? - 9/29/2018

This is question is to both men and women who broadcast. <br><br> Is it actually worth it for someone like me to broadcast? Are there alot of tips? Do they even generally tip? What advice can anyone give me on this? Any and all comments/suggestions are welcomed and are respected. Thanks! 💋 ~Purr~

31 response(s), 69 votes
rm_makemepurr34 50 F
3  questions
Broadcasting...Should I? - 9/29/2018

This is question is to both men and women who broadcast. <br><br> Is it actually worth it for someone like me to broadcast? Are there alot of tips? Do they even generally tip? What advice can anyone give me on this? Any and all comments/suggestions are welcomed and are respected. Thanks! 💋 ~Purr~

1 response(s), 0 votes
rm_makemepurr34 50 F
3  questions
Do you participate in the Fans program? Ok. Another question please. - 9/29/2018

So I participate in the Fans program. I like it. I think it can be a unique way of getting someone's attention on here. It does get mine and we all know I like attention. Alot of it. It's what like 50 points to be someone's fan? If u become my fan, I always return the favor and become your fan as well. Usually I'll become your top fan. I think it's just a nice gesture. ...

24 response(s), 32 votes
goldfobeo 29 M
2  questions
how about - 9/29/2018

how come thier are not many women that are nineties babies that swallow

3 response(s), 11 votes
goldfobeo 29 M
2  questions
oral sex - 9/29/2018

what is the best technek for eat pussy

13 response(s), 18 votes
gsockrider 60 M
1  question
Where are the younger women who like older men? - 9/28/2018

I am 60 and I have been on American Sex Dates for a couple years

16 response(s), 32 votes
Mrtoyforu 36 M
1  question
how to tell some one you never been whit any one and you have no experience? - 9/28/2018

I never had a girl friend when I was younger. I all way's thought there was something wrong with me cause I was a little kinky ladies underwear things in holes not necessary hers. My family was all so kinda religious . saying this was wrong that's not right. Know i'm 31 depressed and lonely.

21 response(s), 25 votes
gettincocksME 45 F
2  questions
Fakes? - 9/28/2018

Hubby and I have been seeking hard for a honest guy or 2 guy's for real life FWB and nothing. What gives?

24 response(s), 39 votes
albanynycouple51 63 C
8  questions
theme sex halloween partys post em - 9/28/2018

halloween partys in areas post em let others know where to go for halloween xxx fun.

8 response(s), 22 votes
redplate123 32 M
3  questions
One finger - 9/27/2018

Do girls like the shocker ( 2 in the pink 1 in the stink) or would you prefer nothing enter your asshole?

25 response(s), 56 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
Testimonials.... - 9/26/2018

I've neither received, nor posted any testimonials. My understanding is that they can be read by the receiver and then posted to their profile or deleted. It's also my understanding that testimonials can be given and received between gold and standard members. If that's true, couldn't the testimonials be used as a form of communication between standard and gold members without ...

20 response(s), 40 votes
Extraplusfun 47 F
1  question
Any widows or widowers her? - 9/26/2018

I am a recent widow and was wondering how many other people here are Wid's and just starting over again?

21 response(s), 27 votes
somethingthing 47 M
1  question
do you love sucking cock - 9/25/2018

pretty straight forward, do you love a cock in your mouth

26 response(s), 41 votes
So any women out there that are married to or dating a bi man? - 9/25/2018

What is it like to be with a bi man? What are the benefits to you women in dating a bi man sex or other?

14 response(s), 29 votes