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Time4Pleasure3 48 C
0  questions
What to do when the catch you? - 7/10/2021

OK...we are parents of 3 amazing ages 10, 2, and 8 months. We definately have to hide our lifestyle from them, but what do you do if or when they find out? What do you tell them? I know I have a while before questions start getting asked by my 10 yr old, but I want to be prepared for when she does. Is there anyone out there with some kind of advice or experience with this matter? Any ...

11 response(s), 12 votes
Gays And Lesibians - 7/10/2021

I have a real serious question now Iam not agaist Gays ANd Lesibians there are somethings I dont get when it comes to tv eveb though its not real on tv how come most movies or tv shows broadcast 2 women lovers and a you see this all the time what you dont see is 2 men in any movies or tv with their own except roseann that is so weird there might movies and tv shows with 2 men and a ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
jewish_princess2 45 F
0  questions
OLDER WOMEN AND YOUNGER GUYS - 7/10/2021

I've always had a strong attractio to young teens and could never understand why it's frowned on. Performing oral sex on a young is the most addicting thing I know. Am I alone? Francine Shron

23 response(s), 41 votes
Between Fun And Moral Judgement - 7/10/2021

I don't know why I have always ended up like this... having fun then fallen in love. I don't mind falling in love with an attached woman... either she have a boyfriend or engaged. But Married woman? Definitely not. But in this case I did. <br> Yes I love having fun and sex... especially with woman who have a naughty character. But somehow when I met this woman... I fell in love ...

10 response(s), 9 votes
Materialism as a Substitute - 7/10/2021

Why do we substitute material possessions for physical and emotional depravation? As it seems, most of us want the bigger house, the newest cars, etc. and are willing to sacrifice time with our families, friends, girlfriends, boyfriends, whoever in order to get them. Working 50-60hrs a week to have a nice car sit in the parking lot at work... Getting our playstations, cellphones, etc. to ...

15 response(s), 18 votes
rm_bushwackah 49 M
0  questions
Anyone on here looking to breed? - 7/10/2021

Feel like that's a sci-fi direction for all of this.. I'll go ahead and answer. Yes, I'm looking to breed. Here and everywhere. The more 'mother of our ' she's got in her, the better it's gonna be. period.

13 response(s), 10 votes
serious advice only - 7/10/2021

my best friend for like 8years has a bf and knew him for 4yrs before dating and in those 4yrs his father saw her once. and now she has gained like 25-30 lbs and the first time he saw her he said "i remember u being tiny what happened" and to be 100% honest she still looks really good but his dad then went as far as putting a magazine in her face and saying didnt you used to look like her? ...

11 response(s), 3 votes
NaughtyNurseMn 44 F
9  questions
The perfect way to spend Christmas? - 7/10/2021

Ok, loved to hear everyone's responses to the ultimate Christmas gift. Very well done! <br> How about this... Tell me the perfect way to spend Christmas? <br> For me... waking up to Mr. Claus stimulating me under the covers, then a wild romp with him before getting up to already made hot coffee, happy , and a house full of love and happiness. As I look out the window... ...

3 response(s), 8 votes
oldtownredhead 37 F
4  questions
Pathetic. Is this common? - 7/10/2021

I've not been on here long. I'm really surprised at the number of e-mails I get. especially considering my profile says that I'm not interested in hooking up though I do add the never say never caveat. Well, that's fine. If a guy is particularly nice or seems to deserve a reply I write one to him. If someone sends me a pic of his equipment and says "Great profile, let's fuck." I extend him ...

22 response(s), 15 votes
Do people really want honesty? - 7/10/2021

Say a woman wants money. She makes you feel good about yourself both in bed and out in the real world. If she is willing to have whatever level of commitment you want, but is honest about believing in open relationships and safe sex (the open relationship part applies to you both). If all of this is true then does it bother you to give her money? After all, she was honest about what she ...

7 response(s), 9 votes
blondebelow 54 M
16  questions
holiday reminder - 7/10/2021

Why do men usually drive. <br> In most relationships I have seen, the men have been the default driver. Why? <br> Both men and women alike seem to accept that men will carry the family home, struggle through inclement weather, brave the highways... <br> Why??? <br> My ex-wife was as good a driver as I was. Maybe better (hell, you'll never tell)! I ...

17 response(s), 22 votes
sexmarathoneer 59 M
0  questions
what you would do - 7/10/2021

I Jack helped you off your , , , would you help Jack-off his .... Gotta Dr. Ruth...LOL

13 response(s), 18 votes
Body - 7/10/2021

I always thought it would be great to have a girl come over and just let me eat her ass and pussy while I jack off or she blows me then leave. Only dirty talk exchanged. It would be like getting it on with a stranger. I guess it would take a real exibitionist just to come over turn a guy on with her body and get him off then leave to let him beat it. And I don't mean just using a ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Why most of you can show your faces? - 7/10/2021

Well, probably because most of you are married, a or probaby molester. You probably some of those people that be having sex with horses since you like something that is so big. To that person I'm sorry I can't leave no more messages.

11 response(s), 20 votes
being lied to - 7/10/2021

why is it that a guy, u meet asks u out on a date, u go out with him for about 2 months. u hook up with him and your with him. you have a together. and your together 3 yrs. your inlove with him. and he up and starts seeing some one else behind your back and 3 months later u find out and u leave and he gets married to the woman and your stuck raising the boy by yourself. what happend i have ...

2 response(s), 4 votes
spankme2times2 65 M
41  questions
the need to be carefull! - 7/10/2021

Paul Runge trail begins soon, he is accused of killing 7 women, 6 of them will under survailance by the police and F.B.I., soem of the women he met answering for sale ads. Jeffry Dalmer certenly was a nightmare date, and Ed Gein was the inspiration for pyshco, the texas chain saw murders, and the silence of the lambs, No one knows for sure but it is believed there are over a hundren mass ...

10 response(s), 21 votes
FantasticVoyag69 71 M
8  questions
Generous? - 7/10/2021

Okay --- so often I see in a profile that the ideal person for this profile is one who is "generous." Why do I always get the feeling that the people who write this just want a sugar daddy? Or are looking for pay-to-play? Otherwise known as .

11 response(s), 13 votes
justasimplegirll 65 F
2  questions
I screwed up..... - 7/10/2021

ur all great......... I screwed up..... 1/30/2006: I should have made it clearer...we didn't go on the trip. He asked me to go on a trip and was talken about places to go. but he also said he wanted me to cook him supper but the day I was he couldn't come and said he would let me know when....he never did....I asked him to come to my house before the trip ..my would like ...

6 response(s), 13 votes
mister_1973 49 M
41  questions
what to do ? - 7/10/2021

i found out yesterday that one of my best friends (male friend) is bi. was sure that hi is 300% hetro, we went together to a swingers club and he talked to a bi couple which are good friends of mine. i warned them at the beginning of the evening that he is st8 like a roman road and to treat me like a hetro. then they came to me all happy saying he told them that he is bi, but i must not ...

7 response(s), 6 votes
wikidlynaughty 39 F
6  questions
power trip - 7/10/2021

Monica gave President Bill a blowjob, which resulted in Big Al not using the President in his campaign, which caused Mr. Gore to lose a number of states that he easily could have won, which gave Dubya the Presidency, which allowed Dubya to nominate environmental- Mommy Gale Norton as Secretary of the Interior, which will give her the power to open up millions of acres of ...

24 response(s), 62 votes
What does it take? - 7/10/2021

Hello. I've been a judgemental, on a high-, hyppocryte motherfucker most of my life. Now however, that I know this, and am working hard to change it, my life has become even more complitated. I've always told the truth, but it was for shock value only. For example, I used to tell people I sucked cock even though I didn't. NOT because it was true, but because I used it as a way to fuck with ...

15 response(s), 13 votes
How to survive in a marriage without sexual fulfillment? - 7/10/2021

Serious question here, how do you survive a marriage in the long run with no chance for sexual happiness? <br> Now I know alot of people would just say get out. Save yourself. But with , it's just not possible. For me at least. For years I have been holding on to to hope for more from my wife, but last week she just slammed the door on those hopes. Yes, I am still having sex. ...

13 response(s), 13 votes
rm_iluvsemen 53 F
2  questions
Background check - 7/10/2021

Anyone know a good and prove way checking a person's background? I'm sure most members are complying with the laws of society, but I sure as hell don't want to learn the hard way by encountering a bad situation ie molester, , etc. I'm not worried about a person with a history of bad driving. I am concerned if a person claims they were incarcerated for 10 years because they wrote a few ...

20 response(s), 18 votes
welhung691973 40 G
0  questions
American Sex Dates AND DOUBLE STANDARDS? - 7/10/2021

Why is it that so many men have their double standards on this site and others about women expressing their fantasy's, do's and don'ts? A friend of mine has just done that and has had men disrespect her on many levels from being called a and slut.This really upsets me, not just bcause she is a friend of mine but she is honest and uninhibited when it comes to who she is.Also that in this ...

4 response(s), 9 votes
rm_iluvsemen 53 F
2  questions
Am I A Bad Girl??? - 7/10/2021

I have made some responses to men's "questions" that were actually statements about THE WAY to eat pussy or if it's "wrong" to fist a vagina. I used the phrase that they must have watched too many "documentary skin flicks". The phrase cause my responses to be rejected. 3 words: instead of eloquent verbage like how silly for a man to claim his method of eating a pussy makes ...

21 response(s), 36 votes
scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Ladies to Hoes..... - 7/10/2021

What do you women prefer to be refered to?? You call oneanother girls, but men don't call oneanother boys. Some women aren't ladies and (unfortunately) some ladies aren't women!!LOL!! I hate the term . It's so derogitory (sp, maybe) and never use it in any way. Do you consider yourself a woman, lady, chick, babe, darlin' (for us Southerners), Lil' Honey or just the generic female??? ...

9 response(s), 8 votes
rm_101101001 58 C
22  questions
If you want the job and it’s money you have to be… - 7/10/2021

There are a lot of really good paying jobs with benefits (no pun intended) out there that require one to be free from several diseases like Hepatitis, HIV, Tuberculosis, epilepsy, congestive heart failure, so on and so on. If you were required to be HIV (and other diseases) negative to get and keep that job. Like a graduate of nursing school attempting to get your nursing license, or ...

6 response(s), 7 votes
rm_happydaze67 58 M
0  questions
SUMMER NIGHT - 7/10/2021

I know this park that has a river and when You first drive in there is a bridge. One night I would like to sneak in and park on the bridge. Open all the window in the car to hear the rushing water, to relive the feeling of being a in the back seat of a car. Remember the way our hearts used to race the shortness of breath from the kiss of a stranger. The way My hand would find it way to Her ...

4 response(s), 7 votes
spankme2times2 65 M
41  questions
how many times? - 7/10/2021

what happen to flower power? what happen to make love not war? what if they gave a war and nobody came? how did the love generation grow up and let our go off to war? will we ever learn?

12 response(s), 16 votes
rm_EasyEd694fun 57 M
2  questions
Not your normal question for this site - 7/10/2021

I know this isn't the normal question for this site, being it has nothing to do with sex. However, I do believe there are some very insightful people on this site and I wanted to pick their brain so to speak. My question is this, "Why do women who by all other accounts of themselves are strong willed, determined, intelligent, self reliant. They state repeatedly that their are their ...

15 response(s), 20 votes