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Grocery store pickup - 1/21/2019

Has anyone gotten laid after meeting someone at the grocery store? If so, how did it come about?

31 response(s), 39 votes
HappyBeachBoy 63 M
2  questions
In Your View, What is the BEST thing about receiving "Road Head" - 1/21/2019

Everyone like Road head right? Of course they do. Aside from the adventure, in your view, what is the BEST thing about getting or giving road head?

33 response(s), 34 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
black dicks - 1/21/2019

do ladies prefer blacks didcks to any other

12 response(s), 50 votes
Brrrr.... Its 12 degrees below freezing in Philly. How do you get warm? - 1/21/2019

To my hubby: remind me again why we moved here from California ? ...

27 response(s), 32 votes
Bigmmm3939 44 M
2  questions
Who here has had fun. - 1/21/2019

How many of you have actually met up and had fun? I hope you all have had some good times.

31 response(s), 40 votes
NottyNum50 56 M
1  question
hotlist quirk - 1/21/2019

anyone gone to access their hotlist and found like 10-15 profiles that they didn't add and cant remove permanently in their hotlist ?

15 response(s), 27 votes
psylckr520 40 M
2  questions
Joke - 1/21/2019

Did you hear that Lorena Bobbitt almost died in a car crash recently? <br><br> Some dick cut her off.

6 response(s), 21 votes
Mwn25813 29 M
2  questions
Is anyone real - 1/21/2019

Why does everyone on here seem fake

39 response(s), 49 votes
Mwn25813 29 M
2  questions
Is anyone real - 1/21/2019

Why does everyone on here seem fake

1 response(s), 3 votes
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

29 response(s), 47 votes
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

1 response(s), 1 vote
Crystaltite100 35 T
1  question
Why do secret flings feel so good? - 1/20/2019

I don't know what it is but having a secret sex partner who nobody knows about is so damn hot

42 response(s), 42 votes
undermythong 43 F
51  questions
What would upset you more? - 1/20/2019

OK for the men first what would upset you more if your wife left you for another man or she left you for another women? For the women what would upset you more if your husband left you for another women or for another man?

45 response(s), 52 votes
Skippy975369 44 M
1  question
Girth. Or length? - 1/20/2019

Dying to know ladies..

44 response(s), 46 votes
howdydoodyXLII 53 M
3  questions
I want to get back at Olivia (if that's her real name) - 1/19/2019

Almost 4 years ago I was taken advantage of by a woman I started chatting with here on American Sex Dates. Her name was Olivia. I was so naive back then, thinking I was actually going to get something out of it besides an empty wallet. It was one of your basic situations where she lied about living close to me and wanted to meet me, but first she had to leave the country on a "business trip". Turns ...

32 response(s), 42 votes
smalldikkk 61 M
1  question
Ambassador Rant - 1/19/2019

According to American Sex Dates you recently viewed my profile. Although you did not reach out to me I (Andrea) wanted to acknowledge that you at least looked. I appreciate you looking however per my very specific profile criteria I am not interested. But thanks again for looking. <br><br> I looked at their pictures. I look at a lot of pictures. That doesn't mean I'm the least bit ...

40 response(s), 44 votes
fandangochick 46 F
2  questions
Married Men and Women - 1/19/2019

Should married men and women share details of past sexual experiences? <br><br> It can be a turn on of course...what do you all think.

39 response(s), 50 votes
fandangochick 46 F
2  questions
Married Men and Women - 1/19/2019

Should married men and women share details of past sexual experiences? <br><br> It can be a turn on of course...what do you all think.

2 response(s), 1 vote
Bobceefsd 58 M
2  questions
Couples that aren’t really couple. - 1/19/2019

I am always interested in connecting with a male/female couple. It seems like most of the m/f couple that will chat with me immediately go to “are you bi”. Then go further asking to play solo. Then finally say my wife doesn’t play any more. Why not just have an accurate profile? Has anyone else ran into this or is it just me?

23 response(s), 26 votes
Are details not important? - 1/18/2019

Why is it so hard for people to fill out their profile details and keep them up to date? This does include pictures. We keep our profile and pictures updated and wish others did too. Why have a picture that is 10 years old before you add it to the profile and then 5 years later, it still there and appears in the main flow. Keeping it all updated, will help others match up with you easier ...

42 response(s), 64 votes
Seeingwantsome 35 M
1  question
What was the most akward yet most exciting play you've have sex? - 1/18/2019

This is a quest I am asking to find out in I'm way out there or just plain like sex. Mine was in a confession booth in a Catholic church with a nune

24 response(s), 30 votes
Bradwontstop33 27 M
1  question
Why people get ignored - 1/18/2019

Why would people ignore other people for no reason

25 response(s), 29 votes
muffin_guy 57 M
1  question
why - 1/18/2019

Lots of people post here for the points, so why do people feel the need to respond with smug answers just "let it go" like Elsa says

29 response(s), 46 votes
lotoload69 72 C
1  question
Urologist on board? - 1/17/2019

would love to chat with a doc about ED and side effects from it

17 response(s), 29 votes
What is your favorite thing to do in bed? - 1/17/2019

What is is your favorite thing to do in bed ? Anal? Or whatever I curious

49 response(s), 53 votes
CurvyCouplePNW 31 C
2  questions
Am I weird, or is this rude? - 1/17/2019

In all the time I (the male half, for future reference) have been looking for someone to have fun with, at least 80 percent of the time when I send a message, they ignore it. Maybe it doesn't bother most people, but it bothers me. Ladies, if you're not interested, please tell me so. I won't be mad; a little disappointed, sure, but not mad. And besides, as people falsely insist, there ...

53 response(s), 86 votes
AnewWoman 65 F
139  questions
Buzzmode? - 1/17/2019

I've accumulated a lot of points here at American Sex Dates, so I decided to use a few and get myself one of those buzz toys. I think it was something like 75000 points, but saved me $70 by not having to purchase one. Of course I had to try the thing out. Let me say wow. It is one of the best vibes I've used in a long time. Along with being able to use it while on webcam in buzzmode here, you can also ...

31 response(s), 64 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
tverescdzdrsvr - 1/16/2019

hello how are you

18 response(s), 27 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
reyu657wiie - 1/16/2019

hello how are you

4 response(s), 21 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
hghahgthbfgb - 1/16/2019

hello how are you

4 response(s), 16 votes