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WyoCowboy7751 66 M
3  questions
I'm Lost ...... - 3/31/2020

In the last several weeks; I have noticed Blog replies that have just 869 or eight six nine or other numbers only !! What is that all about ??

1 response(s), 5 votes
bigthrills7 58 M
2  questions
Score 5.1
Home page question - 3/31/2020

Lately I've noticed that when I'm on my home page after logging in, I see member's photos that are online in a grid pattern...I used to be able to move my cursor over a member's photo and a sneak peek of their profile comes up in a small window...lately I've noticed that when I do this now, no profile window shows up...I have to actually click on the photo and a whole new ...

25 response(s), 18 votes
lyavu 46 F
27  questions
Score 4.3
SEXUAL CONNECTION OR FRIENDSHIP - 3/31/2020

I have been on the site for so long . I have talked and met so many nice and interesting guys . There some people you have a sexual connection and some a friendship connection. Besude sexual connection am glad i made some good friends too . Sexual connection can happen online but not in person because of chemistry and attraction. Why do people get upset when you say your not interested? I would ...

39 response(s), 28 votes
Lakedemon72 72 M
2  questions
Anal Sex - 3/31/2020

I still have my ass cherry but am considering giving it . Do you normally cum when being ass fucked without jacking off?

12 response(s), 15 votes
Lakedemon72 72 M
2  questions
Anal Sex - 3/29/2020

I still have my ass cherry but am considering giving it . Do you normally cum when being ass fucked without jacking off?

1 response(s), 1 vote
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
labels? - 3/29/2020

When I was 15 [nearly 47 years ago] my best friend and I "experimented" in boy boy sex. Both of us are now married women and have no desire for man man sex. Are we still labeled as "bi"? Should my profile be listed as bi? Is there a statue of limitation on this? <br><br> If a man only wants recieve oral is he bi/gay? We laughed when we first heard the term ...

18 response(s), 9 votes
Silkymadness 52 C
5  questions
Score 5.1
Is American Sex Dates being realistic in their expectations? Are they being fair in their actions? - 3/29/2020

Ok here is the situation. We received this message for American Sex Dates in our American Sex Dates mailbox <br><br> Dear Silkymadness, <br><br> Your Icebreaker has been approved and your Gold membership has been activated. You're all set. <br><br> Gold membership gets you unlimited access to photos, profiles, and videos, plus unlimited emails and flirts. ...

30 response(s), 26 votes
johndickra 28 M
1  question
Score 3.1
How to get a partner here? - 3/29/2020

Hey, How get a partner here?

18 response(s), 16 votes
gabra007 34 M
2  questions
Score 3.4
Gold or VIP<// - 3/29/2020

What is the difference between Gold or VIP<// membership???<//

15 response(s), 14 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Manage Desires - 3/29/2020

At times like this, suspect this is not always easy. Talked to a local guy today, since he is a neglected married business man, it is not always easy to find a date for us to meet. OMG he is smooth, he had me going, how could a woman say NO to him if she has a desire for skin2skin love, even in days of the Wuhan flu. If I would not have live-in boy friends, I don’t think I could ...

14 response(s), 22 votes
lyavu 46 F
27  questions
Score 4.3
COVID19 OR SEX? - 3/28/2020

Wow .. i think people are not serious.This is real. NBC just announced one of there production personnel just died from the COVID19. It is sad but amazing how people still don't get the reality with the death rate in Italy surpassing china. I like sex so much but with this i would choose life. Some guys are insanely mad when you tell them you can't meet .i know the dick will ...

95 response(s), 62 votes
bigthrills7 58 M
2  questions
Score 5.1
Do women really get lucky on here?? - 3/28/2020

Just wondering about all the women on here that are single and have ads. Not that I would look for one but curious to know if they're willing to have some guy come over to their house for hot sex. Is it that simple for many? I mean, that's what the guys on here do, with other guys but do single ladies take a chance and do it? To me it doesn't seem like it would be that easy....or safe ...

27 response(s), 18 votes
Jakov150 55 M
1  question
Is anything actually taboo anymore? - 3/28/2020

Social standards change all the time and I am no arbiter of morality. Given the proliferation of online sex services, entrainment and escapism, is anything actually taboo anymore sexually? I know I now consider (not necessarily doing ) things I would not have 20 years ago sexually. But is it seeping into our ever diminishing social interactions as well?

39 response(s), 28 votes
dragonuevo_2020 46 M
2  questions
Score 2.4
Donde estan las chicas que me quieren ver en cam !! - 3/28/2020

Hay damas a las que les interese jugar cam x cam ? Aprovechemos ahora en cuarentena !!!

5 response(s), 7 votes
rm_castlemun1 55 C
2  questions
curious - 3/27/2020

does anybody know what rm means when it is used in front of a username?

24 response(s), 21 votes
virus - 3/27/2020

Anybody getting paranoid about this virus going around? Does it change your lifestyle any?

41 response(s), 24 votes
gabra007 34 M
2  questions
Score 3.4
Gold or VIP<// - 3/27/2020

What is the difference between Gold or VIP<// membership???<//

2 response(s), 0 votes
Jakov150 55 M
1  question
How have you been affected personally by Covid19? - 3/27/2020

I was driving around yesterday after work and everything felt like a surreal scene from a dystopic science fiction movie. Restaurants and businesses closed, fewer and fewer planes overhead, and a sense that the worst has not even begun. Yes, I am still horny but practicing social distancing. Still lucky to be employed but sympathetic to those who are not. Watching unemployment claims jump ...

17 response(s), 15 votes
egypharoh21 21 M
1  question
virgin boy who is having sex with a hot mature woman after several month as we planned - 3/26/2020

I never had sex or even got my dick sucked and I wish to perform good and not cum to fast any advice?

23 response(s), 22 votes
weerrhuu 61 C
5  questions
Score 1.3
Dick Length? - 3/26/2020

No, this is not one of the much over asked dick size questions' <br><br> In keeping safe from the spread of the novel Corona virus, health originations are suggesting we all practice and maintain SOCIAL DISTANCE. <br><br> So we are thinking that means at least a dick length apart or more. <br><br> How are you handling the process of meeting new people from ...

49 response(s), 53 votes
DocManther 56 M
1  question
Deep throat skill question? Seriously - 3/26/2020

Is this skill easy because one has a wide esophagus? Or does one train the throat to allow this. My wife has ZERO gag reflex...good right...but just can't get it to go down. She really wants to, but can't. I've never had it so u don't know how to guide her...I'm not going to slam it down.. LOL Any serious help would be greatly appreciated. <br><br> I

28 response(s), 12 votes
FFU22018 53 F
17  questions
Score 12.1
Ask Me - 3/24/2020

I received a message from a guy today. It said, "Check out my profile, and if interested, let me know". So, I open his profile. There is no picture. The "information" section is filled out, but the "Introduction" is only one sentence. "Not sure what to say...ask." <br><br> I've seen this profile style quite a few times. If one of these ...

47 response(s), 44 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Anxiety - 3/24/2020

How do you deal with anxiety? My thoughts are with my friends Ali & Cyrous all the time, I am so worry about them, the virus is a big deal in Europe and who knows what will happen to them. I also feel guilty that I waived Ali off when he wanted another DP when I was last with them; I was just too tired and needed some sleep. The good thing is that they don’t just jump into bed ...

37 response(s), 51 votes
RDC916 68 M
2  questions
Dating men w/ ED - 3/23/2020

How many women are willing to date a man with ED? Especially one who will do most anything to please her?

21 response(s), 16 votes
drlktrhot 50 M
1  question
Score 0.5
Hover Quick View - 3/22/2020

My hover quick view has stopped working, is this just me? Is there a known solution?

18 response(s), 8 votes
rm_testedd2a 34 F
1  question
frustrated with dirty anal sex - 3/21/2020

i really love anal sex but am having a slight problem, i prepare well with multiple enemas to clean myself out. the problem is that once we get into it it seems like there is always more poop to come out. i hate it when he pulls out of me covered with my shit. when he comes in my ass i always poop out more poop with the come. i would like to just poop out the cum so i can drink it up like i see ...

18 response(s), 30 votes
4urpleasur385 34 M
2  questions
Finding a dominant woman to try being a sub for the first time - 3/21/2020

Any tips on where to look for a dominant woman for a first time submissive experience? I have been with submissive women but never a dominant one that is willing to tell me what to do, lead things in the bedroom. Would love to hear some ideas of ways to find someone like that!

1 response(s), 2 votes
connection interupted - 3/21/2020

when trying to use the IM window, after a few seconds, an alert saying "connection interrupted " pops up disabling the window. <br><br> what causes this ?

10 response(s), 16 votes
rm_rm_margalion 50 C
1  question
Score 0.1
Would Buzzmode be a "turn Off" for my Cam viewers? - 3/20/2020

I was thinking of activating the Buzzmode feature when get on Cam (getting that pink toy and wearing it). But I was wondering if that would make me "Less Real" for my regular viewers (as if I'm not doing it just for own enjoyment as an exhibitionist anymore). Most people that watch me enjoy my "real" appeal, as opposed to the fake bored looking cam girls being very very ...

39 response(s), 33 votes
Wantsome12plzme 50 F
2  questions
Being creative with pubes. - 3/20/2020

Have you ever shaved or trimmed your partner's pubic hair? Have you made shapes out of it? What shape was the most pleasing?

31 response(s), 26 votes
zaktpe 42 M
1  question
Does a size making a different? - 3/20/2020

Some girls like a long tool but some like it wide, I'm always wondering if the penetration that's what matters or it's actually the fantasy itself?

47 response(s), 23 votes
wildcatr27 48 F
46  questions
what is up with this site - 3/19/2020

is it weird that no one seems to have posted in the last few days? <br><br> anyone else dislike the new flirted format?

35 response(s), 24 votes
analicaly 66 M
1  question
Dirty,rotten, cheater or not? - 3/19/2020

I haven't had sex with the wife since 1983. Went to Greece on a remote Communications site for a year. No women and the nearest town over 45 minutes away down a winging road and you don't mess with the women there, you'll get beat up by the locals. I returned and she accused me of messing around so no sex upon my return. She refused my advances for a few years. We have 2 beautiful ...

23 response(s), 4 votes
After prostrate treatment - 3/18/2020

Guess the question is mostly for the men. But ladies, you can chip in too. Facing the event of might having prostrate cancer and needing to have it treated or removed. Would like to hear from those who had the treatment successfully and how sex has been afterwards. Would also like to hear from anyone who has had prostrate removal and how things have been since. Right now, am doing drugs and ...

23 response(s), 14 votes
wildthoughts 64 M
10  questions
Score 1.1
What should you do - 3/18/2020

While it has not affected me yet , I do wonder if others might think it would be wise to wait a while before making plans to meet others in light of the news that the coronavirus is popping up in more places each day .That people may or may not have any signs of illness yet but show them later. They have suggested limiting contacts with others .

36 response(s), 29 votes
Superman4695 35 M
54  questions
Score 6.9
Hot listing get removed? - 3/14/2020

I no longer see an option to add anyone. My list is still intact but it does not appear on the thumbnail profile anymore just flirt and message. Any gold members do you still have the option?

14 response(s), 10 votes
cuddlup49 63 M
1  question
How to get rid of the recent flirt # - 3/14/2020

43 Flirted with Me 8 <br><br> How do I get rid of the flirt # on the left side of my profile? This # used to represent a new flirt, however now it's cumulative and doesn't disappear after I've viewed the flirt.

30 response(s), 15 votes
lyavu 46 F
27  questions
Score 4.3
HIV AND STDs ARE REAL - 3/14/2020

I know we all like sex. i lost a friend years ago to HIV and it was hard to see her suffer. It kills with kindness. She barely rememberd who gave it to her since she slept around alot. Many get on here and wana sample each dick or pussy available. I am considering celibacy since every guy i meet wana sleep around. Kinda exhausting looking for that one guy who just wants one trusted sexual ...

25 response(s), 46 votes
DiscreetNinja44 37 F
1  question
Working IM - 3/14/2020

I just signed up on here. I get IM's sent that when I try to reply to, they take me to a Credit Card site. I have points so I am confused. Do you have to pay for IM's also?

35 response(s), 46 votes
nimrod17 52 M
13  questions
How could we increase participation in the Advice Line - 3/14/2020

The advice line is dying. Is that a harbinger of the future of this website? If it does go belly up what are the alternatives?

32 response(s), 20 votes
southokguy58 59 M
5  questions
Have we lost any sense of common courtesy? - 3/11/2020

Can you help me understand why people on American Sex Dates cannot provide the basic courtesy of replying, even to say 'not interested'. I don't understand why some start a conversation and then bail out. I'm not talking about someone who is rude, that doesn't warrant a response, but some conversations just seem to end abruptly. <br><br> And if given a 'not interested' ...

57 response(s), 41 votes
lyavu 46 F
27  questions
Score 4.3
HIV AND STDs ARE REAL - 3/10/2020

I know we all like sex. i lost a friend years ago to HIV and it was hard to see her suffer. It kills with kindness. She barely rememberd who gave it to her since she slept around alot. Many get on here and wana sample each dick or pussy available. I am considering celibacy since every guy i meet wana sleep around. Kinda exhausting looking for that one guy who just wants one trusted sexual ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Saying NO - 3/10/2020

One of my friends asked, if he could stopover on the way home from Asia, as he does most of the time, since his wife does not like intimacy so much anymore after she had a baby. I care for him, I adore him, yes, I love him, but with the CoronaVirus a lot changes. MY HEALTH is way too important. I do believe him that he is only intimate with his wife ...

46 response(s), 41 votes
Koffla 63 M
12  questions
Which hobbies and interests make YOU attractive to the opposite sex? - 3/9/2020

According to a research study, men who list traveling, exercise, theater, dancing and cooking receive most interactions from women online. Outdoor interests, politics, pets, and photography make up the remainder of attractive interests. For women, according to this study, exercise is the most desirable pastime, followed by photography, travel, cooking, art, music and dance. One of my passions is ...

34 response(s), 26 votes
4urpleasur385 34 M
2  questions
Finding a dominant woman to try being a sub for the first time - 3/9/2020

Any tips on where to look for a dominant woman for a first time submissive experience? I have been with submissive women but never a dominant one that is willing to tell me what to do, lead things in the bedroom. Would love to hear some ideas of ways to find someone like that!

18 response(s), 16 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
paranoia/fear of bi men unfounded? - 3/7/2020

I understand and respect PERSONAL PREFERENCES. This post is NOT an attack or dismissal of anyone's choices. What I am asking are the "preferences" due to paranoid thought process. <br><br> Example: <br><br> Single females who say no"bi men". There are many legit reasons or feelings as to why a F chooses that. <br><br> This question ...

48 response(s), 37 votes
TucsonBoneAlone 53 M
1  question
Rhoids - 3/7/2020

Should you avoid or do anal anyway? <br><br> Gotta get anal

22 response(s), 16 votes
Fred_Wreck 38 M
1  question
New member getting no love - 3/6/2020

Wondering what I'm doing wrong here. I understand that people have their types but its been about a month, should have had at least one beverage date by now. Any advice to be part of the fun would be greatly appreciated.

29 response(s), 15 votes
Sherrt2 67 F
6  questions
Score 1.1
Icebreaker - 3/6/2020

Has American Sex Dates done away with the icebreaker program with all the other changes that have been made?

28 response(s), 63 votes
WyoCowboy7751 66 M
3  questions
How is it that ..... - 3/6/2020

I periodically check my profile or make updates and see that I have had X number of Profile Views and X number of Picture Views . The question here is ; How is it that pictures can have more views than profile views ?

27 response(s), 13 votes
cupidisdeadagain 56 F
1  question
Site Help - 3/5/2020

New to this and am wondering if there is a way to IM without paying for a membership?

28 response(s), 23 votes
ludo184253 65 M
2  questions
newbie getting no replies - 3/4/2020

Hi all. I have joined recently but I get no responses to messages or IM. could anyone give me advice on what I should do? Please criticise my profile as I want to chat and get to know people <br><br> many thanks in advance <br><br> <br><br> K

24 response(s), 11 votes
Cameda11 25 M
2  questions
how to make my girl squirt ?? - 3/4/2020

any advice will be great

1 response(s), 1 vote
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
Misdirected anger on Advice Line [points & standard members] - 3/3/2020

Full disclosure... the Advice Line is the main part of American Sex Dates that we participate on. [95%]. <br><br> . We see a lot of bitching about posting for directed at the poster. American Sex Dates encourages new standard members post on the magazine, by giving for doing so. Yes it is annoying, but.by replying you feed the trolls. Blame American Sex Dates not someone who is actually doing what is allowed and ...

20 response(s), 15 votes
biflydog 50 M
5  questions
Foreign women - 3/3/2020

I had a co-worker who made numerous trips to the Philippines (I never asked him to tell me everything he did there, plausible deniability you know!), and eventually brought a girl home. A few months after the marriage (and thankfully a pre-nup), she was off fucking some other guy. The divorce was shortly after that. I wasn't the only one who said "I told you so..." Personally, I ...

37 response(s), 82 votes
kotodilla25 26 M
1  question
how do you get an older womens attention - 3/3/2020

anyone have any advice on how meet an attractive cougar / milf / sexy stay at home mom / soccer mom age 35 - 60 range

44 response(s), 47 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Second Choice - 3/3/2020

It is almost a year, since a guy I fancied told me politely that he is only into blonds with big breasts. It made me sad, but I had to accept the rejection. Now I get a message from him, inviting me to dinner when he is in town, to my follow-up message “you are only into blonds, right? You may would not enjoy your dinner seeing not a blond woman across from you” ...

74 response(s), 39 votes
rm_bornhorny77 42 C
1  question
Big men - 3/2/2020

Why is it when women see a big man they turn away? Just because a man is big or fat, however you want to put it doesn't mean he's not clean, not good it bed and all those other labels put on then. So, please tell me why most ladies won't go there?

1 response(s), 0 votes
Adventurecpl47 72 C
20  questions
bathroom door - 3/2/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

41 response(s), 31 votes
Cameda11 25 M
2  questions
how to make my girl squirt ?? - 2/29/2020

any advice will be great

24 response(s), 31 votes
youradventurecpl 44 C
2  questions
MFM with a BBC - 2/28/2020

My husband has a fantasy of me being with a BBC in a threesome with him. It's not something I've ever considered or not considered... I guess it's never crossed my mind. i know some women really have a fantasy about it. <br><br> His fantasy is to see it and that the guy has a monster cock. <br><br> Question... pro's and cons?

33 response(s), 36 votes
ludo184253 65 M
2  questions
newbie getting no replies - 2/28/2020

Hi all. I have joined recently but I get no responses to messages or IM. could anyone give me advice on what I should do? Please criticise my profile as I want to chat and get to know people <br><br> many thanks in advance <br><br> <br><br> K

2 response(s), 2 votes
zooter1968 51 M
2  questions
Wife share - 2/27/2020

Does anyone find it strange to want to watch their wife suck a stranger's cock?

36 response(s), 27 votes
zooter1968 51 M
2  questions
Wife share - 2/27/2020

Does anyone find it strange to want to watch their wife suck a stranger's cock?

1 response(s), 4 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
What can you expect from Standard Members? - 2/27/2020

You have a jungle of profiles on here, only 24 hours in a day, how do you get through the jungle when standard members can’t communicate. You just cut the first tree which looks good? What can you expect from a standard member if he is too cheap to pay for full membership or is cash poor? How can you develop a friendship if you have ...

46 response(s), 65 votes
Rivertonwolf70 42 M
45  questions
Why do you like older women? - 2/26/2020

There have been posts from time to time about younger men seeking advice on how to meet up with women much older then them.

I am just curious. What is the fascination with them for you guys that seek them? What don't you like about women your age that you believe an woman older than you can give?

11 response(s), 15 votes
rm_alonzo1943 72 M
2  questions
too old ? - 2/26/2020

I am 69 (good health & active) at my age am I wasting my time on American Sex Dates. I understand that younger women would not be interested but the few older gals on this site often are looking for younger men

28 response(s), 31 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
missing posts - 2/25/2020

What is with all the posts being removed. <br><br> Are we being censored?

20 response(s), 12 votes
IamBigSir78 41 M
1  question
Sexless Marriages - 2/25/2020

Sexless Marriages <br><br> <br><br> How do you or I or anyone survive a sexless marriage? is cheating and going on American Sex Dates the solution? When counseling and multiple talks do nothing change the libido or attitudes of the low libido partner. What is one do? You do not want leave your partner, but they are never satisfying needs you have. What is the logical next ...

14 response(s), 14 votes
ScottyEcv 49 M
3  questions
What's your thought on the subject? - 2/25/2020

Would you tell them upfront that you recognized them from this site? Or Would you not say anything. Using the information you've learned from studying their profile to your advantage?

30 response(s), 24 votes
Adventurecpl47 72 C
20  questions
BBC as a qualifier in an ad. - 2/24/2020

What is the fascination with a black cock?

44 response(s), 32 votes
What the F*#K is so VIP? - 2/24/2020

We decided to drop the additional $30 to "upgrade" our membership from Gold to VIP. Soafter about 2 weeks we haven't noticed anything different from Gold to VIP that American Sex Dates the company should be charging for. The customer service still sucks still have all the tech problems are they charging 30 bucks for VIP? Would love to hear back from some fellow members on the subject

36 response(s), 50 votes
Wantsome12plzme 50 F
2  questions
Do you think just about everyone cheats at some point? - 2/24/2020

After watching a movie that broached the subject, my neighbor and I got into an in depth conversation about cheating. She says that everyone is able to cheat once the honeymoon phase is over. And states that all they need is the opportunity to get away with it. I on the other hand think that it has more to do with a person's character and integrity. Now I'm asking the American Sex Dates community for ...

27 response(s), 17 votes
Jakov150 55 M
1  question
What would you do? - 2/23/2020

Was reading that Mikaela Spielberg the adopted of the famous movie director announced she would be as ex worker as a form of reclaiming her body and dignity after childhood episodes of abuse. Her parents are apparently supporting this career move. Seems a bit crazy and self0destructive to me. Gonna do pole dancing and whatever else to reclaim her over? Why not used daddy's millions and go to ...

23 response(s), 19 votes
SarahLem80 40 F
3  questions
First time - 2/23/2020

Who was the first person you cheated with? How did you know them? What did you do?

5 response(s), 6 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
Sex and Marriage - 2/23/2020

So, I've seen a lot of the guys I went to high school with get married and have lately. But I'm finding that they're all pretty much complaining that the sex stops after marriage or it's just not the same, which got me thinking... Can a marriage survive if the sex is completely gone but the relationship is still pretty solid?

25 response(s), 13 votes
rm_undermythong 39 F
50  questions
Score 0.2
Everyone has heard the saying. - 2/22/2020

I am sure everyone has heard the saying MILF I say we come up with a new one MILL which stands for ---mothers I like licking what is your opinion ?

53 response(s), 103 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Married to a SEX addicted woman - 2/21/2020

While having a drink with a few people, one guy complaint how he suffers under his wife sex addiction. When asked about it, he claimed that his wife demands to be intimate about 3 to 4 times a week. I feel bad for this poor guy, 3 to 4 times a week and now I wonder what you think. What is a sex addiction and what is a healthy sexual desire for a woman who is ...

77 response(s), 76 votes
NZ_DashnD 64 M
3  questions
Story Links not working - 2/21/2020

Can anyone tell why the links to a contributors other stories do not work and or if there is a work around to this problem. <br><br> It's really annoying when you come across a great story and want to read others from the same author only to get sent to a blank page. <br><br> Regards, An Avid Reader

14 response(s), 15 votes
Sexei_Doheragary 29 C
2  questions
COUPLES! Were you guys having 3somes and moresomes before you met each other? - 2/21/2020

Maybe one of you were or maybe both of you were. Or maybe this is new for you both! love to know

30 response(s), 22 votes
justjames587 54 M
1  question
Meeting people though American Sex Dates - 2/20/2020

Has anyone actually met up with a real person after connecting on American Sex Dates?

48 response(s), 36 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
What's in a name? gender neutral names etc. - 2/20/2020

When we first started using the internet to chat we used our real names. But because we both have relatively gender neutral names it caused confusion. <br><br> [although it was fun fucking with the single men who thought they were chatting with the female. They'd want to meet 'alone'. After they got me to agree I'd tell them I was the male then ask them when ...

14 response(s), 16 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
8  questions
Easier on here or in person? - 2/20/2020

Do you think its easier to carry on a conversation on here or in person? Its easier for me in person to carry on a conversation, and to let my personality show. I have a big personality in person, and like to joke and can make people comfortable talking with me. On here it's much harder for me to show that side of myself through typing. Do you have any tips for me. I definitely over think ...

26 response(s), 23 votes
babeishorny 37 F
5  questions
Novel Corona virus (2019-nCoV) / meeting strangers? - 2/20/2020

I have decided not meet with anyone for a while for sex or for any other physical contact due to Covid-19 spreading fast all over the world and we are never sure where people have beeen to last couple of months or whom they have been in contact with. I know we can catch flu virus if we have not had flu shots or other viruses from people as well but i think it's better to be safe then ...

64 response(s), 71 votes
sextoybabe77 42 F
7  questions
ice breaker...... - 2/20/2020

what happened to the ice breaker and thoughts on the changes to the site

5 response(s), 5 votes
Spunsubinfl 39 M
11  questions
Anyone interested in working on a webcam site? - 2/19/2020

I'd love to try it out if any Dom's are interested. Thinking that it might be best job ever.....

8 response(s), 29 votes
worldlyfuck 32 M
1  question
Why do live webcam models react so excitedly when some viewers join the channel? - 2/19/2020

New member. <br><br> Noticed on numerous occasions, live webcam babes are bored and don't even notice me when i sign in. <br><br> Then, all of a sudden, they'd perk up and start acting all sexy and horny like. <br><br> I noticed this often happens when another viewer joins the channel. <br><br> Why is this? Is it some special member/VIP ...

24 response(s), 13 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
Pardon the 2nd question - 2/19/2020

What are appropriate "question" or subjects here? <br><br> I see a lot of "what advice are you asking for", "this belongs in a blog", and other "not here" comments. <br><br> Often in the "size" type questions get "check the archives" [like a hall of mirrors each post "reflects same thing]. Personal ...

61 response(s), 33 votes
lyavu 46 F
27  questions
Score 4.3
SECOND CHANCE !!! - 2/19/2020

I met a guy on the site 2 years ago . We had an instant connection but i got a job promotion two days after our meeting and my schedule became hectic before we could pursue anything. Anyone joins in a management position can relate.We did communicate but he was so impatient to even wait another week. I kept communicating but he never responded to my msgs . Fast forward he contacted me last ...

56 response(s), 37 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
8  questions
First time with a couple - 2/18/2020

I have been approached couples, and it's definitely something I'm interested in. Was wondering if you have any advice on this topic, or if you have joined a couple, what was your experience like the first time.

21 response(s), 13 votes
Littlelegs_3000 30 F
1  question
Bad experiences... - 2/17/2020

Do u tell the person u met with that u were disappointed in their performance in bed? Or just totally not see them again?

40 response(s), 23 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
8  questions
Bi or gay male vs bi/gay female vs transgender. - 2/15/2020

Do you think bi or gay men, bi/gay female or transgender people, are viewed differently? Is it easier or generally more accepted to be a bi/gay male, bi/gay female, or transgender, or is it about equal in your opinion. And if your wondering I identify as bi curious on here, and wld never feel comfortable letting that come out to ppl I know.

24 response(s), 23 votes
HothornedRed 44 F
4  questions
Does size really matter to us Ladies?? - 2/15/2020

Size is all well and good but would you turn down a lower based on a small penis ? I often think size is a much bigger issue for men than women.

My husband is an average 6 inch erect man and we have a great sex life .

Before I met him I'd had both bigger and smaller lovers , again with good sex .

Penis size doesn't matter to me half as much as men think it does, and I ...

21 response(s), 25 votes
albanynycouple51 59 C
8  questions
input on green door swingers sex club las vegas nv ,how is it ? - 2/12/2020

we going thrus feb 27 and seeking info on the club who goes hows the rooms n play ares ? would you go back ? any and all info welcome ty .
...

4 response(s), 15 votes
SarahLem80 40 F
3  questions
First time - 2/12/2020

Who was the first person you cheated with? How did you know them? What did you do?

37 response(s), 58 votes
AnewWoman 61 F
136  questions
Grammar, lack of grammar, and culture - 2/11/2020

I am by far not the best with grammar these days, but other than this site dropping keywords occasionally, I would like to think I generally get my point across. We do seem to have our fair share of grammar critics on this site, but I suppose if they can't say something negative about a post they can at least say something negative about the grammar of a post. I use to be married to a ...

47 response(s), 51 votes
GrahamLind 45 M
2  questions
Married people - 2/11/2020

Is it relevant to you if the person you are having an affair with is married and cheating ?

60 response(s), 35 votes
Caught Feelings - 2/10/2020

I met someone from this site and have been seeing him for the past few months. We usually meet once a month to do the deed but we also go to dinner in between our sessions too. My feelings are pretty preliminary, initial crush developing but I don't know what to do or if/how I should tell them. I get pretty mixed feelings from my partner so I'm not entirely sure how he feels. ...

29 response(s), 36 votes
threesome of one man with two women - 2/9/2020

is it a better experience for the man if the two women are solely heterosexual or if the two women are girl friendly? In short, does it matter or does the guy benefit from being the sole focus of attention of the two women have no sex with each other

5 response(s), 5 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
8  questions
Ex just got divorced - 2/9/2020

So I got engaged to this girl around 9 years ago, and I broke it off because I was 22, and decided I wasn't ready for that kind of commitment yet. So she ended up getting married a few years down the road, but just recently got divorced. She sent me a friend request on Facebook, and we messaged for a short time, which is how I found out about her divorce. So one I dnt know what the friend ...

42 response(s), 22 votes
Sexei_Doheragary 29 C
2  questions
Would you read a Sex Party Blog Post? - 2/8/2020

We're considering writing a blog about a sex party where Sexei had 5 guys and 7 women (not all at once but through the course of the night). Would you read it?

42 response(s), 29 votes
DolAmroth01 50 M
2  questions
Is height important? - 2/8/2020

Does the height of a partner make any difference? I am 6-4 and I know the old maxim "we're all the same height when lying down" but I do feel I would prefer someone who is somewhere near my height. <br><br> There are certain positions where it helps and it makes it easier when out together if there isn't a big difference in height. Walking together is an example. ...

38 response(s), 41 votes
1str8latin 40 M
2  questions
Smelly - 2/8/2020

What's the right thing to do if coming accross a amelly puasy? Say you are undreasing her and at panties removal the smell hits your nose like a piercing burning rotting fish kind of smell?

7 response(s), 3 votes
HungUSMCvet 37 M
2  questions
No shows! - 2/8/2020

Why agree to meet then not show up? I get we are all on here for millions of reasons. If you want dirty chat, say so. If you want NSA/FWB, say so. Its not too hard to communicate, we are all adults. Does anyone else have this problem?

40 response(s), 39 votes
biflydog 50 M
5  questions
Feelings... - 2/8/2020

So, you've been playing with a boyfriend/girlfriend couple for some time now, not only threesomes but solo as well. Lately she's been coming over solo more frequently, always with some excuse why he can't make it this time (he's been sick, on a business trip, working late, etc.). Not only that but she's been spending more time with you afterwards, not the wham bam thank you ...

23 response(s), 21 votes
FFU22018 53 F
17  questions
Score 12.1
Getting It Straight - 2/7/2020

Is it okay for women to have a preference for men who exclusively have sex with women, or should she have to HAVE sex with men also engage in sex acts with other men? Is it okay for a man to portray himself as exclusively interested in women, when he, in fact, engages in sex with men? If a man portrays himself as having sex with women, but in fact engages in sex acts with other men, is he as ...

36 response(s), 31 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
What's the best position for anal? - 2/7/2020

The hotter way for me is doggy, but I find lying on my back with my legs behind my head is a bit easier to take it. <br><br> What do you people think us the best position?

21 response(s), 33 votes
rm_apples2685 33 F
1  question
Just curious - 2/7/2020

Hello everybody, <br> I just want to ask this question to see what kind of annswer will I get from my females and from my males. The question is does size really matter for males for their penis'? And does size also matter for females as far as their butts and tits go. Males and females can answer both of the questions I am just very curious. As for me size doesnt really ...

1 response(s), 7 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
FEMALE BJ - 2/6/2020

Reading about gay, bi-guys, condoms, BJ’s and straight men accepting a BJ from a man makes me wonder While I can see that a straight guy will give in to a BJ from a guy, him being shy, drunk, desperate, just to mention a few reasons, I wonder how a gay guy would feel, if a woman would want to give him a BJ? Yes, I suspect most women are better at it, but physically there is such a ...

29 response(s), 27 votes
weerrhuu 61 C
5  questions
Score 1.3
Green Porno? - 2/6/2020

OK, we are here fooling around on the site with Alexa babbling some show from National Public Radio in the background. The show was Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me. So the guest on the show turns out to be Isabella Rossellini , has an advanced degree in Biology. She has produced a number of "educational films" regarding how animals do the nasty. We sure hope this gets through the ...

20 response(s), 29 votes
1str8latin 40 M
2  questions
Smelly - 2/6/2020

What's the right thing to do if coming accross a amelly puasy? Say you are undreasing her and at panties removal the smell hits your nose like a piercing burning rotting fish kind of smell?

24 response(s), 18 votes
Being a Sub - 2/6/2020

Is it a requirement that a sub must agree submit any and all those want her. Is there any reason she can't choose whom submit without "losing" her sub status? Or does the very choice of picking her disqualify her from being a sub?

17 response(s), 13 votes
stilshoots 73 M
2  questions
Score 0.1
Oral sex - 2/5/2020

My FWB and I tried oral sex with her hanging her head over side of bed , she said it was so much better than the usual way . She got really excited by it . Any theories as why ?? I'll have admit I really enjoyed it too.

29 response(s), 29 votes
stilshoots 73 M
2  questions
Score 0.1
Oral sex - 2/5/2020

My FWB and I tried oral sex with her hanging her head over side of bed , she said it was so much better than the usual way . She got really excited by it . Any theories as why ?? I'll have admit I really enjoyed it too.

1 response(s), 1 vote
rm_slut4camuse 31 F
30  questions
Is sex better with a butt plug? - 2/4/2020

I just read a post that basically said that men enjoy sex more when they have a butt plug, because it stimulates their prostrate. Okay, but what about women? Is sex better when a woman has a butt plug? Can the guy feel it? Is it just another layer of naughty/kinky or what?

12 response(s), 17 votes
Chocl8Dr0p 39 F
2  questions
Pain N DA Butt? - 2/4/2020

I’m opening up to the idea of anal; fingering, butt plugs, maybe Anal sex. For those who have experience in this area, did it cause any medical conditions later?

24 response(s), 27 votes
timeforachange55 64 F
20  questions
enamas - 2/4/2020

a friend of mine wants me to give him a enema. he said it has always turned him on. even when he was young and was given enemas by his aunt. he thinks she was turned on also. i have never given one and would like to know how and what to use. also is anyone else turned on by this?

11 response(s), 21 votes
51curiousvirgin 54 F
5  questions
Anal Virgin - 2/4/2020

I recently lost my virginity to a couple I met through American Sex Dates. It was wonderful! Now I'd like to try anal sex. I'm both scared and thrilled when I think about this. How can I become relaxed enough to try this?

14 response(s), 25 votes
Bopper833 36 M
1  question
How many guys out there have had a threesome - 2/4/2020

Two guys one girl wierd?

44 response(s), 23 votes
threesome of one man with two women - 2/4/2020

is it a better experience for the man if the two women are solely heterosexual or if the two women are girl friendly? In short, does it matter or does the guy benefit from being the sole focus of attention of the two women have no sex with each other

25 response(s), 13 votes
Royston912 41 M
10  questions
Our survey says................... - 2/4/2020

Now were in 2020 I was wondering looking back past 20- years and how tech has evolved from phones to computers, cars, and planes, etc. Is there anything you would like to see improved or maybe something else yet to be made which you think would benefit people in the next 20- years. Just shits and giggles, this is people

19 response(s), 9 votes
XMotherMayIX 36 F
2  questions
Opinions needed - 2/4/2020

What is the sexiest thing your partner could wear lingerie/costume wise during playtime?...

48 response(s), 24 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
Post Affair - 2/4/2020

Serious question time. Has anyone's relationship ever recovered after an affair?

27 response(s), 24 votes
Condoms - 2/4/2020

Let's face it, condoms are not nearly as fun, but needed. At what point do you stop using one with a partner?

20 response(s), 17 votes
bill5432100 68 C
1  question
Score 3.3
Erotic stories excellent voting - 2/4/2020

How can a story be just posted and have a high rating. You could tell if a story is good by its rating.

11 response(s), 23 votes
SarahLem80 40 F
3  questions
First time - 2/4/2020

Who was the first person you cheated with? How did you know them? What did you do?

1 response(s), 2 votes
Squirt_Professor 66 C
3  questions
Score 4.1
Censorship or virus, how to get American Sex Dates's attention - 2/3/2020

In your opinion does American Sex Dates censor postings to blogs, or erotic stories? Or, do they have a virus playing havoc with postings by randomly deleting words. Argument for censorship they deleted from one of my recent stories the words fucking, and along with the normal words they delete. The argument for a virus, I worked with them to fix their past habit of random deletion of words like of, by, and ...

15 response(s), 12 votes
robdessertrider2 63 M
5  questions
Do you think a man who likes anal is gay? - 2/3/2020

I am a Bi sexual man, I tend to lean gay, men are just more willing to treat sex as sex, just an act performed for the outcome, not solely attached to LOVE. As for anal play I first experienced it when I found my mothers battery operated rocket. I knew sex was about a man's penis penetrating a woman's vagina. Butt I had only one hole down there, I was hooked instantly. I wore down those ...

19 response(s), 17 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
8  questions
Safety - 2/3/2020

Do you feel generally safe meeting strangers on here. Do you meet first or take precautions. Being a its something iv never even gave a thought to. I'd hate to think I'm heading over to meet someone, and they just go along with it, but in the back of there mind, they're wondering if I'm a predator. What do you generally do, when meeting someone on this sight.

31 response(s), 17 votes
tiredkitty 39 F
2  questions
85,000 points - 2/2/2020

I'm like 100 points away from 85k in points what would you spend them on. my husband thinks i should try most expensive toy. i could also buy 2 years of free member ship or months and months of private , not that i enjoy chatting with many people. <br><br> <br><br> well thanks and i forward hear from you. <br><br> <br><br> ...

29 response(s), 35 votes
Sudden2020 70 M
5  questions
What happened to the IM Incoming/Busy icon????? - 2/2/2020

Just noticed that the IM Incoming/Busy icon is missing. Now there is no way to tell when someone wants to chat.

29 response(s), 18 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Big Dream-NOT a book-YOUR opinion is needed - 2/2/2020

While in NYC for Xmas, having a blast, I told myself, I am already half way to Cyrous& Ali, why not buy another ticket and keep going, in addition Werner invited his cabin in the Alps near GVA. The first 3 days I was with my young friends, having one firework and then I took off for a couple of nights, to met up with Werner and some of his friends at his cabin, expecting a cabin ...

15 response(s), 20 votes
Filoxenia01 48 M
1  question
Gold Member Fakes? - 2/2/2020

Hi All, I've seen a lot about fake profiles, so of course I have to think up a dumb question. Since gold membership actually costs something, I wouldn't expect there to be fake gold member profiles. But, has anyone encountered this unicorn? I've seen some very light profile, gold members I figured are being discreet, but...?

45 response(s), 13 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
8  questions
For women - 2/1/2020

It seems like all men are pretty much game for meaningless sex with most any woman will have them if there is a physical attraction. Women can mssg a guy wana come over and fuck, and the awnser is more times then not going to be yes. So why are most women(not all) the complete opposite. Most women wldnt even respond to a mssg like that. Why is this? Why are we so different when it comes to ...

34 response(s), 16 votes
Watching porn with your partner - 2/1/2020

I was curious.....do you like to watch porn with your partner while having sex or does it distract you? I was just curious.

30 response(s), 37 votes
Gentleman952020 24 M
2  questions
Condoms - 2/1/2020

How many of y'all actual use condoms?

5 response(s), 2 votes
Longstick983 37 M
3  questions
What’s the longest sex session have in been involved in? - 2/1/2020

Hey American Sex Dates!! What’s the longest sex session have you had before?

34 response(s), 22 votes
Tallandhansome30 52 M
1  question
Real or Ghost Partner? - 2/1/2020

Have seen several profiles. Where you see a single picture of person. But they say their partner want have with others. But there is no picture of so said partner or description of them. All which makes ask are THEY REAL??

18 response(s), 9 votes
Squirt_Professor 66 C
3  questions
Score 4.1
Counterpart word to Slut - 2/1/2020

Is there a counterpart word as degrading to the as the word slut is to women?

43 response(s), 49 votes
Mega_manX 40 M
3  questions
LTR on American Sex Dates - 2/1/2020

Serious question, has anyone ever found a long term relationship on this site? How long did it last if so?

6 response(s), 2 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
Is he gay if he loves fucking my ass? - 2/1/2020

I have a straight and married guy that loved fuck from time time. He calls himself straight, but the dude loves ass, so I'm thinking he's bi but won't admit it. Maybe he likes being in a straight relationship but loves fucking tight ass? IT's honestly not a big deal, but I'm curious. <br><br> What do you think?

52 response(s), 40 votes
HungUSMCvet 37 M
2  questions
To stay or go? - 2/1/2020

Would you stay with someone because of the sex? If you have, how did it end?

22 response(s), 17 votes
denduzz 57 M
1  question
how can i get more pussy - 1/31/2020

how can i increase the number of times i get laid

33 response(s), 27 votes
Squirt_Professor 66 C
3  questions
Score 4.1
Is sex meaningless? - 1/31/2020

Have a friend and notice on some profiles that individuals claim sex is meaningless. Or, it's just sex! Do you agree fuck anyone and everyone you want, no chemistry, no attraction, it's just sex, it is meaningless?

47 response(s), 42 votes
For the straight men. - 1/31/2020

question is do men enjoy watching a woman give head? I am straight and not bi but I enjoy watching it in porn and in person. Lets hear your opinions.

21 response(s), 40 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
For All Those Fitness Buffs - 1/31/2020

What's are your favourite things put in your power smoothie after a workout? Looking switch mine up a bit.

12 response(s), 9 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
A poor business venture - 1/31/2020

Every site has good and bad . What my discussion is, do sites like this really want you to succeed? <br><br> If you meet someone from here, they stand to lose two active members. Most likely two paying members. <br><br> So what do you think? Are "dating" sites really set up for ease of meeting?

29 response(s), 25 votes
XMotherMayIX 36 F
2  questions
Opinions needed - 1/31/2020

What is the sexiest thing your partner could wear lingerie/costume wise during playtime?...

12 response(s), 5 votes
Longstick983 37 M
3  questions
What’s the longest sex session have in been involved in? - 1/31/2020

Hey American Sex Dates!! What’s the longest sex session have you had before?

1 response(s), 1 vote
tdw720 59 M
1  question
Score 2.6
Has anyone ever used a Money order to purchase a membership - 1/31/2020

Hello American Sex Dates members! I used to be a gold member & had a blast doing so. When the economy took a nose dive I had to cut some expenses & switch to a standard membership. Now things are starting to look better now I want to go back to GOLD. I do not want to use a credit card & they have a money order alternative that i would like to try. Have any of you used this method of payment ? were ...

20 response(s), 14 votes
Gentleman952020 24 M
2  questions
Condoms - 1/30/2020

How many of y'all actual use condoms?

33 response(s), 40 votes
Gold Membership. - 1/30/2020

Yes or no??

42 response(s), 32 votes
threesome of one man with two women - 1/30/2020

is it a better experience for the man if the two women are solely heterosexual or if the two women are girl friendly? In short, does it matter or does the guy benefit from being the sole focus of attention of the two women have no sex with each other

1 response(s), 1 vote
rm_undermythong 39 F
50  questions
Score 0.2
Anybody know what happened? - 1/29/2020

Does anybody know what happened to the contests on here with all the changes going on here do you know if they removed it? I do not know if other people are upset with everything they have changed but its getting worse.

18 response(s), 38 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
Death and swinging - 1/29/2020

We are a member of a "travel" consisting of "couples only". The "owner" insists/requires couples only. Neither the F or M of a couple can participate in any type of activities alone. That included my wife one year when I was in the hospital on the day of a party. <br><br> Every year she hosts a St Patrick's Day party for the at her place. ...

42 response(s), 29 votes
Darrendko92503 30 M
2  questions
Anal - 1/29/2020

Do women really actually enjoy anal? Or do they do it just to please the man?

32 response(s), 41 votes
GrahamLind 45 M
2  questions
Repeating - 1/29/2020

Do people expect a 2nd encounter? Is it usual that a American Sex Dates person becomes a regular one?

21 response(s), 16 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Gentlemen - 1/29/2020

Is a female mistaken if she expects to find men on American Sex Dates who behave like gentlemen? In the last few days, I have received some messages which I found way over the line and disgusting. I am ready to come over and f... your c... really good. I want to f... you tonight, call me and I will f... and use you all night. I have the best dick, I will f... the s.. out of you, etc. etc. Are there ...

38 response(s), 41 votes
lukeaskewedx2 60 M
13  questions
Score 5.1
Strange ? - 1/29/2020

Did I see 6 or 7 questions go poof today ?

32 response(s), 29 votes
SiOcean4 39 M
2  questions
Changing location - 1/29/2020

I’m trying to change my location for the weekend but it’s not changing chat location or matches. <br><br> Any would be appreciated.

18 response(s), 12 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
Sex Tapes - 1/29/2020

For those who like to make them, do you ever feel like you up the performance? I feel like when I'm being filmed, I start to amp up the porn factor just a bit. Or does it not phase you?

13 response(s), 16 votes
SexyPerth49 71 M
3  questions
Question for experienced male doms - 1/29/2020

What are the usual financial arrangements for a live in salve / domestic servant? <br><br> Thanks

18 response(s), 18 votes
SexyPerth49 71 M
3  questions
For female subs - 1/29/2020

What are your expectations re financial arrangements if you live with a Dom / Master? Is it usual for a sub to work for employment? <br><br> Thanks

19 response(s), 15 votes
lookg4fun4all 61 M
1  question
does anyone read these questions? - 1/29/2020

Let me now if anyone reads these questions? If so I am curious are you happy with American Sex Dates? The point system? The ?

39 response(s), 26 votes
MercedCouple209 49 C
3  questions
Pegging and homophobic men - 1/28/2020

In case you missed it, or this is the first time you’re hearing about this empowering sex act, pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. Usually, pegging is often reserved to describe the act between heterosexual couples, so it’s a woman flipping the traditional gender dynamic and “banging” the man. <br><br> Are you really that homophbic

41 response(s), 76 votes
babeishorny 37 F
5  questions
How do men feel......... - 1/28/2020

How do men feel if your girlfriend is wealthier than you?

66 response(s), 76 votes
Deleting words. - 1/28/2020

Does anyone know why this site will randomly delete words from articles written? It can ruin the flow of a story when you have to figure what word is missing.

33 response(s), 46 votes
Jaysen4moms 32 M
2  questions
Concerned about fake profiles - 1/28/2020

I think that is the one thing really holding me back from spending here. How are we able to identify profiles, is there a way to really tel or is it best guess?

40 response(s), 17 votes
Guy_B75 45 M
2  questions
Anybody find difficult to talk with women in here that are not looking for money? - 1/28/2020

I see that a lot of women are actually "Working" here....Or its just me?

18 response(s), 25 votes
Goodloveingman69 32 M
3  questions
Living - 1/28/2020

How long have you been without sex?

27 response(s), 29 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Acceptable Time - 1/28/2020

What is an acceptable amount of time to be spent on American Sex Dates for someone who is gainfully employed? When you log in you are already confronted with exiting videos& pics, of which there are plenty of in the log on screen . You start thinking, awesome, could we be a match, could I stop by while traveling, does he, she, they have the same desires? You watch the clip, you look at the pics, ...

36 response(s), 69 votes
BolivarMOuy 47 M
1  question
limits and safewords - 1/28/2020

I am curious as the opinion of others about what they think about the use of safewords and limits within meeting others. Do you use them? Do you think they are needed? Do you think they are important?

40 response(s), 32 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
Gag Reflex - 1/28/2020

I'm pretty good with my gag reflex depending on how big he is. But is a gag reflex a deal breaker for anyone?

20 response(s), 21 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
What's your best oral advice? - 1/27/2020

Curious to know your thoughts

35 response(s), 36 votes
nehouguy 42 C
1  question
Free Chats? - 1/26/2020

Didn't this used to give you a few free chats , on the house, every day?

34 response(s), 34 votes
rubb_ens3 35 M
2  questions
preferencias! para todos - 1/26/2020

No me falleis! donde os gusta correros (si soys chicos) o que se os corran (si sois chicas)? <br><br> A) dentro cara C) boca D) tetas E) culo F) Otro

6 response(s), 8 votes
ChopTank62 58 M
4  questions
Score 1.6
What site are you on? - 1/26/2020

[image] <br><br> As I communicate with people and somehow it gets to the point that the conversation comes around to what site 'we' are on, the majority have never heard of Senior Sizzle. <br><br> I realize that American Sex Dates has multiple sites that somehow overlap and skew the membership numbers, so what I ask is what site are you on?

17 response(s), 9 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
When a lie has truth to it - 1/25/2020

Oh the use of spin to embellish. <br><br> When you read profiles have you ever been impressed at what is written only to find it wasn't quite true? Yet not really an all out lie . <br><br> Let me give you a couple personal 'facts' that not telling the back story seems quite Spin if you will. <br><br> 1] I beat a former NFL player out as league ...

28 response(s), 27 votes
dirtydad63 55 M
2  questions
morals police - 1/25/2020

Not sure I understand the people on here are trying to be the moral police in the erotic stories section. what part of stories don't you understand? and if your that worried about moral content what are you doing here you pervert...

24 response(s), 44 votes
BigMilkyTits 44 F
1  question
Standard Member Points - 1/25/2020

Whats the quickest or easiest way get more points when you're a standard member?

58 response(s), 64 votes
can u get points this way - 1/25/2020

can u get points by doing this ?

22 response(s), 25 votes
Questions and Points - 1/25/2020

How is it that after everything has been filled out, , you put pictures up, videos up and do blogs, answer question and write articles, You have to ask people for points. Why?

33 response(s), 35 votes
YoungHung4FunNow 28 M
2  questions
Earning points - 1/25/2020

What are the easiest activities to get a lot of points?

23 response(s), 26 votes
Lumbee1027 42 M
1  question
Point - 1/25/2020

Besides becoming a member. What is the best way to get points

20 response(s), 12 votes
whats the best way to find a relationship outside of marriage? - 1/25/2020

any advice or tips, other than using this site.. going into an open relationship... looking to wax some knowledge here

22 response(s), 21 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Video and Skype verification - 1/25/2020

It was about a couple of months ago that I was contacted by a mature guy from Mobile, who was planning visit his friend who moved Cali. Being vary of mature men when it comes performance despite his assurance he is a dream manwhen it comes the bedroom, I did like his pics, the hotel he will stay at while in LAX and his writing very much. I have been with a few men from ...

26 response(s), 30 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
A touch of the flu - 1/24/2020

We meet with a new, slightly , couple last night [play was possible]. the F was visibly ill. She was coughing, red runny nose, and other signs. <br><br> She said she had a "touch of the flu". They didn't want to cancel and seem . We left before we were seated. <br><br> WTF is a "touch" of the flu? Personally, at my age and health, a flu virus ...

38 response(s), 21 votes
Iceking6996 34 M
4  questions
ice breaker? - 1/24/2020

What is the icebreaker? i saw it mentioned in a blog

26 response(s), 25 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
Sex Positions - 1/24/2020

What's your favorite? I love doggy because I love my ass being slapped while getting nailed.

26 response(s), 42 votes
Cj198375 44 M
2  questions
3way - 1/23/2020

If there’s a 3some....mmf would you guys suck a cock off after it’s fresh dip inside of a pussy to make him cum?? Why??

29 response(s), 18 votes
lake1997 56 M
1  question
why is it so hard to hook up on here ? - 1/23/2020

I mean really . it's even hard get someone chat on , I mean if you are on isn't that why you are on it ?

56 response(s), 37 votes
hapygoluckyguy01 32 M
1  question
How do you go about this? - 1/23/2020

Is there a better way ask and or bring this up. I had a fantasy I wanted live and kind of sprung it on her. She was stunned for awhile then day of the blue she wanted do it but in the shock of it and the worry she'd change her mind back NO you agreed. It didn't go over well both with lack of prep for self and toys while the experience didn't go well due to stuff not ...

18 response(s), 27 votes
sex - 1/23/2020

Oral Sex? Anal Sex? which do u like?

18 response(s), 13 votes
Longstick983 37 M
3  questions
What’s the longest sex session have in been involved in? - 1/23/2020

Hey American Sex Dates!! What’s the longest sex session have you had before?

3 response(s), 4 votes
ch3rryp13 29 F
2  questions
TEST QUESTION - 1/22/2020

This is a test. Please ignore.

27 response(s), 39 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Important question - 1/22/2020

If you would be my BF or Bi-GF, what gift would you like to receive from Europe when I meet up with you again? Xmas is also upon us, what would you like for Xmas , would it be OK with you if you got only 1 gift for both occasions? <br><br> + <br><br> = and I wish you all a wonderful holiday season Not Bling Owner ...

35 response(s), 53 votes
Xxentric_1 46 F
38  questions
NARCASSIST - 1/22/2020

Has anyone dated, married, a Nacassist? If so why do you think they are a narc?

21 response(s), 51 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
A difficult situation - 1/22/2020

Do you think a blog; AL or making a poll out of it would be the best way to go? While spending Xmas in NYC, I met a couple through a GF of mine, she is quite a few years younger than him. He is handsome, fun, well to do, just a wonderful gentlemen and his wife encourages him to have lovers, since she is not much into love making. However, he is only allowed to do it with a condom and while she ...

22 response(s), 20 votes
pisceslover32 44 F
8  questions
Script Errors WTF ???? - 1/22/2020

Every time I try to IM, or Flash Chat I get an error saying script error and if i don`t quit my computer will freeze. What kind of flash player do you use? Dose anyone else have this problem or something similar? ~xoXox~ {=}

9 response(s), 20 votes
jobella37 53 F
8  questions
Bisexual females - 1/22/2020

WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO MEET OTHER BISEXUAL FEMALES ON HERE? I JOINED IN 20 AND ONLY MET 2 BACK THEN AND NONE SINCE. WHEN I WRITE TO THEM, THEY DON'T EVEN WRITE BACK...

38 response(s), 44 votes
lyavu 46 F
27  questions
Score 4.3
NO ATTRACTION BUT GREAT PERSONALITY . - 1/21/2020

I am sure most of you have been in situations like that . A friend talked to a guy on the site. Great conversation and connection online ..She decided to meet the guy but down side no attraction but awesome personality. He has good sexual energy.The guy has some qualities she wanted but no attraction. She is so drawn to his persona but .... What advice would you give in such a situation?

39 response(s), 63 votes
Adventurecpl47 72 C
20  questions
bathroom door - 1/21/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

3 response(s), 8 votes
LatinLeprechaun7 50 F
8  questions
Put It In A Poll - 1/21/2020

We have all read questions, here in the advice section, that would be better suited as a poll. Since, I'm the curious sort I looked in the section that had polls and it seems that unless you have a blog you can not create a poll. Am I overlooking something? Can members create a poll without having a blog? Thank you in advance for your replies. Happy New Year! Not Bling Owner...

31 response(s), 79 votes
dangbitches 54 F
34  questions
Score 2.4
Little Confused Bling - 1/21/2020

I read the bling manager, I don't have time to make bling at this time. I tried to use the chickens I got as a gift all that came up were the numbers. I went back to see if I copied it wrong and they are gone. When I select the bling on my profile it takes me to the maker. How can I use bling? I'm not understanding it I guess. I like my chickens they are sweet and can come in handy ...

15 response(s), 23 votes
Cj198375 44 M
2  questions
3way - 1/21/2020

If there’s a 3some....mmf would you guys suck a cock off after it’s fresh dip inside of a pussy to make him cum?? Why??

1 response(s), 3 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Big Surprise - 1/21/2020

I could not get fast enough to the hotel, was actually about 1 hour early, my expectations were high, my heart pounded hard, I was filled with love. When I got my room key I was told Ali checked in already, I jumped into the elevator like a , could not await to arrive at our floor, rushed to our suit and what a surprise. Ali & Cyrous were in fact already in the suit, but ...

13 response(s), 31 votes
jobella37 53 F
8  questions
Bisexual females - 1/21/2020

WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO MEET OTHER BISEXUAL FEMALES ON HERE? I JOINED IN 20 AND ONLY MET 2 BACK THEN AND NONE SINCE. WHEN I WRITE TO THEM, THEY DON'T EVEN WRITE BACK...

3 response(s), 5 votes
LatinLeprechaun7 50 F
8  questions
The First Five. - 1/21/2020

I was looking at all the newly posted questions from this weekend and noticed a trend. The first 5 replies to any question already have between 100- 200 "I Agree" votes Yet, if you look at the votes for the actual question it will not reflect such numbers. The newest post is " Bisexual Females" so I'm curious if it too will follow the trend. In all my years on the site I ...

40 response(s), 48 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
2020 New Year’s Resolution - 1/21/2020

Staying young, staying fit, doing some work, but also having fun, is what resolution was. Now I have a hard time balance work with fun. How do you do it? ...

38 response(s), 34 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
When a lie has truth to it - 1/21/2020

Oh the use of spin to embellish. <br><br> When you read profiles have you ever been impressed at what is written only to find it wasn't quite true? Yet not really an all out lie . <br><br> Let me give you a couple personal 'facts' that not telling the back story seems quite Spin if you will. <br><br> 1] I beat a former NFL player out as league ...

7 response(s), 1 vote
bedstarr 54 F
2  questions
Piercing - 1/21/2020

I have been thinking a lot lately about getting my belly button pierced. <br><br> I am a 55 year old woman who does have belly fat. <br><br> Not sure what others would think of someone my age and size getting one. <br><br> I do have one tattoo which I got over 10 years ago. I know it is my body but what are other people's opinions. <br><br> ...

28 response(s), 39 votes
weerrhuu 61 C
5  questions
Score 1.3
State of the....... - 1/21/2020

advice line. <br><br> We would like to hear what you think of the trend of posts and responses on the advice line. We don't want opinions about the site itself. The advice line is free for all and doesn't require points to participate. So we just want to hear what you think about it. <br><br> If you like it and feel you are enjoying it completely, we would still ...

45 response(s), 45 votes
Senior sizzle? - 1/21/2020

Has anyone got some information on site called " senior sizzle" ?? Thank you in advance!

19 response(s), 15 votes
yummmmmmyMe 44 M
2  questions
Score 0.8
wasn't it more charming without "coining" for every single mail? - 1/21/2020

I so much liked the "good old days" of American Sex Dates - writing eMails without being charged, sending messages for free, watching profiles .... I blame American Sex Dates for not having sex on a regular base anymore! Do I really need to from now on ...? Looking forward to your highly appreciated advice!!!! ... I the following after my original posting above: ... Just had a look at your very vivid feedbacks ...

25 response(s), 32 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
Who is Marvin? - 1/20/2020

There is much 'in fighting' on this forum. Nothing new, it has been going on for years [over a decade in fact]. It is not uncommon for <br><br> I am recovering from another procedure and have some "free time" and decided to check out what was going on. <br><br> Missing from this round is the Tennessee Troll and the ntn profiles. {you may remember it ...

38 response(s), 41 votes
Avonsenior 66 M
8  questions
Score 0.3
American Sex Dates ambassadors does it work? - 1/20/2020

I have received emails from ambassadors in the past and it seemed that the it was not a problem with responding. Now as a std member they are blocked just like all other members. If this is the case and they cannot help other members with questions or reach others as a person representing American Sex Dates What does an ambassador do or why would someone want be an ambassador?

20 response(s), 32 votes
Trapper69 62 G
29  questions
Score 0.1
Who Wants Points? - 1/20/2020

100 people can win 100, 000 points. All they have to do is not post anyplace on this website begging for points for 1 month.

43 response(s), 68 votes
Ziost113 35 M
1  question
To speak sexy or not? - 1/20/2020

Hi ladies. I'm curious when someone tries to talk to you, do you prefer them starting talking about sex on here or not? Some women seem to be angered by it even though this is a sex site. Am I wrong?

47 response(s), 33 votes
Goldenman56x 63 M
7  questions
Blowing - 1/20/2020

Do you worry about diseases when someone is blowing you?

30 response(s), 49 votes
dangbitches 54 F
34  questions
Score 2.4
Oh the fakes - 1/20/2020

I know some of you are well versed on fake profiles. I'm sure I get some fake mail but how do you know they are fake? What should I look out for? I really enjoy poking around and looking at profiles if I'm able. How do you know when someone has more than one profile? Or they made a new one? Sorry about all the questions. Guess it's better than "does the IM work"

79 response(s), 72 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Unhappy Friend - 1/20/2020

Would you be unhappy if you find your friend trying to organize her trip home on American Sex Dates, if you have not an exclusive arrangement? Ali was disenchanted today, because I was looking for options to shorten my layover at CDG, FRA or LHR. Why do I not understand him when he knows rather well that love does not mean exclusivity and he is not exclusive himself. What is wrong to meet ...

40 response(s), 49 votes
Bionic_Tongue 49 M
2  questions
Anal Sex & GS - 1/20/2020

Is it just my imagination or are there fewer and fewer women these days that are open to anal sex and golden showers (giving or receiving). I've enjoyed giving anal and have been curious about receiving it from a woman with a strap-on but never had the opportunity to experience a golden shower.

3 response(s), 19 votes
48fun 72 C
13  questions
Score 1.2
Ladies Peeing: - 1/20/2020

Ladies Peeing: As a truck driver I was on the PA turnpike when I saw a Jeep parked on the other side. Both passenger doors were open and I could clearly see a woman face. Below the door you could see her bare white ass. She had on high heels with her panties down to her ankles. It was cold in the fall and you could clearly see a steaming stream hitting the ground and running off. I ...

9 response(s), 11 votes
BWcoupleou812 43 C
5  questions
Golden showers? - 1/20/2020

How many people enjoy getting peed on?

41 response(s), 86 votes
Coquetona5 55 F
1  question
ast Model Sig |West nude - 1/20/2020

I want to put my piture in de magazine pleas

35 response(s), 26 votes
jobella37 53 F
8  questions
Bisexual females - 1/20/2020

WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO MEET OTHER BISEXUAL FEMALES ON HERE? I JOINED IN 20 AND ONLY MET 2 BACK THEN AND NONE SINCE. WHEN I WRITE TO THEM, THEY DON'T EVEN WRITE BACK...

3 response(s), 7 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Pics & Videos - 1/20/2020

What is the purpose of pics and videos on a profile in your opinion? While picture collectors enjoy many pics others appear to prefer videos, while some others just like to see pics to determine if there is a sexual attraction. Mostly guys JUST WANT ! I posted pics communicate what I like do when I make love, so there is no misunderstanding, and this is also the reason why I have had ...

23 response(s), 29 votes
t145m 58 M
1  question
points - 1/20/2020

what's the quickest way to pile up points

26 response(s), 22 votes
jobella37 53 F
8  questions
Bisexual females - 1/20/2020

WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO MEET OTHER BISEXUAL FEMALES ON HERE? I JOINED IN 20 AND ONLY MET 2 BACK THEN AND NONE SINCE. WHEN I WRITE TO THEM, THEY DON'T EVEN WRITE BACK...

1 response(s), 2 votes
miruton81 38 M
1  question
American Sex Dates or tinder? - 1/20/2020

So the question I have is which one is better for finding that "quick fix" that most of us are looking for. Seems like there are a lot of fake profiles on American Sex Dates but the same goes for tinder. Unfortunately, I live in a smaller town with an older population that doesn't really seem to use tinder. So what do y'all say works better?

29 response(s), 39 votes
LeiyaLuv_ 35 F
3  questions
Oral sex on first time hook up - 1/20/2020

Is receiving oral sex, on a first time “American Sex Dates hook up (sex) ” , something you would commonly expect?

61 response(s), 54 votes
Coolhungdude 33 M
2  questions
Sex until they are sore? - 1/19/2020

Ive found that insertion after repeated sessions creates a very tight sensation and my partner doesnt seem to mind

26 response(s), 43 votes
robdessertrider2 63 M
5  questions
Man VS Vibrator - 1/19/2020

This is a question for persons who delight in ability to make a woman scream with delight. <br><br> I have been with a couple of women, who depend on their battery powered Hatachi Toy to climax, and honestly that dependency is a turn off to me. <br><br> I love the way women can climax in rapid peaks in a row, I wish I could feel that many orgasms without a break. I used ...

37 response(s), 34 votes
Guy_B75 45 M
2  questions
Big clit - 1/19/2020

Am i the only one who fantasize on big clits....Any women around here have one?

14 response(s), 21 votes
jobella37 53 F
8  questions
Bisexual females - 1/19/2020

WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO MEET OTHER BISEXUAL FEMALES ON HERE? I JOINED IN 20 AND ONLY MET 2 BACK THEN AND NONE SINCE. WHEN I WRITE TO THEM, THEY DON'T EVEN WRITE BACK...

1 response(s), 0 votes
nerdygirl721 30 F
7  questions
Preparing for anal - 1/19/2020

Been wanting to try anal, but don't want to get my ass torn up. What are the best ways to prepare, so I can enjoy it?

10 response(s), 14 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
8  questions
Membership - 1/18/2020

Is it worth getting a membership on here, or shld I just stick with using my points?

20 response(s), 22 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
what happened to "respond"? - 1/18/2020

I went back to my previous question to respond but it wouldn't allow me to to so. Ha to use the "quote" to respond. <br><br> To quote a song lyric..."how long has this been going on"?

23 response(s), 29 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
8  questions
Why - 1/17/2020

Why do I get a ton of ppl from other states and countries constantly viewing my profile?

26 response(s), 31 votes
Superman4695 35 M
54  questions
Score 6.9
So a best guess... - 1/17/2020

as to real numbers for active members. The top blog post has around 1800 votes/replies in 29 days. So what percentage are participating as anyone gets a link to top blogs in a few places. have to assume most people see it. 5% would make it 36, 000 worldwide and 1% would make it 180, 000 worldwide members. Far cry from the millions they claim. I would bet it is south of 0K.

15 response(s), 16 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
9  questions
Are douche's bad for you? - 1/17/2020

And I'm not talking about the asshole kind <br><br> I've been using douches ever since I realized I loved get nailed, but I'm hearing that they might be bad for you in the long run. I've heard that all you need is a fiber diet clean yourself so there are no accidents during . But, I'm scared not use it before I hook up. <br><br> What do you guys ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
AL question removed - 1/16/2020

Over the last few months several AL questions of mine have been removed and I wonder if this has happened also others? Asking, if I owe a friend , because he was made believe I am on IM when I was preoccupied with more important things should not be a cause remove question or is it?

22 response(s), 23 votes
Blueberryz2 31 M
4  questions
This community is linked? - 1/16/2020

So I decided to google search my name on the website and the community section of the website came back in the results, several times over and most under different names, other than American Sex Dates. <br><br> Didn't need to log in to see the community page. <br><br> Whats with that?

38 response(s), 52 votes
thus ???? - 1/15/2020

Discussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Als

8 response(s), 13 votes
SiteSupport 32 C
3  questions
TEST QUESTION - 1/15/2020

This is a test. Please ignore.

28 response(s), 18 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
45  questions
Score 6.6
Testimonials [certifications] - 1/15/2020

Testimonial Description In promotion and of advertising, a testimonial consists of a person's written or spoken statement extolling the virtue of a product. <br><br> In this case the product is the profile. The virtue is their existence. <br><br> <br><br> One of the best ways we have used to find "real people" is sadly abused to the point of ...

21 response(s), 22 votes
Drazoth 25 M
1  question
Is the Content Filter acting up for anyone else? - 1/15/2020

I've got my content filter set "everything", yet it blocks images as if it where set "some nudity". Is this happening anyone else? Or does anyone know of a fix?

22 response(s), 15 votes
Mb607656 27 M
8  questions
Sending pictures - 1/15/2020

Ok, I'm having issues sending a picture another user on here who doesn't want use an external app or email etc. I can attach my profile picture, but the only other option is uploading one from my tablet/phone and it won't ball. If I send from my message page just shows a loading bar and never finishes, if I try from the other persons page it won't work either. And this site ...

19 response(s), 24 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Did anyone ever visit you by going through a window? - 1/15/2020

I just wonder if anyone could enlighten me what the difference is between Window 7 and 10, as far as safety is concerned. Is it similar to a condom? What are the advantages and disadvantages? ...

32 response(s), 48 votes
Tiim_1979 40 M
1  question
why message if your not going to continue after "hello" - 1/15/2020

I've been getting a few IM's, then after I reply, nothing. Is this common on here? I'm not saying anything offensive. just a simple greeting returning the "hello". anyway, just seeing if anyone else has this happen a lot.

67 response(s), 74 votes
Stradolin 52 M
1  question
"rm_" ? - 1/15/2020

I have seen a of profiles lately that have the prefix "rm_" before the username. Does anyone have any idea what this might be all about?

20 response(s), 17 votes
InUrReach 59 M
1  question
Do you squirt ??? - 1/14/2020

I have never had sex more than a few times with a lady where is didn't squirt. All women can , why don't more ??

67 response(s), 101 votes
Mega_manX 40 M
3  questions
LTR on American Sex Dates - 1/14/2020

Serious question, has anyone ever found a long term relationship on this site? How long did it last if so?

46 response(s), 49 votes
MarkCorona84u 44 M
3  questions
Points contributed - 1/14/2020

Is there a function that allows someone to “” to you? Has anyone ever received from an admirer??

29 response(s), 43 votes
lukeaskewedx2 60 M
13  questions
Score 5.1
I don't have a blog - 1/13/2020

So I'm gonna post this here. Do you think standard members should be silenced here on the A/L or charged points to post here ?

82 response(s), 48 votes
MarkCorona84u 44 M
3  questions
Finding fun on the road - 1/13/2020

Do you change your overall location or do you just put travel location in when you travel and try to find fun?

27 response(s), 39 votes
GrowNoShow 35 M
1  question
How did you learn to eat pussy? - 1/13/2020

Some people learn how to eat pussy through experience, while others learn through watching porn. Some start as teens while others wait until their college years. I did neither, while I did watch porn it definitely wasn't to learn how to eat pussy. It was majorly watched so i could rub one . I actually learned how to correctly eat pussy by reading. My early to mid twenties were spent on an ...

43 response(s), 53 votes
Sxynathong 36 M
1  question
first time 3 some - 1/13/2020

How to find the right couple to join for 3 some?

25 response(s), 41 votes
reaper3791 48 M
3  questions
New IM points system - 1/13/2020

I really do not like how to anyone on IM it's gonna you points to start a conversation or answer an incoming page. It's difficult to maintain enough points. It's ridiculous in my opinion!

51 response(s), 61 votes
MarkCorona84u 44 M
3  questions
Travel - 1/13/2020

Best way to connect via American Sex Dates when you are traveling for business? Any advice would be welcome!

22 response(s), 20 votes
FFU22018 53 F
17  questions
Score 12.1
"... opened to, or up for, anything." - 1/12/2020

I was looking through some "straight" profiles and noticed a lot of them using the phrase, "...opened , or up for, anything." Gotta say, it kind of makes throw up a little bit. Makes a guy sound like a cum rag... ready sop up the semen soup. WTF is that supposed mean? Is it code let other men know he's not straight?

56 response(s), 87 votes
Leahrawr 29 F
2  questions
I love to hear about fetishes how about you? - 1/12/2020

I guess you can say I have always been kind of addicted to sex. I can even tell you how many virgins I De-flowered in high school, guys and girls. I loved making someone cum so hard they are just a bit tingly everywhere. But once i left high school I started seeing older men and I let them teach me a few of my trick that I still use today. Most of the older guys were just very happy to be with me ...

5 response(s), 8 votes
Here4fun748 48 M
2  questions
Making a woman squirti - 1/12/2020

What is the best way to make a woman squirt?

2 response(s), 6 votes
electrastorm69 38 F
6  questions
Score 5.8
Squirt Much? - 1/12/2020

What is the preoccupation with squirting about? Many guys keep asking if you are a squirter like it is some sort of prerequisite. Not saying that I'm not btw but is it some measurement for sexiness or just a male fascination?

14 response(s), 23 votes
Cjog78 27 M
1  question
Strapon vs cock - 1/12/2020

What’s better? A nice hard cock or a great strapon fucking from a hot woman?

34 response(s), 36 votes
Jaxxx2020 34 M
1  question
To let it all hang out or not? - 1/12/2020

Ok this is a serious question for the ladies on the sight. How do you feel about dick pics not only on a profile but also receiving them in your inbox. I’ve got mixed responses in the past so emu information would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

24 response(s), 35 votes
bacchettina 51 M
2  questions
group masturbation - 1/12/2020

is a dream or a nightmare?

45 response(s), 73 votes
bacchettina 51 M
2  questions
group masturbation - 1/12/2020

is a dream or a nightmare?

4 response(s), 6 votes
DvillePUSSYEATER 49 M
1  question
Score 0.1
Who Is Wrong / Who Is Right - 1/12/2020

Me and wife have been married almost 35 yrs. never once did I get a swallowing blow job.Now she would suck on it but when I would get close she would finish me Jacking me. Also for those same of years I always preformed cunnilingus, usually 1st. but always. <br><br> <br><br> So my question is would I be wrong if I found some1 that didn't mind blowing me.

54 response(s), 52 votes
reaper3791 48 M
3  questions
First meeting - 1/12/2020

I've met my fair share of people on here and for me, every single first meeting ending up involving sex. Is it a common occurrence?

30 response(s), 43 votes
Timepiece201i 51 M
1  question
Women - 1/12/2020

Do you prefer young women or the more mature one?

51 response(s), 57 votes
tallcool2013 45 M
3  questions
size - 1/12/2020

do women love ten inch cocks?

21 response(s), 35 votes
Pullmytrigger56 52 M
1  question
Today - 1/12/2020

Is it thursday yet?

18 response(s), 31 votes
Next2us 48 C
65  questions
Do you know why Santa is so jolly? - 1/11/2020

Answer: Because He knows where all the naughty girls live. Merry Christmas everyone and have a fucking New Year. I know I would. LOL <br><br> ...

33 response(s), 81 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Friends & Love - 1/11/2020

In your opinion, what is better, having a handful or a couple of dozen friends? Yes, indeed, I am not talking about FB or American Sex Dates friends, but real friends you spend valuable time with. Share thoughts, experiences, dreams, exchange opinions, show your love and help out when needed. Can we ever have too many friends? What advice would you give to someone who works 6 to 10 hours a ...

36 response(s), 55 votes
Long Distance Flirt - 1/11/2020

So why do people who are a thousand miles away flirt?

48 response(s), 63 votes
wewillfuck2day 39 C
1  question
meetings - 1/11/2020

do people actually meet onhere anymore or just a bunch of piccllectors

42 response(s), 52 votes
LVMXRACER 33 M
1  question
why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks? - 1/11/2020

why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks?why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks?

58 response(s), 42 votes
jay69kl 37 M
1  question
Control Freak - 1/11/2020

Do you guys prefer a control freak girl that have high sex drive?

28 response(s), 34 votes
Group Fun - 1/11/2020

What is the best group dynamic...? Is it better to have an even of guys and girls, or better to have two girls with four or more guys- basically, 2 guys for 1 girl? I am trying to organize a little group fun in the Toronto area

27 response(s), 37 votes
Does anyone care anymore if their partner has pubic hair or not? - 1/11/2020

I've been with several women on this site and most are completely shaven and really nice. I was intrigued by one woman who I met here and although she was trimmed; she didn't like men who had pubic hair. She had a nice body, but was a little immature and self centered.

79 response(s), 55 votes
nerdygirl721 30 F
7  questions
Preparing for anal - 1/11/2020

Been wanting to try anal, but don't want to get my ass torn up. What are the best ways to prepare, so I can enjoy it?

78 response(s), 73 votes
NieveNate69 54 M
1  question
Score 0.4
Private Message - 1/11/2020

As a non-paying member, why can I sometimes read private email messages and sometimes I can't because they are blurred ?

41 response(s), 43 votes
Lolaloquita 45 T
1  question
Crossdressers - 1/11/2020

What can i do find a real ?

28 response(s), 29 votes
davies11223344 40 M
2  questions
Throbbing - 1/11/2020

I'm throbbing

38 response(s), 41 votes
Cougarbait3333 27 M
1  question
Is being a cuck sissy bad - 1/9/2020

Do women mind if their husband was turned on by sissy cuck play?

40 response(s), 41 votes
spice_it_up49 49 M
1  question
Women in Lingerie..... - 1/9/2020

I love a woman that dresses up for her man/woman. Do woman enjoy dressing in lingerie or is it done for their partner?

46 response(s), 68 votes
2CravenMoorehead 44 M
2  questions
What to do when you have no place to meet? - 1/9/2020

So, I’m always running into the issue of I can’t host and neither can she. Car sex is typically awful. Any ideas?

55 response(s), 27 votes
Chubbihorny 49 C
1  question
bisexual swingers - 1/9/2020

is there any cool and safe place in Hollywood Fl or Fort Lauderdale to meet other bisexual couples?

30 response(s), 52 votes
Hishers1982 37 C
1  question
Foursomes - 1/9/2020

Are they fun?

55 response(s), 95 votes
tallcool2013 45 M
3  questions
why? - 1/9/2020

why am i so sexy?

42 response(s), 37 votes
Nostradamus - 1/8/2020

FYI, <br><br> Every once in a Blue Moon I see a member's pic that catches my eye and feel the need to leave a comment. Well, today I saw such one. When I went to leave a comment, up popped a new a new message, informing me that it now cost Standard members 10 pts to leave a comment. The site use to give you a couple of pts whenever you left a comment. I'm just as sick and ...

34 response(s), 50 votes
D0ct0rSF 43 M
2  questions
Best Way To Get points - 1/8/2020

Hi what is the best method to get points quickly? Thanks!

14 response(s), 18 votes
davies11223344 40 M
2  questions
Hello - 1/8/2020

Yeah

16 response(s), 14 votes
sussi1028 59 F
373  questions
Score 0.7
Life & Work Balance - 1/8/2020

What do you consider a healthy life & work balance? <br><br> . in advance for your comments and happy 2020 you Not Bling Owner...

34 response(s), 59 votes
Locals - 1/8/2020

Any B.C. locals that know of good outdoor spots to have naked fun?

20 response(s), 27 votes
reaper3791 48 M
3  questions
A question for the ladies - 1/7/2020

What is your biggest turn on in a situation?

13 response(s), 28 votes
Adventurecpl47 72 C
20  questions
bathroom door - 1/7/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

1 response(s), 5 votes
Adventurecpl47 72 C
20  questions
bathroom door - 1/7/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

2 response(s), 3 votes
Kinks4328 37 M
1  question
Ass - 1/7/2020

Do women like playing with a mans ass?

37 response(s), 54 votes