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hotguywanted2 45 C
1  Article
What I'm after   3/2/2008

This note is an extension of the profile I recently put up on American Sex Dates. To those of you who fit the bill and are interested, it’s to explain in greater detail what I’m after and how I see it playing its self out. I have 2 pics posted and will show another but until I find the right person I will not show a clear pic of her face. I most certainly will as things evolve though. I’ve hot listed a ...


0 Comments, 649 Views, 16 Votes ,1.51 Score
Threes company   3/1/2008

This little story is about our very first time at having a threesome. We had been talking and having fantasies about threesomes, but was honestly a little too scared to act upon them. We had read stories and watched movies and we had decided that it would be something that we definitly wanted to do, but didnt know anyone else who did it, so it kinda became a thing of ...


8 Comments, 4731 Views, 91 Votes ,7.73 Score
firegryphon 47 F
5  Articles
Show some class: Stop pushing me   3/1/2008

We're all pretty damned familiar with the myriad of way the guys here on American Sex Dates get pushy. But what about couples? Couples can be equally pushy and it's just as much of a turn off!

Here's a few suggestions:

1.) Obviously, blatant comments/messages like "We wanna fuck you silly" aren't going to be any more effective for couples than it is for the thousands of guys who use this ...


2 Comments, 194 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
ROCShotInTheDark 50 M
1  Article
Any advice? Walk before you run   2/28/2008

I've enjoyed this site for many years but have never told my wife about it. It amazes me how open people are and there need to express it. So here is one of my first expressions and turn to the community for advice. My wife and I have been married for over 10 years. We have a good sex life and as both of us have matured, toys have become a great addition to our bedroom. My wife has gotten to ...


3 Comments, 369 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
rm_69mamaforya 39 C
1  Article
Why is finding other poeple so hard?   2/25/2008

well we have been on this site for a month now and finding other people it's so hard b/c I'm black and my bf is white is it a race thing or is anyone interested? I think we are both attractive so with that being said if there is anyone out there near the jacksonville new bern havelock North carolina area we are a fun loving couple and cool to be around get up with us we promise that we will not ...


9 Comments, 315 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
99rolands 49 M
4  Articles
Sex and Travelling..   2/25/2008

No, this isn't about the best places to have sex while traveling. I travel a lot for work, over 9 months out of the year. Now this isn't a quest to see how many I can score with or have a different person in every city I get to. But I believe since I'm single, if I'm going to have fun, now is the time, right? So tell me, are there others like me out there, men and women, who just want even ...


1 Comments, 342 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Watching My Girlfriend...   2/24/2008

My gf and i had talked about having a threesome with another male. We answered some personal ads and she even approached some male co-workers about a possible threesome. Due to work schedules, etc... it just never happened. We kept talking about it. It was a real turn on hearing her talk about fucking another man. She did have a former boyfriend that she said was a possibilty. She said he was a ...


13 Comments, 5154 Views, 91 Votes ,6.27 Score
SOMFAz 40 M
2  Articles
Single swinging...   2/22/2008

Why does a single man attempting to "swing" solo reek of desperation? Guys are pervs. It's no secret we'll fuck anything that walks. Girls into the same freaky fun are a rare breed and therefore a highly sought after commodity. Fellas, if your girl swings, you are a lucky man. Hold on to her and never let her go. Unless of course it's to go fuck some other dude while you nail his wife. As for all ...


1 Comments, 135 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
first date and then the family?   2/21/2008

I met this girl in a bar, sound familiar? anyway, we chatted for a while and yada, yada, i asked her to leave with me, once in my car she told me that we could go to her house if i wanted too? she was about 20, red hair, green eyes, lovely body and made me pretty hard. as we were driving she slid over too me, kissing my ear and neck and rubbing my crouch. wow, i turned to kiss her, our tongues ...


6 Comments, 4345 Views, 74 Votes ,7.38 Score
Players_Paradise 48 G
80  Articles
Ladies Question   2/21/2008

Ladies what will you do to your spouse , partner or male significant other that you won't do with anyone else ( ie Swing Date ) ?

Swallow His Cum Have Sex While On My Period Anal Sex Tongue Kiss Cum In My Mouth Love Bites -- Hickey Bareback Me Cum Inside Me All The Above ...


0 Comments, 977 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
rm_GORTEX2 45 C
4  Articles
In Las Vegas for work, and play next week   2/21/2008

My Wife and I will be in Vegas on Feb 27, 28 and leaveing the 29th. Would love to hook up with somone to spend a little tim with. Staying at the MGM. She will have lots of time alone on Thursday..hate for her to be that bored....


4 Comments, 565 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
1st time mmf (his story part 2)   2/19/2008

We contacted a few guys that my wife found attractive and finally settled on 1 that was from a near by town and didn't mind the drive to meet with us. She was a little aprehensive and I think more than a little nervous about what my real reaction might be if somthing were to happen, but went ahead with it anyway. Besides we let him know that this would be a drinks only date.

We decided ...


5 Comments, 3211 Views, 32 Votes ,1.74 Score
1st Time mmf (his story)   2/19/2008

I've read a lot of articles on here and while I find many of the believeable ones hot. I think that for those that are into this kind of story you might find this entertaining.

I suppose I should start with the usual background. We are what we consider an average couple in our late 30's early 40's. Both of us have busy work lives, 2 a a house a lot bills.

We are very close as a ...


1 Comments, 2164 Views, 19 Votes ,1.01 Score
rgvhotcouple 68 C
2  Articles
RGV Swingers   2/18/2008

Are there any good swing clubs in the Rio Grande Valley in South Texas. We would really like to find one that is really hot and discrete. Please anyone know of anyplace?


2 Comments, 338 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
niceguywesternok 35 M
11  Articles
not anymore   2/17/2008

i dont swing anymore


1 Comments, 229 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Birthday Present   2/16/2008

My husband and I have been married for almost 5 yrs and are both interested in having a 3some. We both have with previous partners, but not together. And being busy with jobs and small - we dont have a whole lot of time to get something "started". His birthday is coming up and I would like to give him one of his fantasies - I need to initiate this and find a woman to fuck my husband and I'll ...


6 Comments, 3811 Views, 33 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_maryjayne733 46 C
1  Article
first timers   2/15/2008

hi just typing away bored n thought i would write this article to say hi were first timers and boy is it scary but hey as my mistress used to say first time for everything haha anyway if ppl have any tips or hints on how to go on or hows best to meet ppl or any other advice i would be greatful


1 Comments, 967 Views, 13 Votes ,1.47 Score
rm_funinfl4all 104 C
32  Articles
the party   2/11/2008

My husband and I were leaving to attend a friend's mid- summer party. They held the party each year, which was always an eventful night, as everyone tends to let their hair down and have a great time.

The party is a formal affair and my husband looked incredibly sexy in his new suit. I chose to wear my long black dress that had a long slit on the side that showed off my long legs, which ...


19 Comments, 6348 Views, 119 Votes ,8.29 Score
KINGPIN0007 61 M
1  Article
Looking for sexy fun with no strings R U ?   2/9/2008

To me sex is just sex, fun with no strings. Is it a man thing ?. We can have sex without love. Woman want sex but they want love as well. When a woman writes that she wants sex with no strings, why dont they meen it. Men beware there are some very bitter and twisted woman on this site.


2 Comments, 174 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Information about swinging   2/8/2008

Hi i would like to get into swinging, how would i do this? Thanks


2 Comments, 118 Views, 0 Votes
Our first time   2/8/2008

We have been in this lifestyle for over twenty years. I thought I would tell about our first three way. We met Steve at a football game; he was in town working on the new convention center. He explained to us that he was married and their were grown. He told us that he and his wife were in an open relationship due to his work. We had discussed swinging with another couple not a three way. ...


4 Comments, 3586 Views, 64 Votes ,8.01 Score
licker696903 60 M
2  Articles
Wife sharing   2/7/2008

I have always had a fantasy of sharing my wife with a guy while we were on vacation, but could never get past the fantasy part until her birthday. She changes alote when she drinks and I mananged to have a guy come home with us from the bar. He helped me take her downstairs into our bedroom. We undressed her together and here was my wife naked in front of another man. She reached out and unzipped ...


13 Comments, 4768 Views, 69 Votes ,6.57 Score
When one partner stops   2/6/2008

HI, I am wondering if someone could give me some advice on how they handled this situation. I am sure that it has happened to others and i would love to find out how they handled it.

My wife and I have been together for 19yrs now and we started swinging with a few friends after a couple of years.

This went on happily until the came then we both stopped to devote our time ...


9 Comments, 632 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
first_timers4u2 45 C
3  Articles
Innocent wife's MFM experience (and near foursome)   2/5/2008

We are a young couple, been married for a few years now and as we all know as time goes by we all need something to spice up our sex lives. Its not that we loose interest in each other but infact develop feelings that could blow your mind over, especially when you think of a MFM or FMF or a foursome.

Its been a while and even years that I have been speaking to my wife of a possible 3some ...


15 Comments, 8161 Views, 156 Votes ,8.90 Score
looking for swingers   2/4/2008

would love to experience the lifestyle but where do i find people to share this with?


4 Comments, 154 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
rm_angle4all 48 F
13  Articles
true confession   2/4/2008

My first threesome... It was with my late husband and his best fried of over 30years sort of... the lost contact with one another for ten or fifteen years... one day Al went into our local kwick-fill. When he went to pay the cashier she ask him his name she thought she knew him from 20 years ago. Sure enough it was the niece of Al's best friend Mike. She gave Al his number he paid her and left ...


4 Comments, 2633 Views, 39 Votes ,3.48 Score
Twitchie and Me pt2   2/4/2008

Twitchie , Susie and I setteled down to a very comfortable living situatin exspecially for me.Unfortuanatley life gets in the way. I got shot up a little in Nam and had to have some surgerys mostly on my right arm and shoulder also had to retire from work with a V A Pension.Susie and Twitchie were there far all the surgerys and took turns taking off work to care for me.These 2 very pretty and ...


1 Comments, 398 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
Trust or lust   2/2/2008

How would you deal with this.

Say you went out for a planned evening with a couple and everything went well.You end up back at the hotel, pair off and start to enjoy yourself.

Only to find out that you have just experienced the best sex you have ever had.

Do you sigh, and remember it fondly? Try to get together as often as possible?

How would you deal ...


2 Comments, 825 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
four men and a lady   2/1/2008

I have recently had the pleasure of finding one hot lady through here. she just cant get enough sex. I had this idea for her. I planned a very hot night of pleasure for the "two" of us. When i arrived we fooled around a little bit, kissing, fondling, teasing, and soon went to her bedroom. i undressed her and laid her on her bed, kissing her body all over. licking her nipples, sucking and ...


8 Comments, 3320 Views, 66 Votes ,7.61 Score
rm_bigkuntre2 39 M
1  Article
need help with convincing wife to swing again   1/31/2008

my wife is bisexual and i want us to be swingers just as a hobby you know we only would do every once in awhile. she have done things like that before with her ex and he went behind her back and started cheating on her. now when we first got together she was all up for it but soon as we got married she don't want to do it anymore because she is afraid that i will leave her now she is great in bed ...


3 Comments, 586 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score