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This has probably has been discussed alot but. 12/23/2014
How do you best say your not interested in another couple
in a face to face meet n greet? I have always respected being
honest with people but sometimes a white lie in these cases
are too bad. Tell me your thoughts ....
1 Comments, 47 Views,
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Using IM 12/20/2014
I find that many simply never respond to an IM request for
chat. Is there any etiquette on this matter?
5 Comments, 108 Views,
9 Votes
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Testimonials 12/10/2014
Do you sometimes say no thanks to someone that has given
you a testimonial?
6 Comments, 49 Views,
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No way 12/6/2014
We love the feature that lets us add a message on the IM before
we block them.
5 Comments, 58 Views,
11 Votes
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No thanks. 12/6/2014
Do single guys realize that most women and couples get hit
repeatedly every day with stupid emails from single guys?
We have jobs we don't need another one answering all
the stupid stuff that comes our way. Oh and here's an idea try writing things that make sense
and that don't reek of coming from an 11 year old.
12 Comments, 77 Views,
19 Votes
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No 11/19/2014
Saying no has become very easy to say on this site especially
with single guys.
3 Comments, 41 Views,
5 Votes
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Blocked!!! 11/10/2014
There's no need to feel like you have to answer all these
guys, just block them period.
3 Comments, 44 Views,
11 Votes
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Why does this seem to be so difficult.... 10/26/2014
I can understand that a huge amount of requests are posted
on this site especially in the chat rooms & IM, but so
many people just don't have the time to reply with a
polite "No Thanks", it's almost like everybody
is in such a rush or seem to hold themselves in such a high
esteem that it's below them to do so (you know who you
are people, admit it). I was always brought up to be polite and it's ...
7 Comments, 84 Views,
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It has to work for both or not at all 10/17/2014
Whenever I talk or chat with someone about meeting, I try
to make it very clear that even though it may sound like a
match and a hot time ahead, you don't know if it works
for you until you meet. Everyone has their own preferences
and attractions, I always meet with the agreement that
if it won't work for either one, it is a thanks, but no
thanks, a handshake, and good luck to you. I am not ...
4 Comments, 84 Views,
3 Votes
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The Best Way to Respond to "No Thanks" Replies 10/14/2014
Like anyone who has been on American Sex Dates for any length of time and
has tried to make contact with someone, I have received
my share of "Thanks, but No Thanks" replies.
I have been told however, that my response to those "No
Thanks" replies is quite different than what most
women receive from those kinds of replies.
I am not rude or abusive to the woman who told me "No
Thanks". I do not whine or ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
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Do men read profiles at all 10/14/2014
Yes i like both men and women but at this time I'm looking
for only women to play with but these men seem to think they
can change you mine by saying I need dick if i want dick i will
get dick but i want and need pussy no thank you another black
men s
8 Comments, 81 Views,
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blah 10/11/2014
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Manners.... 10/11/2014
Why do some people not takes a minute to say no thanks if they
arent interested. It's only polite...
8 Comments, 62 Views,
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be nice 10/11/2014
give some kind of response, let them know u got message, or
they might keep mailing
10 Comments, 62 Views,
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Why is it so hard to reply 10/7/2014
Why do people, women, never reply to messages even if just
to say "sorry no thanks". Surely it cannot that
hard to do.
10 Comments, 123 Views,
18 Votes
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just say . . . 10/7/2014
no.
i've already had enough to eat.
thanks though.
k.
bai.
2 Comments, 13 Views,
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why so hard 10/6/2014
Why is it so hard for someone to just say "no thanks"
It seems to me that most people in general like to avoid confrontation
and would just rather ignore a person then to respond.
6 Comments, 76 Views,
14 Votes
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Constructive 10/6/2014
Do you give constructive criticism when saying no?
1 Comments, 51 Views,
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not interested 10/6/2014
Why do ppl constantly message you especially on I.m when
you say your not interested and they just keep at it. I blocked
this guy and he changed his screen name 3 times just to keep
bugging me. Why is im not interested so hard to comprehend?
It bugs me with the persistance of some people. I hate to
be rude but sometimes thats all that will work.
5 Comments, 44 Views,
16 Votes
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avoid shit 10/3/2014
Sometimes u just have to say no wat is for u is for u don't
rush life avoid unexpected stuff in like avoid say no
1 Comments, 28 Views,
9 Votes
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Since you asked... 9/30/2014
As I glanced at the articles on the Saying "No Thanks"
page, I noticed that 5/12 of the articles on the first page
were all regarding the fact that women here often don't
give a polite 'no thank you" when emailed or IMed.
I certainly don't expect that posting my reason for
not responding to those who contact me will make a dent in
the future "why are women so rude" questions,
but here goes ...
8 Comments, 113 Views,
18 Votes
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Saying No 9/22/2014
When someone isn't attractive to you but keeps coming
at you how do you let them down easy?
3 Comments, 45 Views,
5 Votes
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women 9/19/2014
Women on this site are such ass wipes if u dou wanna take to
a guy wen he sends a message tel them that don't not send
a message and then I keep replieyin thinkin u didn't
get my massage and then al of a sudden am a freak yr such ass
hole
18 Comments, 167 Views,
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Hypocrisy? 9/18/2014
American Sex Dates has been a good platform for like minded people to get
to know each other...express themselves. But i guess the
reality is very different. Many a times the profiles are
misleading. The response one gets is so different that
what's in profile. Knowing well that with distance, different priorities
and in general the circumstances it would not be possible
to always meet in person. The big ...
4 Comments, 85 Views,
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Isnt Easy 9/13/2014
you email you chat you share picks and you decide that you
would like to me... You make the plans and you meet and on the surface all is cool...but
under the conversation and laughter that lil spark required
to get naked isnt what it should be.....you know it will
never happen
been there done that...it just isnt easy since the underlying
reason for meeting was to get naked.....I would ...
3 Comments, 83 Views,
8 Votes
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The best way 9/13/2014
What's the best way for a girl to tell you that they aren't
interested? Do you want a response? Is an explanation needed
or is "no thanks" enough? Do guys realize that
many will send back a response that mimics the attitude
that the interest is given?
7 Comments, 55 Views,
9 Votes
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NO THANKS 8/18/2014
Strictly speaking "No thanks" would mean the
person is not giving you any thanks. With a comma, "No,
thanks", means "No, but thank you anyway"
or similar
1 Comments, 21 Views,
2 Votes
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The Polite No Thank you 8/12/2014
So, here you are on the instant messenger. You log on to see
who's chatting, someone flashes across your screen
with a hello, you quickly view their profile, you're
not interested! What do you do?
Well, from experience that my significant other has had
on this site, most people just ignore the other person if
they're not interested.
I am one of the types that believe that's not ...
9 Comments, 121 Views,
28 Votes
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BLOG 8/11/2014
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Proper etiquette on saying NO 8/10/2014
There are alot of members who get tons of e-mails, flirts
and friend requests (especially women) on American Sex Dates, so much
that many of them just delete/ignore the sender. The proper
way to respond would be to just say "No thanks I am not
interested" copy this response to the cursor and
paste it when appropriate. If the sender keeps on sending
either block or report that person. When you do not respond
to ...
6 Comments, 67 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score |