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Grewpetty 60 M
5  Articles
Dating during Corona   6/10/2020

For most people, I assume that the current situation with social distancing etc. has had a big impact on activities here. Anyone have a story to share about that?

1 Comments, 14 Views, 0 Votes
Thizzlerontheroo 29 M
2  Articles
More   3/28/2020

Who cheats more

1 Comments, 8 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
......corona virus ??   3/15/2020

I want to say that yes I understand this is a serious threat to all of us. <br><br> but I think the media is over doing it to sensationalize it like they do everything else. <br><br> when they have no foundation to attack a conservative they attack the public by trying to scare the hell out of us. you know that whole thing about controling the masses by fear mongering ...

3 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
Biggirll510 60 F
0  Articles
I try to avoid confrontation but...   2/28/2020

I had been chatting online back and forth for a couple days with this guy. He questioned whether my account was real or not. I asked him how did he want me to prove that I am who I say I am. He said a private video. I have never webcammed before, I tried using the webcam feature here but it wouldnt let me go private. Then he suggests to chat on facetime, but I dont have a smart phone that has ...

4 Comments, 52 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
tripod2014 49 M
15  Articles‚ Score 0.2
Always...   2/12/2020

Meet in public first...then have fun Never Pressure.... Always keep it wrapped. Have fun!

2 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Fake profiles   2/3/2020

There has been an increase of fake profiles lately . Some are no brainer on how fake they are. They state how much they want to find true love and happiness. Some seem normal for this site and even go as far to pay for a gold membership. If they ask for email/phone right away is also a sign. I know they prey on men. I’m not sure if the women members are getting it on their end. Just be careful. ...

4 Comments, 43 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
Mrcapa7 45 M
3  Articles
Accidents happen   2/2/2020

Today I was fooling around with my wife. We were going at it doggie style hard when I accidentally pulled out and thrust right up her ass. Need less to say there were screams that only excited further. I finished on the next thurst while she tried desperately get away. It all happened so fast she couldn't get words out. When I was done she turned around and slapped which I grinned and ...

2 Comments, 38 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
Lixxalotapus 49 M
1  Article
No pressure   1/20/2020

Men please understand that women are the creatures that we desire. Do not try to pressure or force them into a meeting that they are not comfortable with. Always have a safe place to meet first, then if it is right, work out something between the two of you that works for both. You will both enjoy yourselves more.

2 Comments, 36 Views, 15 Votes ,1.45 Score
Wayneb518518 41 M
5  Articles
Date safe   1/12/2020

Date the

2 Comments, 40 Views, 28 Votes ,2.01 Score
jay69kl 37 M
3  Articles
For Points and Many More   1/9/2020

This is an article to gain , feel free to vote!

2 Comments, 44 Views, 28 Votes ,3.55 Score
2CravenMoorehead 44 M
7  Articles
Keeping safe   1/8/2020

I personally don’t give out any of my “real information” until I’ve met the person face to face. No or my real name. I’m more than happy telling someone at the onset that I don’t uE my real name until we actually meet. Just too many crazy people.

0 Comments, 45 Views, 22 Votes ,2.53 Score
Contact info   1/6/2020

How long do you wait give out personal i fo?

4 Comments, 56 Views, 30 Votes ,2.46 Score
NickgNite 21 M
1  Article
Be safe   12/24/2019

Dont give personal info. Be safe out there

4 Comments, 62 Views, 38 Votes ,3.82 Score
Yankees2378 42 M
5  Articles
Date safe   12/18/2019

Date safe for points

2 Comments, 53 Views, 42 Votes ,3.00 Score
TattedH0tR0d8069 39 M
6  Articles
Blacks   12/17/2019

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1 Comments, 53 Views, 38 Votes ,1.33 Score
Johnybluu 44 M
8  Articles
Std   12/12/2019

This is pretty weird. I just wanna know. Is it OK to ask a woman to take 8STD test before you hook up with them. I know some of the tests are perfectly accurate and you have to wait some time after having sex for the test a relatively be correct. I just have this crazy phobia and I think I built it up in my own mind. The last couple of women that I've done together with I haven't hooked ...

9 Comments, 98 Views, 56 Votes ,2.98 Score
PittHotWife1 35 C
1  Article
Hotwives   12/8/2019

Solo or with husband present? If solo, how do couples ensure safety?

8 Comments, 102 Views, 59 Votes ,2.40 Score
Points are good   12/6/2019

Having safe sex for points is the only way to live.

2 Comments, 44 Views, 36 Votes ,3.41 Score
be safe boys   12/1/2019

some these girls crazy be careful there lads

0 Comments, 45 Views, 34 Votes ,2.34 Score
karen_mwf 31 F
2  Articles
Where to meet   11/30/2019

I know that it's a good idea to meet a stranger in public for the first time but where is the best place to meet. Just wanting to get opinions from those who have actually done it.

14 Comments, 122 Views, 52 Votes ,3.81 Score
Yankees51841 42 M
5  Articles
Dates   11/29/2019

Be safe for points

1 Comments, 48 Views, 37 Votes ,1.80 Score
Wayneb4151841 41 M
5  Articles
Safety   11/28/2019

Points are very safe

2 Comments, 35 Views, 26 Votes ,1.52 Score
mace   11/25/2019

Is it proper to bring a stun gun and mace to a date just in case someone tries to do some shit?

0 Comments, 24 Views, 17 Votes ,2.28 Score
SaxyStudM 20 M
1  Article
Be safe   11/22/2019

Make sure you’re meeting the right person. Do a background check if you want

0 Comments, 20 Views, 14 Votes ,1.70 Score
wasexg 30 M
2  Articles
apps   11/11/2019

Anybody ever run into some weirdos through here or the apps like tinder?

1 Comments, 38 Views, 19 Votes ,0.75 Score
barecheaters 38 M
5  Articles
First time meeting locations   11/7/2019

Do you guys usually meet in public places first or go straight to the bedroom. In the past I have jumped straight to he sex. Can be nerve racking not knowing what your walking into.

1 Comments, 46 Views, 34 Votes ,2.70 Score
pjfriendly001 42 M
1  Article
How safe are you?   11/3/2019

Do you require any pre-activities to meeting up. Or do you show up expect everything to work out just right? <br><br> Phone call, video call etc? Exchange addresses licenseplates etc? Do you let others know who you are going to meet and where? to call in certain time frame to make sure you are okay?

4 Comments, 53 Views, 27 Votes ,1.56 Score
2nd amendment   11/1/2019

Is it considered safe sex if you're carrying at the time?

1 Comments, 24 Views, 17 Votes ,0.44 Score
has anyone got into issues or problems meeting people   10/29/2019

i wonder how many awkward or even scary situations members have experienced

2 Comments, 49 Views, 31 Votes ,1.61 Score
Princealbertokla 51 M
1  Article
Let’s start by just having coffee at a public place   10/27/2019

Should all be good , watch a movie , Watch each other , Yes you can hold it lol.

0 Comments, 36 Views, 30 Votes ,2.75 Score
short term flings   10/24/2019

keep it wrapped up! though I haven't always been so diligent, it really does make more sense. Also helps with not feeling anxious later if you ever question if she was clean

1 Comments, 38 Views, 30 Votes ,3.53 Score
duke982000 51 M
21  Articles
yes   10/24/2019

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm yes ty

1 Comments, 33 Views, 20 Votes ,2.36 Score
jimmyjohny1986 34 M
5  Articles
Least Safest Situation you've Put Yourself In   10/19/2019

What's the least safe situation you've ever put yourself in over sex? I know everyone has done something incredibly stupid at some point in time, I'm just curious what everyone's worst has been.

0 Comments, 55 Views, 39 Votes ,2.99 Score
Markr6428 56 M
7  Articles
common sense   10/18/2019

meet in public places until you figure out who the person is...have your own ride....never let your drink out of your sight....let other people know where you are and who you are supposedly meeting...make sure you have that friend who will come get you, any place, any time...and don't get too shit faced you can't make good decisions... oh, ladies, learn how to defend yourself....was a ...

1 Comments, 45 Views, 28 Votes ,3.34 Score
Bigdeemikeh2 32 M
9  Articles
IF you don't like dating   10/18/2019

live by the three F's. They go by: if it floats, flys, or fucks, rent it don't buy it.

1 Comments, 16 Views, 12 Votes ,1.39 Score
Beencheated73 43 M
5  Articles
Meeting others   10/15/2019

As a male on here it never really crossed my mind what women on her go through when you finally decide to meet. Most of my nerves have been weather we will hit it off. Also, will I freeze up when it comes to communication, make the move catching the flirt and signs that it’s working out. But lately I have been thinking about safety wondering if the person on the other end is not a dangerous or ...

1 Comments, 35 Views, 21 Votes ,2.75 Score
gangpera 49 C
5  Articles

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0 Comments, 28 Views, 21 Votes ,2.63 Score
Points galore   10/11/2019

Points galore

1 Comments, 18 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
Bjman0 42 M
5  Articles
It’s hard   10/10/2019

There really is no safe way to date anymore if you look how the courts have been ruling and the victims fault. These judges have made it to wear its will be allowed without consequences sad really no one is safe anymore

1 Comments, 23 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
BigTitFettish 37 M
5  Articles
points   10/3/2019

Running of options get points, anyone down purchase a gold membership lol? <br><br> never know...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
bluemonkey12345 36 M
3  Articles
What do you do to be safe?   9/30/2019

I have only been with girls, but want to try with a guy, what do I need to do to be safe? If I get a blowjob without a condom, what can I get?

1 Comments, 34 Views, 24 Votes ,3.58 Score
9  Articles
Dinning at the Y   9/25/2019

With STD concerns what is the best method for a guy to pleasure a woman with his tongue? <br><br> Hmm without protection is best but high risk <br><br> Other option is stretch a condom over her pussy, high risk of it breaking or leaking along sides and tastes bad. <br><br> Can this be an interactive article?

3 Comments, 40 Views, 28 Votes ,3.55 Score
Pullmytrigger55 49 M
12  Articles
Screwed   9/18/2019

That's what American Sex Dates does to u

2 Comments, 44 Views, 29 Votes ,2.94 Score
lurch4040 51 M
9  Articles
helping a friend   9/14/2019

my female friends usually text me when they meet someone for the first time. It's hard to find people you can trust and share your kinky experiences with

2 Comments, 35 Views, 27 Votes ,1.98 Score
Fake profiles   9/9/2019

Instead of changing this site for the worst with decreasing numbers in visitors and member they should put more effort in making sure the members and visitors are on here are actually real and not . No "google pictures"..... i can spot them from a mile away. American Sex Dates should give bonuspoints for the people who are actually genuine. <br><br> What are you're thoughts about ...

5 Comments, 65 Views, 43 Votes ,4.07 Score
PusssyLicker069 44 M
4  Articles
Safe to lick pussy on a first date ?   9/3/2019

Well as the title says... Will you lick on a first date ?

2 Comments, 67 Views, 35 Votes ,3.77 Score
Bbcforyou480 35 M
5  Articles
How long   9/2/2019

How long would you wait introduce your new partner friends/family?

1 Comments, 28 Views, 24 Votes ,2.11 Score
Fuego_intenso_ 33 M
2  Articles
En cuales sitios prefieren esa primera cita?   9/1/2019

Digase lo que se diga, las mujeres siguen siendo el principal blanco de personas malintencionadas o de enfermos que no aceptan un "NO" por respuesta; asi que en general el tema de elegir un sitio mas comodo para un primer encuentro, despues de ganarse la confianza mutua que no es tarea nada facil, es bastante complicado de decir. <br><br> Uno siendo caballero intentara por ...

0 Comments, 23 Views, 18 Votes ,2.72 Score
points   8/30/2019

need them

2 Comments, 29 Views, 22 Votes ,2.53 Score
whats the scoop   8/21/2019

oh I just made another article for another point session

0 Comments, 49 Views, 40 Votes ,2.92 Score
Is anyone real   8/19/2019

I have been on this site for several years now and it seems that very few people seem to be real. What i mean by that is that they talk to you and such but when it comes to meeting its seems most people dont even want that. Is it because of the safety? Or do these people just head games oor what do you think the reason is for this?

6 Comments, 86 Views, 45 Votes ,2.21 Score
Wolfenstein52 37 M
7  Articles
Why is it sooo hard to have safe sex for some??   8/11/2019

Listen I know that going without protection feels soo good and sometimes people aren't as honest as they seem but you have yourself and your health... some things cannot be treated and everyone's safety you need make sure your not spreading something.

3 Comments, 56 Views, 40 Votes ,3.96 Score
Newbe509 43 M
7  Articles
Meeting   8/4/2019

Do you meet in a public place before ? I would

5 Comments, 65 Views, 39 Votes ,2.34 Score
for the women out there   7/15/2019

Are there actually women of this site that want to meet up? If so, what are you looking for, exactly? Hookup? Long Term? Summer fun? Also, for the very first meet, what is your preference? And how far does the first meet go?

3 Comments, 71 Views, 45 Votes ,2.87 Score
maestrotab00 36 M
2  Articles
Car dates extremely unsafe for guys   7/12/2019

Have talked allot of people on here the say that they usually do car dates or host in their camper.

4 Comments, 75 Views, 42 Votes ,2.93 Score
J0nathan2019 48 M
1  Article
Dating Scam   7/6/2019

What Dating scam have you come cross? <br><br> I had the adult verfication scam . <br><br> Let get to know and not safe to meet so point a free verfication website which it is not[

3 Comments, 67 Views, 42 Votes ,2.54 Score
PeterWalton 53 M
4  Articles
Safety for girls   6/25/2019

How safe do girls feel meeting strangers for the first

9 Comments, 89 Views, 45 Votes ,2.07 Score
SimiPreciousWood 55 M
0  Articles
Who will you Meet?   6/18/2019

In this day of internet and online dating, safety is paramount . How do you know you're safe to meet someone?, you will never find the answer to this question in any profile, any photo or words spoken. A profile that you find interesting, could be legit and it could be a complete scam, in my experience the split between legit and scam profiles is approximately 50/50 across the internet, if ...

3 Comments, 62 Views, 39 Votes ,3.97 Score
Dating Safety   6/13/2019

Creating this article for the points. I need points.

0 Comments, 31 Views, 22 Votes ,1.57 Score
be safe   6/11/2019

If meeting on a website, the best way is always meet in a public place that makes you feel comfortable. Stay there talk have coffee and go with your gut feeling if it is right proceed if any doubts then time to leave. Be safe always

0 Comments, 55 Views, 43 Votes ,3.23 Score
hardbuddy4fun 40 M
2  Articles
Road Dome   6/7/2019

I've experienced this in the past. Looking back I don't know what I was thinking. What if the driver gets rear ended and the sucker chomps down? Be safe and park.

0 Comments, 30 Views, 26 Votes ,1.95 Score
passiondreamer13 35 M
7  Articles
never share info   5/18/2019

never share info

2 Comments, 79 Views, 46 Votes ,1.65 Score
deezh803 33 M
8  Articles
wrap up or not?   5/5/2019

Do you all prefer raw or wrapped. Pros and cons?

7 Comments, 95 Views, 53 Votes ,1.69 Score
SecretRomance4Us 41 M
5  Articles
points and more points   3/31/2019

just posting for points

6 Comments, 84 Views, 57 Votes ,1.54 Score
Aes604 46 M
7  Articles
Interlopers   3/26/2019

The spammers have infiltrated this saved with the dating safety scam. I will fuck you but you to go to this site and register oh and by the way use your credit card. Anyone else had this happen the devil doesn't dairy product

0 Comments, 62 Views, 46 Votes ,1.22 Score
Txmedic79423 47 M
2  Articles
Someone you know   2/9/2019

Have you ever realized the person you've been chatting with is someone you know, who doesn't know you're in the lifestyle? Would you be able to follow-through with plans to meet?

6 Comments, 148 Views, 105 Votes ,2.50 Score
ClassicRockStud 43 M
5  Articles
Aricle #1   2/4/2019

Coming Soon.. Will fill out later

0 Comments, 56 Views, 52 Votes ,0.69 Score
How to detect a chatbot.   1/31/2019

There was an article somewhere here recently about suspected bot accounts, then earlier today I had the following interaction, which I'll share for any of you not already familiar with these nasty little pests. <br><br> sexy_alex24: Viewed my profile. From Los Angeles CA... <br><br> I wish I would have saved my original contact, but not anticipating a response from a ...

4 Comments, 97 Views, 45 Votes ,2.14 Score
mathews546 31 M
1  Article
Exchanging    1/28/2019

Something that more people should know about when meeting someone new is how much information is just in their cell phone number. I suggest to people all of the time to use a texting app, many of them are free and will provide you with a discreet number to use, separate from your actual cell number. That way if someone wont leave you alone, request a new number, someone is being too creepy, ...

8 Comments, 142 Views, 86 Votes ,3.04 Score
russ1683 43 M
1  Article
Safer surfing avoiding catfish   1/21/2019

There are a few things that can be seen in a general profile that can give away its authenticity, Glamour or Professional pictures in sets, especially in new profiles.By no means is this 100% as real members do use these types of photos but tend to be established, long term. A profile that contains all autocompletes or short incomplete responses, again not 100%. Moving on, when contacted the ...

3 Comments, 115 Views, 63 Votes ,3.81 Score
izwat 100 M
8  Articles
BEWARE OF THE RATS   1/21/2019


2 Comments, 70 Views, 40 Votes ,2.44 Score
Fogger312 51 M
5  Articles
Best ways to meet someone safely   1/13/2019

Hello. What are some.of the best ways to meet someone face to face saflry? Public area? Someplace familiar? I need some ideas, so I'd appreciate the help!

1 Comments, 60 Views, 40 Votes ,2.92 Score
Sucknfuckn3 29 M
5  Articles
Best way to have a first meeting with Singles or couples?   12/26/2018

I’m curious what everyone’s go to first meeting location or scenario is? <br><br> I’ve done a few different ones and as a single man I prefer the public places doesn’t have to be a bar or dinner although if it’s either I usually feel it’s my job to pick up the tab. I think that’s just Curitious to do for anyone who may invite you into their home <br><br> What ...

2 Comments, 85 Views, 54 Votes ,3.60 Score
NHDomMA 35 M
1  Article
Safety Tips for the newly kinky.   12/23/2018

I’ve noticed an increase in the curiosity of the kink scene lately, and thought I’d post a small safety guide for the newly introduced and curious. <br><br> Bondage Safety: <br><br> * Don’t bind joints, or use a knot that bear weight and continue to tighten. * Rope has no business around the neck with very, very, few exceptions. * If you’re losing feeling or ...

1 Comments, 69 Views, 43 Votes ,3.31 Score
mtl_boy_toy 37 M
4  Articles
First encounter   12/21/2018

Curious.... based on experience do most people meeting for a coffee or drinks before actually hooking up? For whatever reason, sex has always been better for me when getting down and dirty right off the bat. The whole meeting for coffee.... chit chat.... and scheduling a sex date for another time just feels like a waste of time not too mention, has the relationship vibe which i'm not looking ...

3 Comments, 69 Views, 43 Votes ,2.93 Score
First Date Rules   12/13/2018

Never ever go to anyones house without first meeting in public first. If you do decide to go to their house our hotel room. Have them come outside to meet. This goes for male and females. What I like to do is to meet at a Duncan Donuts or something similar for coffee and a chat to feel them out.

2 Comments, 68 Views, 34 Votes ,4.32 Score
scubasex99 58 M
1  Article
Let's keep it real!   12/7/2018

It seems like there are several categories of people here on American Sex Dates. NOT including the people who pretend to want to meet & get their jollies in sending people on useless trips to meet people who aren't going to show of the type that create a profile that has no basis in reality... <br><br> So one type wants to meet instantly with very little "getting to know you" ...

3 Comments, 63 Views, 28 Votes ,3.55 Score
Heathen_G 61 M
11  Articles
Don't be this stupid ...   12/6/2018

Red flag one: The man was polite and a great conversationalist. <br><br> Red flag two: She had texted and spoken several times on the phone. [Don't do this before first meeting the guy]. One text should be enough... make plans to meet. <br><br> Red flag three: He wanted to TAKE the woman to Toronto for dinner (she lives 45 minutes outside of Toronto).... Why on Earth ...

0 Comments, 65 Views, 40 Votes ,1.88 Score
akshay1513000 37 M
5  Articles
be safe while sex   11/23/2018

do not go blind when ever you go for sex, always use protection talk freely with your partener regarding safe sex practise Talking about STDs is just as important as talking about preventing pregnancy. Condoms offer the best available protection against STIs by acting as a physical barrier to prevent the exchange of semen, vaginal fluids or blood between partners

0 Comments, 47 Views, 32 Votes ,3.43 Score
bulltasticnm 39 M
5  Articles
safety   10/13/2018


0 Comments, 32 Views, 26 Votes ,2.81 Score
Adventureman200 71 M
14  Articles‚ Score 3.7
How often to test for STD's?   10/3/2018

How recent should a bloodtest for STD's be to be relevant? Obviously if one has not had sex since their last test that is good, but things like Hepes take 12 weeks to show up in a test.

3 Comments, 66 Views, 37 Votes ,3.15 Score
Climaxondemand 59 M
2  Articles
Is there a universal disease testing station / doctor?   9/30/2018

I've been chatting with a number of women and nobody has asked if I was tested and I haven't asked anyone that question. Back before I got married it was popular to get tested once a month. But I guess on a fast pace fucking site, it pretty much up to your best judgement. During one of those test I found out I had hype-C, which took a year and weekly shots to cure, then get tested every ...

0 Comments, 44 Views, 33 Votes ,3.15 Score
Climaxondemand 59 M
2  Articles
People wanting your email or phone number.   9/30/2018

I just tell them that I chat through the web site and don't give out either until we have set a date to meet. That usually stops the conversations. But if they did persist, I would watch the information to make sure it was accurate. Some had suggested getting a $15 throw away phone but I haven't needed to yet and I don't keep any personal information or pictures. I have them deleted ...

6 Comments, 80 Views, 38 Votes ,3.74 Score
blackking85s 36 M
7  Articles
internet hookups   9/28/2018

i wanna know do you think it is safe to hook up with someone off the internet i have had a few exp and i can say they are all ok but i need your view people

1 Comments, 48 Views, 32 Votes ,4.55 Score
hotguitar61 58 M
2  Articles
meeting women on websites   9/27/2018

I have always preferred meeting lovely women in a public place first to re assure the lady Im serious...I want to do things in an ethical sexual way...its really fun dating many diiferent women from all walks of life..and one can learn so much from each other... I love it i've met way more than 50 women and some dates were great, others not so much but I always tried to please my date and ...

0 Comments, 15 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
Jack123570 31 M
1  Article
Safety first   9/8/2018

Use condoms for safe sex when you meet strangers always even unplanned sex.

3 Comments, 64 Views, 30 Votes ,4.22 Score
endiluvscurves 50 M
8  Articles
How to Wipe and Wash Your Butt for Optimal Cleanliness   8/29/2018

If you feel a little bit clueless as to how exactly to keep things clean between the cheeks from wipe to wash, you're not alone. According to Reddit users, plenty of people actually don't know how to keep their downstairs squeaky clean. <br><br> "The number of people that don't wash their ass is astounding, " Redditor youallsuck6 wrote as a personal hygiene ...

3 Comments, 99 Views, 45 Votes ,3.74 Score
Online makes it safer or not   8/22/2018

With all the concern of net safety does everyone agree that online seems safer considering you can get to know each other from a distance, look each other up, find out limits and likes, see if you connect, and narrow it down to something that will work. The other option which is going in blind folded and in physical contact has always seemed more of a risk to me. I assume people would rather know ...

1 Comments, 52 Views, 24 Votes ,3.24 Score
bllkn2it2 43 M
7  Articles
Catfish   8/21/2018

Hello so anyway I've been chatting with a woman for about a year and we finally decide to meet so we chat over the phone she gives me her address and when I get there no one answers the door so just wondering why the people do this but I finally get up get out of it. So anyway still trying to meet legit people on here I have plenty of friends and my friend list or people close by but seems ...

1 Comments, 48 Views, 32 Votes ,4.27 Score
Caring and neuroticism   8/21/2018


1 Comments, 24 Views, 17 Votes ,2.14 Score
meet   8/19/2018

does anyone actually meet on this site?

2 Comments, 43 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
perfectman1312 39 M
2  Articles
tips   8/19/2018

1.Be sure whom you are meeting 2. Dont go for a complete blind date 3. Dont share personal information before meeting 4. Dont do financial transaction before meeting 5. Meet in a public place 6. Get to knw each other better before taking the plunge

0 Comments, 25 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
Rajrishi18 40 M
2  Articles
To be honest   8/15/2018

it is important when you go for a blind date or date from sure you are meeting in a crowded place.. be sure to see him/ her before hand.. dont listen to crap like lets go there .. until and unless ur dead sure about the person.. Share you whereabouts with your closest frd incase you get into trouble

1 Comments, 33 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
Superman4695 35 M
11  Articles‚ Score 2.3
Is Badoo safe to use?   7/14/2018

I got a message from someone from Badoo thing is I never joined their site. Think it is someone that I responded over e-mail before. I know here name purposely withholding it. Is the site legit? Anyone use it?

0 Comments, 33 Views, 16 Votes ,2.25 Score
Clfunlax27 34 M
1  Article
Friday the 13th   7/13/2018

Is it a bad idea to propose on Friday the 13th? I didnt but a friend of mine decided to despite him having horrible luck on the day. I wonder will her saying yes change his luck? I mean it could have just continued to be bad and she say no right?

0 Comments, 17 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
fuks4u2tonight 51 M
1  Article
Safe not Sorry ...   7/7/2018

Make sure your first meets are in very public areas in the day time ... A few people i have met have not been the people in their profile pics. Sometimes even men when i thought i was going to meet a woman. <br><br> Cafes are good places . if a woman and not worried , pick one where the staff are used to you being there. <br><br> Get to know the person first . ...

6 Comments, 51 Views, 22 Votes ,3.85 Score
lookn4yu2day 68 M
18  Articles
Baby Steps!   6/27/2018

I am learning. Still learning. <br><br> Communications here on line are "different." Much different than an in-person meet with a stranger. When you meet someone in person you are able to bring so much more into the exchange than you do or can do when you meet over the internet with typed communication back and forth. <br><br> It is tempting to give more ...

2 Comments, 40 Views, 26 Votes ,2.27 Score
which is safer??   6/18/2018

I have recently lost my virginity as a cd. I loved having my ass taken. My big question is this: Is it safer to swallow my lovers cum? or have him shoot it in my ass? I loved both but want to be a little safer if I can?????

0 Comments, 43 Views, 23 Votes ,1.26 Score
Parka462 41 F
5  Articles
Dobra rada   6/9/2018

Nie ma to jak cyber tu jesteś Saba

3 Comments, 13 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Califgoldenrod16 65 M
3  Articles
FIRST DATE instructions for those considerijng meeting ANYONE offline!!!   6/9/2018

As a former chat room monitor for an 80s era ISP AOHELL, we always cautioned both men and women to meet in a public place before going on to other exploits. First, meetings should always be casual, last maybe an hour at best and have no expectations set or agreed upon in advance other than to say hello and have a cup of coffee, kind of a feeling out like an initial job interview.... NEVER drink ...

1 Comments, 52 Views, 22 Votes ,3.37 Score
Avoid confusions   5/23/2018

While dating through dating sites like these the mates should avoid confusions. A number of confusions as well as misunderstanding may arise due to a lot of reasons. More frankly speaking, it can be due to improper conversation they had between them. The source of the misunderstanding vary depending on the person and the time they are taking to meet.

1 Comments, 35 Views, 24 Votes ,2.33 Score
Tylerblk38 41 M
6  Articles
Question   5/20/2018

When u are dating on this site can you explain a good way in going into this <br><br> <br><br> Plz help

1 Comments, 47 Views, 25 Votes ,2.80 Score
apervypoet 60 M
2  Articles
coffee shops   4/12/2018

Safest place I have found are coffee shops. So many Dunkin Donuts/Starbucks/smaller shops that are perfect to finish a drink in peace and leave the wondering out beforehand. Let potential partner know that no sex will be coming from this meet - that way both can be relaxed and enjoy the time together. Maybe a hug with a whisper of a promise for next time can end the date.

3 Comments, 64 Views, 30 Votes ,2.75 Score
AceTwice83 37 M
5  Articles
Drinks first?   4/4/2018

Noticing it seems to be a foreign concept to meet for drinks in public setting , see how things evolve. Am I crazy to think that's the safe / comfortable thing to do?

5 Comments, 62 Views, 24 Votes ,3.13 Score
sykdopfyr 25 M
4  Articles
Be careful   3/28/2018

getting to know each other on IM and exchange photos is a good start. Common interest, and expectations good start. Plan on first meet in public safe place. It can be fun and exciting to meet face to face. Get more time before going to motel , be careful.

0 Comments, 25 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
sykdopfyr 25 M
4  Articles
Where to meet   3/28/2018

You should always meet out at a public place. Somewhere where you feel safe there are people around it's well lit. We are all adults. But you do have to be careful.

1 Comments, 20 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
so different   2/25/2018

i havent been on a date with someone new in 16 years things are so different now

0 Comments, 46 Views, 32 Votes ,4.27 Score
superamoker93 27 M
2  Articles
Fuck creampie   1/18/2018

Keep your shit wraped unless your in a monogamous relationship. Creampie arnt wprth the risk. Lol

1 Comments, 80 Views, 41 Votes ,4.33 Score
makeyougo0 32 M
2  Articles
Taken for a ride   1/17/2018

Just wanting to know, how many out there have started chatting to someone only to find they they are either not from their photos or completely the different sex?!

3 Comments, 88 Views, 40 Votes ,3.00 Score
Adrianr0808 26 M
0  Articles
seguridad sexual   1/7/2018

me gustaría que no tuvieran miedo a encontrarse con personas en esta pagina por que siento que por eso no teman en cuanta a a todos los chavos que tratan de hablar con las personitas bonitas que las mujeres y deverian de darse la oportunidad de conocer a las personas

1 Comments, 31 Views, 27 Votes ,1.56 Score
Iwannabeused 43 M
5  Articles
How safe is safe?   11/30/2017

Should all parties involved agree to be armed, shock collars? We all have to think about personal safety!

1 Comments, 41 Views, 26 Votes ,2.27 Score
Mgsy01 32 M
7  Articles
TAKE IT SLOW   11/8/2017

One of the best pieces of advice I could ever dish out when it comes to dating and relationships. It applies to safety as well. Time reveals much about a person when it is most needed. When you first meet you are swept away in a wave of various emotions and sometimes guard is let down too soon. Just make sure you take things slowly, learn to read between the lines, and be sure that what a person ...

1 Comments, 62 Views, 41 Votes ,3.00 Score
looking to meet someone   11/5/2017

i been searching this web and looking for a woman that is mature and want to try new thing.looking for a mature woman that want to explore and go to the extreme into anything and try new kinky things. that is willing to meet.

1 Comments, 22 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score
first date   10/29/2017

Yes, dating can be a total nightmare when you get hooked up with someone who is rude, obnoxious, or just not your type. <br><br> <br><br> Play it safe when you meet face-to-face

1 Comments, 21 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
sharknet5 49 M
6  Articles
So my flat or hers?   10/28/2017

Do you think it best to go to one flat or the other on a first date where sex is going to happen - donyoubprefer to be able to just leave or donyoubprefer your own surroundings?

0 Comments, 27 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
zekkstrom 35 M
6  Articles
Meeting   10/27/2017

Besides the basics of hygiene, decent clothes, and a being friendly there is one basic tip I might offer: <br><br> Meet in a public place first that is well lit and attended for a little while before moving on to a more private venue. <br><br> No matter how horny you might be, and want that late night meetup, be careful. Guy or girl, it doesn't matter, it is best to be ...

2 Comments, 26 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
adambomb5150 42 M
3  Articles
mace   10/25/2017

i got maced once, i guess no does mean no

0 Comments, 13 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
HarddinHou 29 M
12  Articles
fav of all time   10/16/2017

its time for one of those again!!! not another one!! yes!! another one <br><br> whats your fav safety advice of all time dun dun dun

1 Comments, 14 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
pleasureislan1 57 F
13  Articles
meet in a public place first time   10/6/2017

getting to know each other on IM and exchange photos is a good start. Common interest, and expectations good start. Plan on first meet in public safe place. It can be fun and exciting to meet face to face. Get more time before going to motel , be careful.

7 Comments, 76 Views, 40 Votes ,4.99 Score
Dating   9/28/2017

Has anyone actually gone out with anyone from this site.

2 Comments, 20 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
jr42468 53 M
24  Articles
becareful   9/25/2017

first and foremost all people involved should be very careful of who they are meeting especially if its a blind date or on website dating please take every precaution

1 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
firefighterldh 37 M
9  Articles
aim right   9/23/2017

right in the pussy

0 Comments, 12 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
yesyou2015 50 M
3  Articles
Women are not the only ones   9/19/2017

Recently I meet a lady for coffee and everything seemed great. We meet a couple more times with out issues (just coffee) when we decided to go further that's when things changed. She became possessed irrational and down right a stalker. I had to go to the police and court to get a restraining order against her as I became very concerned. <br><br> Has anyone been in this situation ...

3 Comments, 29 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
BnCnStuff 43 C
1  Article
The REAL American Sex Dates.... (from BnCnStuff Blog)   8/17/2017

The reason I love American Sex Dates is simple, its fun to look at profiles and find hot people with the same interests as you . Then potentially meet with them and if all goes well enjoy playing together. Now for us personally this evolved from something completely opposite to the place we're in now. In fact, us discovering the lifestyle has unlocked parts of us that we never knew existed, and ...

3 Comments, 40 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
Safe sects   6/30/2017

Be sure to practice safe sects

0 Comments, 6 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
justlookingfor08 30 M
1  Article
boring   6/23/2017

Does anyone find this site now impossible to get meeting or is it just meet?

1 Comments, 19 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
rimee59 50 M
9  Articles
While Driving   6/14/2017

This is my advice while driving. Never have a woman mount you then go 75 down the interstate. It's fun. It's exciting. A little dangerous. You might cum. She might cum. But if you pass by a trooper then they will pull you over. Plus your gal ends up in the backseat with them, dang it.

1 Comments, 40 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Safety Measures   6/6/2017

Safety Measures of Dating is to be taken for everyone because without safety, it consequences will be too effective.

1 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
blackness04401 49 M
7  Articles
Aware   5/14/2017

To much fake ppl here who advertising meets and greets then they don't follow through free porn here I guess

0 Comments, 20 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
First Dates   4/17/2017

I was curious to hear women's opinions on first dates from this site. Even though this can be entertaining and different, do you find its easier to build a quicker connection with those you meet compared to other sites where you might conceal some of your sexuality.....Just curious to hear your responses.

4 Comments, 40 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
Whether you're a dating pro or just got back in the game, what precautions should you take?   2/10/2017

I'm going to start this list and am hoping others will add their ideas for keeping it safe.

1. Keep friends and family in the loop.

5 Comments, 105 Views, 20 Votes ,2.87 Score
cougarbait2091 29 M
6  Articles
Catfish   2/6/2017

Anyone have any bad catfish experiences on here? Or maybe one that turned out to be good? (if that even happens)

3 Comments, 65 Views, 22 Votes ,2.53 Score
pleasureislan1 57 F
13  Articles
he wrote down my licnse plate number   12/27/2016

I saw the man I went to meet, write sown my license plate number, I got real mad at him for doing that, it was a discreet meeting

12 Comments, 191 Views, 44 Votes ,4.50 Score
cutekinkym 40 M
7  Articles
Dating safety   12/3/2016

be safe

1 Comments, 31 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
urpleasure_2 34 M
4  Articles
How do you verify your date   11/22/2016

How do you verify your date? I have had a few who wont verify and I hesitate to meet them. Any advice.

2 Comments, 72 Views, 25 Votes ,3.80 Score
24  Articles
LoL   10/17/2016

Monica Lowinski is voting for Trump. She said the last Clinton in office left a bad taste in her mouth

2 Comments, 28 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
biperth_guy 33 M
2  Articles
bisexual fun   10/5/2016

mmmm, i would love some cock right now, 2 or 3 would be just enough for now ;p

0 Comments, 71 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
Protection   10/2/2016

When dating, particularly for the first few times, we all a responsibility to respect our partners and practice safe and full relations. Certainly, when having intercourse- we all should observe the notion of, condoms, sleeves whatever you might like to call it. That goes for vaginal and annal is just safer and while unprotected sex does provide additional ...

1 Comments, 33 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
Fake profiles   8/26/2016

American Sex Dates- you have far too many fake profiles - why?

2 Comments, 31 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
Seeknfun80127 44 M
6  Articles
First time help   8/25/2016

Any advice on meeting someone for the first time from this site. We both need to be discreet but trying to figure out how to go about it. Thanks

3 Comments, 38 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
RhymesWithSassy 45 T
3  Articles
SAFETY TIPS   8/25/2016

Never let your guard down when it comes to online dating. Be a sceptic. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. It only takes ONE lapse of judgment to end up chained to a basement wall (or worse).

Don't give out your phone number to anyone you don't know & trust, and want in your life on at least a semi-regular basis. There are a dozen alternative methods of communication to ...

2 Comments, 54 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
wildcock2016 41 M
6  Articles
Be safe!   8/14/2016

Under no circumstance don't give your power in a relationship. They will run everything from there on in

1 Comments, 17 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Safe Dating In India   7/27/2016

I have a strange story for the readers.

Recently in my city Indore, Police rushed into a park and humiliated the guys and girls sitting there. All the guys and girls were asked to produce their ID's

Some girls were asked to call their parents.

They were charged for what? Nobody knows.

Guys and girls were there because Hotels here are not open to the unmarried ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
safer fun   7/13/2016

it is sad that we come onto a site like this, make an agreement to meet somewhere to see if we click, get excited, and then start wondering if it is a setup and you will get mugged or worse when you meet at that discreet, out of the way place. does this concern others? I am not one to back out of meeting someone, but I recently did. I overthought just one sentence the other person wrote which ...

5 Comments, 60 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
Meet in public   6/8/2016

Always meet in a public location first. If you feel comfortable with who you meet, then you can go from there. Not only does it help both feel safer, it allows for some anticipation to build before meeting fro play.

5 Comments, 35 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
How long do you talk?   4/29/2016

How long do you talk on this site before actually meeting someone in person?

10 Comments, 74 Views, 19 Votes ,5.10 Score
KFC36853 67 M
23  Articles
Public Place Always   4/29/2016

I have found that when meeting for the first time it is always the safest to meet in some agreed upon safe, public place. There is always time to go somewhere if the chemistry clicks and each want to take it further. If not agreeable, it is easy to walk away in a public place.

I once met a beautiful mid aged woman who had texted, then talked by cell and wanted to meet, presumably for ...

3 Comments, 54 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
xacandxin 41 C
1  Article
Confirm ID and Dating Safety   4/22/2016

We are HUGE advocates of the Confirm ID process that American Sex Dates offers. First of all, it costs nothing to do and it gets you 2000 points for free! Second of all, when reaching out to others who might be nervous that you are either fake or you are a person that means to mislead them or do them harm, it lets them know that you are a much safer bet than many others, because your actual name and address ...

2 Comments, 65 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
rm_PrisicaK 43 F
2  Articles
Illusion of Delusion   3/31/2016

I recently met a member who contacted me claiming to be something he was clearly not. I erred in not taking things more slowly. There is a tendency for men on this site to rush and "close the deal." This is understandable because the more time women are given to think and process information the more likely "no" is. A few reasonable correspondences on this site are not enough to agree to meet ...

2 Comments, 58 Views, 24 Votes ,6.08 Score
amelia_isd1 35 F
2  Articles
Keeping yourself safe   2/2/2016

I was recently asked about meeting a couple from my area. I agreed to meet in a very public place and informed them I would be accompanied by a male. They asked why I thought it was necessary to bring someone who wasn't going to be involved in any activities we might decide to engage in. I replied that as a single female it was for my safety. Their reaction was out of this world. Asked if I ...

11 Comments, 256 Views, 40 Votes ,6.75 Score
Heathen_G 61 M
11  Articles
"Sexual respect" and "Sexual disrespect" -The power of "Yes" and "No".   1/17/2016

The community here, and most any dating sites, being usually fewer women, there is a concern about sexual respect from men, towards women. As any civilized community, that is usually enforced.

However men don't talk about a woman's sexual disrespect of the male. Men don't report it, don't talk about it, and usually dismiss it as not important because we're men. But really, sexually ...

2 Comments, 90 Views, 51 Votes
rm_HelloILustU 21 F
1  Article
So someone wants to travel to see me...   12/25/2015

I've had a few people say they're willing to travel to see me. I realize a lot of them are just saying that and there are others who are visiting around my area so they're not here for me but they want a quick fuck (which isn't my thing).

My questions is this: is there like an acceptable distance threshold? Like if you're in San Diego and want to see me, that seems normal. But lets say ...

9 Comments, 137 Views, 37 Votes ,6.54 Score
frenchkiz4u2 53 F
27  Articles
Some of these Men think they are going just go   11/16/2015

Some men send me a message "come over to my house and let's", They are not thinking right. We need to set a time up to meet each other, see if we are attracted and like each other. I am not a free . Sure and call girls will come over as soon as you envite them, it's business and money to them. These are grown adult men acting so immature about trying to get laid. This the real world, it ...

6 Comments, 98 Views, 31 Votes ,6.79 Score
straight guy wants TS/Shemale   11/1/2015

I'm a straight guy, separate for 3 years, with whom always had a fantasy of being involved in a sexual intimacy with a TS/Shemale. I've seen a lot of videos online n I must say there are a lot of very feminine looking sexy attractive TS/Shemales whom I would love to be intimate with. I would like to meet a very feminine girl with big tittis n a cock no bigger than 6". She has to have a feminine ...

3 Comments, 67 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
rm_NOPoet30 67 M
47  Articles
Doms   10/17/2015

Should they be used under [in] all circumstances [meetings]? I was with the same lady for over 20+ years, before she left this world -for a better place I pray- and I refuse to wear the damn things. I tried once & she loved it, but I didn't really feel much of anything and the latex gave me a rash that lasted for days. Now, I try to explain that I'm 'fixed' + D&D Free. This seriously limits my ...

2 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Luv_lit_clicking 38 M
1  Article
Keep safe   9/21/2015

Ask questions out with people's comfort zones.

3 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
frenchkiz4u2 53 F
27  Articles
your date takes down your license plate number   8/27/2015

you have a date and decide to get a room and enjoy intimate time together, he says he needs to go get ice, I look out the curtain to see what he was doing . He was writing down the license plate number off my car. The question is why is he doing this ? Your date is dicreet, but to mee that is not right to do that. He can have it traced and find out where I live. That is danger. Nothing ever ...

7 Comments, 114 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score
Meeting   8/15/2015

Where's the best place to meet?

1 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
frenchkiz4u2 53 F
27  Articles
He was a no show, or was he ?   8/13/2015

well, I went to my meet up at a café, but he never showed up. OR did he ? I noticed a man sitting in a blue truck as I was going into the café. I looked at him, and went on in. I finally left after having iced tea and cinnamon roll. As I was going to my car, the man was still parked there. I got into my car and drove away slowly. Then, in the rear view mirror he was driving too. I turned out ...

9 Comments, 155 Views, 23 Votes ,4.41 Score
narada1976 41 M
2  Articles
Most pressing thing   6/15/2015

with advent of many crimes it becomes very important that one is very careful, choosy while dating some one who has been met online only. The following steps might be helpful.

1. meet in public place (with lot of people around) till u develop confidence 2. try to get references. 3. try for a common friend. If found try to dig more information 4. Don't take any decisions when u r horny

3 Comments, 43 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
DarrentheGeek 54 M
1  Article
Would you like to know when....   5/10/2015

Having sex is fun, rewarding, intimate and in our nature. Knowing when your partner is having an orgasm is a turn on and adds to the sexual experience. Some people like to know when their partner is about to cum and cumming, so my question is for both men and women do you like to know your partner is about to cum and is in the process of cumming? Also how do you like to know, verbally(I am going ...

3 Comments, 40 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Cmackcum 48 M
1  Article
Guys meeting up for suck/jerk...   5/3/2015

What are guys' experiences on here for this kind of meeting? Would you say the same advice for meeting up with a woman applies? Haven't done this yet, so I'm just curious. Have read some of the advice on do's and don'ts on men meeting women, and they all seem sound. Anything different to add? It seems like most of the guys I've chatted with just want another cock to suck and be sucked, and ...

2 Comments, 94 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
Funinthesun1287 32 F
1  Article
Meeting up.   4/27/2015

wgere do you like to meet up for naughty times? Your home, a hotel or maybe somewhere more public? Do you think it's safe to meet first time at your/their home?

11 Comments, 96 Views, 25 Votes ,5.23 Score
wetblueangel 51 F
0  Articles
good grief   4/26/2015

hi there i have been on this site for a while now and i have to say ive had my fair share of good experiences and bad. im very surprised by how many guys thing a woman is just going to jump into her car drive to some place shes never been to before and have sex with someone shes never met. Uh hello not exactly a safe thing to do.. the same goes for when you tell some one you cant go out because ...

3 Comments, 89 Views, 23 Votes ,5.70 Score
grannywrecker 51 M
2  Articles
protection   4/18/2015

When you meet someone from this site, is protection something you insist on, for unwanted pregnancies, STD's, etc?

8 Comments, 94 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
redheadbeauty90 29 F
1  Article
Video chat safety   4/7/2015

Everyone needs to video chat with potential hookups before meeting. Also meet in public place before anything else.

9 Comments, 75 Views, 27 Votes ,5.98 Score
rm_sexguy1319 23 M
1  Article
Knowing when it's cumming   3/27/2015

Just a question for all of you bored sex lovers out there.. are you able to tell when your partner is about to cum the first time you're having sex? Or is it just something you come to know the more you get to know them?

5 Comments, 43 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
onlyoneme913 31 M
10  Articles
tips   3/14/2015

out of all the times ive met up i never had any problems but i still take precautions i will meet in public places if requested but usually meet at/around residence me personally i always text my brother the address of where ill be and who i will be meeting and where i know them from and give him a certain time to hear from me by as a precaution im a pretty big guy and can handle myself but ...

3 Comments, 43 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Dating Safety   12/26/2014

I am surprised when people do not take simple steps for their own safety. No matter how much you think you can trust someone you have just met, caution is the best way to go. Meeting in a public place is a must as is making sure you have some understanding of who they are. There are stalkers of both sexes and we all need to be safe.

6 Comments, 139 Views, 28 Votes ,3.86 Score
brandi455 46 C
1  Article
Ample   12/2/2014

Let's just say I'm a large girl and I don't want any naked pics on our profile. My question is would pics help if I were fully dressed in them?

15 Comments, 148 Views, 33 Votes ,4.07 Score
rm_alt4139 47 C
10  Articles
Do you wonder?   11/28/2014

Since joining this site do you ever wonder sitting in a bar or restaurant if the people around you are meeting for sex or thinking about which of them you would play with if they were swingers?

8 Comments, 107 Views, 28 Votes ,5.81 Score
rm_sexyinblu4u 53 C
8  Articles

Would you agree to have sex with another couple at their house if their were there in bed sleeping?

8 Comments, 110 Views, 18 Votes ,4.08 Score
Married women are hot but married men are discussing. . why?   11/15/2014

Why is it that married men in the eyes of single women are trash? But married woman are sexy?

8 Comments, 126 Views, 22 Votes ,3.85 Score
rm_picouple2o7 38 C
11  Articles
Would you feel safe?   11/13/2014

Would you feel safe going to a club that specialized in bondage?

7 Comments, 74 Views, 14 Votes ,5.54 Score
rm_robpsf415 27 M
12  Articles
Couples Joy   11/13/2014

What would be ideal in safety when hooking up with couples?

7 Comments, 50 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
capecodhottie4 32 F
10  Articles
Three's company   11/12/2014

I often get asked to meet couples in places I don't know and when I tell them that I want to bring another couple with me for protection they think I'm crazy. Am I being overly cautious?

11 Comments, 129 Views, 46 Votes ,5.46 Score
rm_karori100 49 C
4  Articles
Bare back   11/9/2014

Do you allow guys to fuck your ass bare back?

7 Comments, 225 Views, 17 Votes ,5.25 Score
t4girlplay 39 F
10  Articles
No way   11/3/2014

I often get couples asking me to meet them in less than reputable hang outs and when I say no they get upset. As a single woman I'll only meet someone in a very public place and if you don't like it then we're just not going to meet.

10 Comments, 87 Views, 21 Votes ,6.47 Score
twomuchfu 60 C
11  Articles
Condoms   10/27/2014

Condoms sometimes break so the question is do you ever double bag?

9 Comments, 69 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
rm3wayfuninct 40 C
1  Article
Where to meet   10/16/2014

We recently had a couple that wanted to meet us in a very rough neighborhood for a drink in what could only be described as a dive. Once we realized just how bad the area was we phoned and asked them to meet us somewhere else but they got really upset and said it was there or nowhere. We opted for nowhere. Were we wrong not to meet them?

16 Comments, 146 Views, 27 Votes ,6.61 Score
Discretion   8/17/2014

Have you ever had an encounter when you've been discovered and didn't want that to happen?

6 Comments, 110 Views, 19 Votes ,2.60 Score
likeableman19 40 M
1  Article
First off meet some where with people   7/7/2014


0 Comments, 69 Views, 19 Votes ,4.44 Score
Weirdos   6/14/2014

What percentage of the folks on here would fall into the "weird" category. And what is your "favorite" weird story to relate?

2 Comments, 43 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
oraljim201 71 M
4  Articles
scammers   2/17/2014

How do you tell a scam from an actual profile. Ive run across what I think was a scam. Is there and way to tell.I would appreciate some in sight.I know that the site screens scams, but I'm sure some must get through just because of the volume.

7 Comments, 188 Views, 24 Votes ,3.70 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
You Can Never Be Too Careful   1/23/2014

Recently a rather bad, bad, I mean bad guy was arrested in our town for assaulting several women.

Turns out the guy moved her from another state recently and was working a retail store.

Girls, don't go out with someone like that...someone new...unless you check him out. This guy's mug shot was on the internet all one had to do was query his name and it came up that he served x ...

9 Comments, 168 Views, 36 Votes ,4.79 Score
hotbloodxxx 36 M
10  Articles
meets gone bad   1/12/2014

curious to hear about the meets through this site that have gone bad. we all must think hookups are great because thats why we're on here, but what about the meets that have put you off?

8 Comments, 157 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
MissChelie 51 F
3  Articles
How do you....   11/17/2013

....Keep yourself safe when you are a woman dating couples or groups? What techniques work best to be sure you aren't getting into a bad situation?

3 Comments, 113 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
JasperRidge 40 M
1  Article
Three Tips:   9/28/2013

If you're meeting up with someone for sex online, I think the first thing you need to do is establish that the other isn't too crazy.

If they're meeting up for sex online, chances are they are going to be pretty wild, but you don't want them too wild and showing up at your place uninvited.

1) Meet up during the day. If things go well, you can take them somewhere more private. ...

1 Comments, 53 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
TomRakewell 31 M
10  Articles
Scams   9/18/2013

What are your favorite way to vet a suspected scam profile?

2 Comments, 64 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
hotfunnow902 24 M
10  Articles
5   9/4/2013

material for adding points always something to try. got no choice

1 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes
hawg4fun13 40 M
15  Articles
Safe Sex   7/9/2013

Play Safe!!!!

0 Comments, 28 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
vickyggn22 35 M
10  Articles
Indian girls like white guys   6/29/2013

lots of Indian girls like white guys, and a lot won't even look at another brown dude because they know they can get white guys. Just try to go out for indian girls who hang out with white girls. With good game, anyone of any race can get any girl of any race, but it's much easier for white guys to get any girl of any race they want. Step it up.

0 Comments, 93 Views, 14 Votes ,1.70 Score
rm_tazmantenn 70 M
2172  Articles
Watching TV   3/22/2013

Grandma and grandpa were watching a religious healing program on TV.

The evangelist called to all who wanted to be healed, to put one hand on the TV and the other on the body part they wanted healed.

Grandpa hobbled to the TV and put one hand on the TV and the other on his crotch.

Grandma looked at him with disgust.... "You just don't understand do you, you old coot.. ...

0 Comments, 88 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
CommodoreNemo 26 M
4  Articles
Always Bring a Machete.   3/10/2013

...for if werewolves attack. Didn't you see Thriller?

0 Comments, 37 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
seekerfun892 31 M
10  Articles
5   2/7/2013

always be safe and protect what you hve thats dearest to you

0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
seekerfun892 31 M
10  Articles
three   2/7/2013

sometimes it's the hardest but its the best thing to do to move on.

0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
Always Have Your Hubby or Boyfriend Drop You Off   2/2/2013

I swing a lot and I like to swing with other women of couples. Occasionally I'll meet someone new, but I'm always careful and Danny's always nearby. We make sure we have e-mail addresses, , a house number, apartment number or room number and that all is well before proceeding.

And Danny stays close and by the phone. I feel I don't have too much to worry about, he took care of himself in ...

0 Comments, 188 Views, 19 Votes ,3.39 Score
spankinguforfun 57 M
1  Article
You Really Need To Understand SSC   12/11/2012

In this day and age, men and women really need to understand the SSC of building a relationship.

The first S means Safe. The second S means Sane. And the C means Consensual.

Keep sex out of your first encounter. Meet with the member of the opposite sex in a public safe a restaurant or a coffee house.

Talk with the person of the opposite sex and make sure ...

0 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
dcrel123 38 M
10  Articles
Measures   11/24/2012

How you assure that you will be safe with ur date? do u dont care abut it or do u do some efforts to make sure it does safe...

2 Comments, 54 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
prod1013 35 M
11  Articles
first dates   11/22/2012

Don't meet someone without hearing there voice first. A good idea always is to cam before meeting. Meet somewhere that you can start a long date or end a short one . Meet in public and dont go somewhere private the first date.

0 Comments, 50 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
rajesh6134 42 M
9  Articles
want to give a date   11/14/2012

i am ready to share a date with aged girl.

0 Comments, 47 Views, 10 Votes ,0.40 Score
bigmoney22578 27 M
11  Articles
safety   10/27/2012

You Have To Watch Who To Date Because There Are MANY People Wearing Fake disquis So Be Care Who You Dating, .

1 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_maybehottie6 27 M
10  Articles
yea yea   9/23/2012

dating safety. to always wear a fucking condom

1 Comments, 37 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
yeszen2 23 M
11  Articles
Traveling   9/11/2012

What is a good distance many of you are willing to go to see someone you've set up with?

2 Comments, 39 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
Snozog 59 C
2  Articles
Letting someone know when meeting someone   9/9/2012

We have heard some horror stories in the chat rooms about bad experiences when meeting people in person. Those stories have been in the back of my mind for a while as my wife and I meet guys for MFM 3sums.

Recently, while on a long road trip Milady and I had lots of time to discuss topics like personal safety, which morphed into designing a smartphone personal ...

2 Comments, 201 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
rm_tazmantenn 70 M
2172  Articles
Well...stupid comes to mind   7/16/2012

A drunk gets up from the bar and heads for the bathroom.

A few minutes later, a loud, blood curdling scream is heard coming from the bathroom.

A few minutes after that, another loud scream reverberates through the bar.

The bartender goes into the bathroom to investigate why the drunk is screaming.

"What's all the screaming about in here?" he yells. "You're ...

0 Comments, 111 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
dtwts 56 T
3  Articles
A TS gurl's view on the matter...............   5/22/2012

I've read some interesting comments from men here regarding meeting a TG female with humor........sorry guys lol. For the most part, us real gurls operate in safe manner; meaning meeting for the first (and usually second and third times) in very public places. Look at it from our perspective: we don't really know who we're meeting any more than you do when talking online. In fact, we've ...

1 Comments, 166 Views, 26 Votes ,5.29 Score
Becoming a paid member   4/29/2012

I am a standard member since I just started. I want to become paid but since I want to start off with a discreet relationship, I am a bit nervous giving my address, credit card information. I would do so immediately. What options do I have?

1 Comments, 120 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
rm_karoonsem2 30 M
10  Articles
Safety in Dating   4/24/2012

what safety tips should be kept in mind while dating through American Sex Dates for the first time??

1 Comments, 50 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
just new   3/21/2012

as a beginner, i would love to know how you can filter the real from the not real people on here

3 Comments, 96 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
rm_tazmantenn 70 M
2172  Articles
Did you ever notice?   3/10/2012

As income tax time approaches, did you ever notice:

When you put the two words 'The ' and 'IRS' together, it spells


0 Comments, 70 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score

Its always important to say the right things and things that will impress. Its also tremendously important not to say stupid things which may offend your date. You also do not want to bore your date by talking about things she totally cannot relate to.

These are some things that youcan mention or should take note while striking aconversation.

1. Be open minded Do not show ...

0 Comments, 47 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_stan1423 24 M
12  Articles
safety   12/27/2011

dating safety

0 Comments, 35 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
NiceGuy311842 53 M
2  Articles
Where to make that first meet?   9/22/2011

Most people today still don't take the necessary safety measures when meeting for the first time. I make sure that whenever I meet someone for the first time it is in a VERY public place with tons of foot traffic. But I have spoken with many females who have said they wanted to meet at "my place" I'm like see ya later! If you are that reckless with a first meet, then your reckless with your ...

4 Comments, 125 Views, 16 Votes ,3.72 Score
knight_rider747 31 M
10  Articles
is it safe ?   9/1/2011

is it really safe to date


0 Comments, 112 Views, 20 Votes ,2.49 Score
Devonprovidesfun 27 M
10  Articles
Meeting someone from online   8/30/2011

It's probably a good idea you meet them in a public place.

2 Comments, 56 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_needrelief77 38 M
5  Articles
Always carry protection!   7/7/2011

I talked to a buddy who still does not carry protection. He has had std's like 9 times adn today he has sores all over. unreal, be cautious out there! Always have protection, if your a man or a woman!!

1 Comments, 97 Views, 17 Votes ,6.38 Score
tumim9 28 M
8  Articles
Sexy Sarala, my neighbour   6/22/2011

I live with my parents in a rented house. In that compound there are two houses including mine. I am the only to my parents. In the other house there were 3 people. Husband, wife, and boy. The husband is a thin looking man of 46. The boy was studying in 8 th standard. Now coming to the character of prime importance, the neighbour lady. She may be 38 – 40 years of age. I always have liking to ...

3 Comments, 277 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
Remember if the photo looks old...   5/9/2011

They probably are too. Beware those faded big 80s hair photos. That person will show up to meet you plus 20 years.

1 Comments, 77 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
never,never,never   4/16/2011

when you think you click with someone on this site, NEVER give out any personal info ie;email , cell #, house phone, and esp. where you live and who your friends are, meet this person in a public place to meet them first before any date, feel them out ask lots of ?, and go with your gut feeling about them if you feel good about it, tell them you will get back to them on fbos and set up the date, ...

0 Comments, 171 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
scorpioz76 40 F
4  Articles
safe sex   3/19/2011

Do not fall for these crazy guys on this site. A friend warned me that they wat youto am with them and they record it over and over agau=in and next there is a video of you out there on the net.

3 Comments, 217 Views, 26 Votes ,3.03 Score
rm_bacoj911 36 M
2  Articles
Wishing All The Valantine's Here   2/12/2011

Being on this site and seeing so many members assert their personal needs and as the day of valentines is approaching I cannot help but marvel at the change in mindset that has taken India by storm. No doubt some who hold primitive views are now a minority and thus seek to assert themselves through various forms of violence - but this is another matter altogether.


0 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
10nudp 47 M
1  Article
condom or not   1/20/2011

i like getting head with condoms. is this bad.

2 Comments, 200 Views, 29 Votes ,3.14 Score
Rorshausk 28 M
13  Articles
hate   1/8/2011

when i fuck a girl and i find out the next day she doesnt have birth control.

i really need to start being more careful. i guess i should always fuck with condoms after all.

im so afraid of stds as well. isnt it weird to have oral with a condom on? i think if a girl made me wear a condom before giving me head, id feel like somethings fishy

2 Comments, 125 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
7_inches_4_u916 26 M
8  Articles
Where to meet   1/7/2011

Always meet up in a public place. You dont want to be set up by a girl & a stalker or weirdo. And always never just invite them over to your home no matter how horny you are.

1 Comments, 126 Views, 23 Votes ,5.00 Score
baddbaddbadd 54 M
4  Articles
Too Much Info????   12/24/2010

Maybe it is me, I am quite analytical, but I cringe sometimes when I read a sexy female (single female) profile. Some ladies give way too much info! Profilesshould have an air of intrigue, or mystery. Some ladies just go above and beyond. Let us think for a minute, you are a pretty blonde 44 years old Single mother of two, and you are from a small town that has a population of 85! You load a ...

2 Comments, 110 Views, 12 Votes ,5.80 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
The glory !   12/18/2010

The glory of it is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship, it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him/her and is willing to trust him/her.


4 Comments, 55 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
singles are more egar to get in touch   12/5/2010

i find that in this site if u log in as a couple then more and more singles try to get in touch with you. Its not safer to get in touch with these singles until and unless u r sure that they are decent and good. Its better if they contact single girls rather then pursuing couples. ...

1 Comments, 72 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
And remember !   11/30/2010

Be kinder than necessary. Everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. ...

6 Comments, 72 Views, 13 Votes ,1.80 Score
hi friends   11/28/2010

hi there is safety concerns in dating meet at public places...

2 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
Ababix3 33 M
8  Articles
Don't hop into strangers' cars   11/28/2010

I actually did that recently, lucky they were not serial killers.

1 Comments, 92 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
fisherman197008 49 M
17  Articles
alwys meet in public places   10/19/2010

It has occoured to me that one thing most people dont think about, is the place to meet on the first date, or the meet and greet. For this, I have some advice.

1. Always meet in a safe place like a restaraunt, or a coffee shopor the like. it will add to the comfort of both.

2. Carry your cell phone, if the date, be it male or female, is a true jerk, you can always fake an ...

3 Comments, 119 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
nonprobbwtranny 32 T
15  Articles

Some guys are extremely paranoid when meeting from online. You have to let them know that they can relax. You would be surprised that the guy next door type is often the most cautious when meeting a fuck buddy form online.

I like to have as many lights on as possible in my place when i meet. It makes him feel more comfortable. And when he says turn some off, i do.

Soem things I ...

1 Comments, 134 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
cheamanda 44 C
6  Articles
Online Dating Safety For Men   10/15/2010

Online Dating Safety For Men

Almost everything you read about online dating safety is directed at women but men need to be concerned as well. Perverts, sexual predators and weirdoes come in both sexes, all sizes, and all ages…as do, liars and cheaters. So men need to stay on guard, too.

It is common knowledge not to readily give out personal information to ...

3 Comments, 168 Views, 21 Votes ,3.99 Score
nonprobbwtranny 32 T
15  Articles

I have successfully met guys from online for about 5 years now. Actually, i have exclusively met guys from online, because its just so much easier. It's easier to pinpoint what I like, reject, block, flirt, name it.

Here are some ways I have safely met guys from online. Only one time did I have a scare, and that scare was actually him protecting himself until he knew ...

1 Comments, 105 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
sinfulgirl 42 F
2  Articles
Who's That Calling   9/16/2010

Here are some tips that I think you might find useful in determining who is calling you.

Most, if not all payphones, have the first of the last four numbers start with a 9.

Check out this link, which has a great database of payphone numbers all over North America, and some European countries

http://American Sex

If you have been around long enough, you ...

5 Comments, 123 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
third eye   9/12/2010

you really have to play it safe when meeting some one for the 1st time. let other know what your doing and even where u plan on meeting

don't drink much on 1st day and listen of any akward moments use common sense and remember there alot of jerk out there

so keep and extra eye open

1 Comments, 54 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
sinfulgirl 42 F
2  Articles
Don't Want To Get Caught.. Try This!   9/10/2010

Here are some tips that I would think would be helpful to both men and women. Let me know if you agree/disagree or if anything is missing, etc.

1)When using a cell phone, there are several options in regards to DISCRETE billing: 7/11 has shout out phones, which do NOT require any sorts of info to be filled out, or accounts to be created. Just activate and go!


13 Comments, 434 Views, 39 Votes ,5.68 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Why do Sharks swim circles around you ?   9/2/2010

Why do Sharks swim circles around you before attacking? Two great white sharks, swimming in the ocean, spied survivors of a sunken ship. "Follow me, ." the father shark said to the shark and they swam to the mass of people.

"First we swim around them a few times with just the tip of our fins showing." And they did. "Well done, ! Now we swim around them a few more times with ...

2 Comments, 64 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
To err !   8/30/2010

To err in dating is human; to forgive, highly unlikely....

2 Comments, 24 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Fun4u2bwim 49 M
4  Articles
Sex Positions With A Twist   8/24/2010

Traditional sex positions tend to get a bad these days, and understandably so; they have a tendency to get old rather quickly. You may be surprised, however, to learn that these classic sex positions can be turned into something hot and altogether fantastic with just a few minor adjustments. Our sex positions with a twist are easy to do, and they don’t require the skill of an acrobat. And, ...

1 Comments, 187 Views, 15 Votes ,4.51 Score
calian2 48 M
3  Articles
Would you...   7/25/2010

...Ladies open the door to a guy who turn you on by phone or chatting online? It happened to me, that Lady accepted to open the door and it we spent some very hot and sensual moments, then and after that cause we kept in touch and have a very good relationship; i appreciated her honnesty: she liked what i said to her and didnt hesitate to get it.

3 Comments, 108 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
rm_2of2dorks 44 M
12  Articles
precautions   7/22/2010

I have read a few interesting and some rather odd questions, but have no way of honestly being a judge good bad or otherwise. so I will pose my question as I have not seen it asked. When you meet some one from this site and are interested in taking things a step further, what precautions do you prefer? I have tried condoms and abstinance for birth control and preventing S.T.D.s in the past. ...

1 Comments, 112 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
PMS & GPS   7/14/2010

What do you get when you mix PMS with a GPS?

Answer: A crazy bitch who WILL find you!

6 Comments, 52 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Men wouldn't lie so much!   7/8/2010

Men wouldn't lie so much to the women in their life, if the women in their life didn't ask so many questions. ...

3 Comments, 41 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
rm_winsam13 32 M
1  Article
Online Dating Safety   7/7/2010

Online dating safety tips.

If you have decided you want something of a more personal relationship with someone you've met and they give you a contact number try ringing it. If you can never get hold of them be very wary, even if they give you a seemingly reasonable excuse. If you have to page or text them so they ring you back this is a real warning sign when considering your online ...

1 Comments, 68 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
sex on the first date   6/27/2010

do you want to make it in the first date?

2 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Alrighty then !   5/19/2010

Make your attacker advance through a wall of bullets. You may get killed with your own gun, but he'll have to beat you to death with it, cause it's going to be empty....

2 Comments, 32 Views, 7 Votes ,0.75 Score
first meeting   5/16/2010

I have yet to meet anyone in person from online yet but have chatted and met many people that seem very nice online. Was thinking of having my first meeting in a public place like a casino or restaurant was wondering what others have done or how people feel about meeting people offline for the first time?

3 Comments, 103 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Don't !   5/12/2010

Don't interfere with something that ain't bothering you none. ...

2 Comments, 25 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
nvrgetsenuf 50 F
11  Articles
I Do Get A Lot Of Invites For Dates   5/7/2010

So how do I know I'm safe? There is always some hesitation. I make sure we meet for the first time in a very public place. So, meeting in a public place would mean you both drive, don't ever let someone pick you up somewhere. Even if you are meeting for a one night stand, a hotel is a pretty public place. Always have your cell with you. Some people even have a friend sit at the next table with a ...

7 Comments, 244 Views, 41 Votes ,5.67 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Never Argue with a Woman!   4/29/2010

One morning, the husband returns the boat to their lakeside cottage after several hours of fishing and decides to take a nap.

Although not familiar with the lake, the wife decides to take the boat out. She motors out a short distance, anchors, puts her feet up, and begins to read her book.

The peace and solitude are magnificent. Along comes a Fish and Game Warden in his ...

3 Comments, 120 Views, 30 Votes
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Don't bet your life on it!   4/28/2010

One must wait until evening to see how splendid the day has been, but don't bet you life on it.

1 Comments, 56 Views, 27 Votes
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Two theories !   4/27/2010

There are two theories to arguing with a woman Neither one works....

2 Comments, 67 Views, 31 Votes
Adventurer333 52 M
18  Articles
safety for men   3/13/2010

There are several interesting and good postings about safety for women and sexual health safety. This one is perhaps less general: safety for attached men seeking discrete encounters.

I suspect this isn't a great sympathy area: someone running around on his wife. But is is simply a fact of American Sex Dates, though several men choose to lie about their marital status to avoid the negative feedback. ...

5 Comments, 215 Views, 15 Votes ,2.67 Score
vd46877 27 M
10  Articles
seexxxxxxxxxxxx and only seeexxxxxxx   2/7/2010

any ladies in delhi looking for males check this out....u won't regret

1 Comments, 35 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
chrisomaha 40 M
11  Articles
CL and other websites where you don't really know if people are real   1/8/2010

i really enjoy belonging to American Sex Dates, but it doesn't seem to have the quantity of people, or the frequency of viewers that i would like. i see the CL type pages and wonder if the people are real. i know some must be fakes, but what is the percentage compared to here and other sites that you pay for to give some legitimacy? can i trust these non pay sites or is it a big waste of my time?

2 Comments, 69 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
rm_krisshh81 33 M
14  Articles
Online Dating Safety Tips   1/6/2010

Online dating is the best possible way to meet fantastic people who share your interests and passions. Every year, tens of thousands of people get married as a result of meeting on an online dating service. Millions of people are doing it and, in general, online dating is regarded as a safe medium for meeting potential dates.

Your online dating safety begins with educating yourself on ...

3 Comments, 77 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
rm_hotron33 47 M
2  Articles
am i the only one   12/27/2009

is ass play and ass licking that offensive i love it but i feel i am a dieing breed

5 Comments, 125 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
Horror Stories!   12/19/2009

I am asking this for entertainment purposes, not to really scare anyone... but I hope it generates some honest answers.

I want to hear some horror stories about meeting people for the first time and dates that just "went bad". Maybe someone lied through their teeth... maybe they somehow sprung a not so pleasant/welcome surprise of some kind... don't be shy.... tell!

First, the ...

2 Comments, 179 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
Cyber stalkers on American Sex Dates   11/19/2009

We all need to be super careful out there with the people we are meeting! All the safety precautions are pretty obvious...don't put your instant msnger username on your profile...dont say where you work...don't give your phone number out unless you are sure they are legit, wear condoms...blah blah blah...all the regular stuff. Take it from me though, be careful who you talk to! I talked to this ...

12 Comments, 240 Views, 22 Votes ,6.01 Score
josmith5 58 M
1466  Articles
dont try this at home   11/1/2009

A guy walked into a bar with a pet alligator by his side. He put the alligator up on the bar and turned to the astonished patrons. "I'll make you a deal. I'll open this alligator's mouth and place my genitals inside. Then the gator will close his mouth for one minute. He'll then open his mouth and I'll remove my unit unscathed. In return for witnessing this spectacle, each of you will buy me a ...

1 Comments, 83 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Internet dating   10/26/2009

As internet allows for anonymous dating, if this gets converted in to real dating, Any safety measures to be followed before the first meeting?

How we make sure intent of other person is genuinely true?

3 Comments, 59 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
red7524 30 M
10  Articles
date safty   10/12/2009

besides condums how should i be safe?

2 Comments, 78 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Attitude !   9/22/2009

Your attitude towards dating defines not only who you are, but the quality of the date you are after, at least for some. If not forget it. ...

2 Comments, 79 Views, 38 Votes
rm_dombrattyboy 42 M
93  Articles
Back at the Hotel   9/5/2009

We've decided to meet at a restaurant on a hot summer day to talk for a bit and see if we can confirm the spark that's been felt between us. You've dressed casually in low pumps, a comfortably loose blue cotton skirt ending just above the knee and a lightweight white cotton blouse that subtly suggests the delicious curves of your breasts without being overtly revealing, and you've left it ...

2 Comments, 154 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
sync94 49 M
10  Articles
Safety All The Way   7/20/2009

It is important to be safe online as well as offline. We have viruses, hackers worms and all the malware to deal with online. Dating is serious business especially blind dates. It doesn't necessarily mean that one has to be scared to go on a blind date but cautious. Dating is the only avenue we have of summing up another person. What do they like or dislike? Yes see me and live with me ..Two ...

1 Comments, 56 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
hornyMinktown 24 M
10  Articles
hooking up online   7/12/2009

For first time meeting i always like to meet my date somewhere public where there is lots of people around, also try talking on the phone a few times so that you have an idea of the personality they have.

2 Comments, 43 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
The Hurricane speaks !   4/15/2009

What did the hurricane say to the coconut tree?

Hold on to your nuts, this is going to be one hell of a blowjob!"

8 Comments, 84 Views, 23 Votes ,0.79 Score
Poetbyday 31 M
9  Articles
Safety?   4/9/2009

Only thing I can say is keep a open mind to different suggestions or locations your date might recommend. And be aware of the situations your in all the time. Keep your head screwed on straight and question everything. Of course being courteous and charming is a plus or must so keep that in mind.

2 Comments, 42 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
romeo19086 56 M
8  Articles
16 Words   1/4/2009

Be real careful and very selective when using this site to find any type of associate.

0 Comments, 137 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_cumquatme 50 F
28  Articles


OOPS!!! Please take it at a pace that is comfortable for you.

PARTNER 1: Sorry you are alarmed. I'm not sure what you are looking for. I have told you about my family; my businesses; my former businesses. I only use one other e-mail addresses and my company e-mail, which I swore I would never mix with this part of my life. I live ____. And you have seen my face. ...

1 Comments, 183 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Stop dating !   11/25/2008

Stop all that god damn sucking and fucking and then you'll be safe.

You hear me!?


12 Comments, 136 Views, 35 Votes
hotbngcock 44 M
6  Articles
few tips   10/12/2008

I have few tips for dating safety: 1) Never ever give your contact number at first shot. 2) Try to use nickname while going for blind dating. 3) Dont let him/her know about ur address unless you are confident of him/her. 4) Always have condom/contraceptive with you. You never know!!

0 Comments, 70 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
roxy54sexy 57 F
27  Articles
Class 101 for the Newbies   10/9/2008

I just posted this in blog last night thought I put it in a magazon article. Lot of people sign up on this site for a immediate hook up. It does not always happen that way unless you are lucky. You actually have to put some time and effort like anything else in your life. Of course exchanging emails can be time consuming. It takes two emails before you can respond to someone and eventually ...

2 Comments, 224 Views, 17 Votes ,6.52 Score
Great place   8/21/2008

It is really great to have a place for advice on this site. It has been a while since my last proper date, and I have never met anyone off line but at least there is plenty of helpful advice and help for everyone. So I would like to thank everybody for helping out and answering many of my concerns. Cheers

0 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
oralfouru430 56 M
1  Article
Dr. Jeckel/Mr. Hyde How do you know?   7/30/2008

Or in my case "Mrs. Hyde". How can one be sure that they are not meeting the next Ted Bundy or the woman from "Basic Instinct". I had an incident a few months back with a woman that seemed normal...we exchanged numreous e-mails, all very plesant...we met at a public bar. Went to her place and had a great time. Exchanged cell numbers and...Opps....I had hundreds of calls in a matter of days...she ...

0 Comments, 123 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
roxy54sexy 57 F
27  Articles
Still Having Fun   7/12/2008

I think it is important to meet safely and still have fun. I think chatting and emails are important first step so you can get a general feeling. Then once you exchange numbers and meet at a public place. So both of you can get a good look at each other. The best places are to meet & greets. If you feel comfortable enough could be in a restaurant or coffee place. Then you can ask the person if ...

3 Comments, 110 Views, 20 Votes ,3.51 Score
rm_dodger7645 48 F
2  Articles
What do you consider to be the safest?   5/31/2008

Curious for others input. I have had several invitations, like the other 50, 000 women on here, to meet someone on this site for dinner, movie, etc. What do you consider to be the safest when meeting someone for the first time? Do you feel safer meeting him in his hometown, your hometown or pick a place that is in between? Also do you let someone else, a friend or family know where you are ...

4 Comments, 192 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
meet teh person ..then decide   5/20/2008

I think that teh best thing 2 do is meet teh person first..hav a nic echat over a cup of a local resto....then u decide if u wann go ssafer...

0 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
hornydubliner25 36 M
5  Articles
meeting on-line   4/29/2008

Do many people do it nowadays or is still taboo in some parts of the world?

0 Comments, 45 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Meeting people from American Sex Dates in real life   4/6/2008

How soon should you meet-up with someone you've encountered on American Sex Dates? Where wouldn't you meet with someone you've encountered on this site? Any tips for doing background checks before the meet-up?...

1 Comments, 110 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
thebirdfinder4 66 M
27  Articles
Dating Safety is a Two Way Street - Male and Female   4/1/2008

Safety on dates is really a two way street. I am not a small guy and in very hard condition. While not a giant I know how to care for myself and I have the alpha attitude that keeps most respectful.

I am selective about who I meet and who I date. I don't send money to on line contacts with tear jerk tales. Have had those from east and west in USA as well as Russia, Nigeria and ...

1 Comments, 80 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
Mummy's Baby part 2   3/23/2008

It was now about 6pm and getting dark. My mother got up and disappeared into her bedroom and came back wearing a very short sheer nightie through which her breasts and bushy cunt were clearly visable.

"We better eat, I'll get something together in the kitchen".

She left the room and I lay there for about 15 minutes until I heard her call that it was ready. I wrapped the towel ...

3 Comments, 1886 Views, 45 Votes ,8.56 Score
gingerflavor 55 F
6  Articles
Domestic Violence Protective Orders   3/1/2008

Domestic Violence Protective Orders or "restraining orders" are court actions to keep an abuser from continuing to bother you. That's the short answer.

How you go about obtaining a restraining order varies from state to state. In North Carolina, you must have had a "personal relationship" with the abuser. If you have not had a personal relationship, but have been stalked or harrassed, ...

0 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Be careful out there   11/24/2007

Most of you heard about the crazy who made a face ad on craigslist for a nanny and killed the young girl when she arrived. That my friend is the world we live in, there are tons of normal people and a mixed into the general population are the wolves.

So a few tips. Tell a friend where you are going. Write a note. If you want to get technical, use outlook and send an email (to be ...

0 Comments, 83 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Quit sucking and fucking !   11/23/2007

If all you crazy people would just quit all this wild ass sucking and fucking stuff we wouldn't have to worry about all these damn diseases running rampant and shit and therefore there wouldn't be an article category list titled "Dating Safety!"



7 Comments, 191 Views, 36 Votes ,3.67 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Utt oh Spaghettio's !   11/7/2007

This is a true story.

In 1981 while living in a trailer park I had been seeing this good looking gal for about a week I had met at the Piggly Wiggly while buying an assortment of canned foods. Being single I knew how to heat that kind of stuff up but I also warmed up to her as we kept bumping into each other in the store. It was probably because I didn't know where everything was as I ...

16 Comments, 497 Views, 28 Votes ,6.22 Score
sex on first date   10/25/2007

would you do this

3 Comments, 142 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
condoms   10/25/2007

is safe sex really working

3 Comments, 106 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
The first meet   10/24/2007

I think that wneever you meet someone, the first meeting should be as public as possible. In case that there is no coonection, then there is no harm. Also especially for the ladies, as you leave, be cautious, make sure that you have not got a stalker that will follow you home. Make sure you have several routes that you can take, or have a cell phone to call a freind. Always be cautious on the ...

1 Comments, 59 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
potbelliedman 41 M
13  Articles
The importance of First Aid   10/11/2007

I think it's important for everybody to know some basic first aid.

When ever I'm out and about, I feel a sense of responsibility to those around me because of my age and status as a man who's been around and done alot.

This is no exception when out on a date either. When I'm with a gal pal, or even the guy friends, I'm partly responsible for their safety. (They are also ...

3 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
It never hurts to pack !   8/26/2007

It never hurts to pack two 45 automatics in a double shoulder holster along with four extra clips on you belt on a date.

Having two 22 automatics holstered on your ankles along with the 45's for back up along with a double barrel 22 derringer neck chain hanging from your neck just in case she has an automatic weapon near is always advisable also.

If you can't get out of a ...

39 Comments, 600 Views, 106 Votes ,2.14 Score
spoldrtn812 54 F
17  Articles
Online Dating precaution.   8/25/2007

We are here to meet but we (particularly women) must employ safety measures. Even then we can only be so safe how do we know the information is honest until we meet and interact for awhile?

I'm not going to bash him because maybe he just doesn't know, But, here's another online dating NO-NO
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0 Comments, 93 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
_JKH_ 66 M
858  Articles
Chatting Online!   8/24/2007

Chatting Online! Do you think chatting online with members on this site creates jealousy when responding to questions, blogs and articles?

13 Comments, 173 Views, 46 Votes ,1.30 Score
wacoharleyman 37 M
12  Articles
yeah its a repeat, but better safe then sorry   8/21/2007

This is important info for females of all ages, a group of were interviewed in prison on what they look for in potential victims: The first thing they look for is hairstyle ie. a bun or braid , long hair that can be grabbed. Women with short hair are not common targets. The second is clothing, will look for victims who's clothes can be removed easily, and often carry scissors for ...

0 Comments, 93 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
rm_Cinr 55 M
3  Articles
Slut Training   8/7/2007

I have recently been offered the services of a hot slut for one on one sex or a gang bang. I would need about five guys to satisfy her but am unsure as to how to find and screen them so she gets what she wants but is not in any danger. Does anyone have any advice please?

1 Comments, 165 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score