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ladiescouple 49 C
1  Article
Our "Stood us up" list   2/11/2008

We're starting a list for those that have specifically made definitive plans with us, to then not show and stand us up in hopes this will serve as a warning to other members so they do not lose the time and money we have lost trusting others to be considerate and decent. American Sex Dates should strongly consider a "reliability" rating based on peers in the friends network, with another added "link us" type ...


17 Comments, 365 Views, 18 Votes ,5.85 Score
willingtoplz69 37 M
1  Article
Flirting   2/10/2008

I love to flirt! its fun as hell!! I attracted my ex by flirting with her a lot. She loved the attention and knew that I flirted. We started dating for awhile. About a year and a bit into the relationship she tells me, out of the blue, that i need to stop all my flirting bcus it makes her feel uncomfortable. How can you fall in love with someone and then tell them that you have to change that ...


2 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes
rm_ellistar 46 M
12  Articles
Don't Treat People Like That   2/5/2008

I can't accept rudeness, deception, crass behavior or mind games. I have lived by two rules "say what you mean and mean what you say" I had something happen to me that was in effect just plain discourteous. I was implicated in a husband and wife dispute. It happened months ago, I was out at my pool and an argument ensued between my neighbors, the got into it really good. But it was the wife who ...


3 Comments, 73 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
shesmyqueen 47 C
1  Article
I don't mean to go off on a rant here, but...   2/1/2008

As I stated in my last blog post, I haven't been blogging much because I've been chatting / emailing with other members about my wife. So when I received an email and friend request from another member, I thought, "Great! Another pervert to chat with." I accepted their request and sent a reply, saying that I was glad that they liked my fantasies and that they got hot looking at pics of my wife. ...


5 Comments, 140 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
phillyclint06 48 M
12  Articles
Enhancements   1/31/2008

I am tired of hearing about sports stars that use preformance enhancing drugs but I don't think they are the problem. I think that they are part of a bigger problem than steriods in sports. Think for a moment. How many times have you heard or seen ads about male enhancement drugs that promise you the world. How many times have you heard about other drugs and procedures that improve on what ...


4 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_ellistar 46 M
12  Articles
More football hype   1/29/2008

Just as the the lights go on and the flash bulbs flash the hype will end... Two weeks of misused cliche's and underlying quotes From Manning's bros mind to Brady's boot How "we" can beat them How they can beat "us" As if "we" were playing The game is the same between the lines for all that play, but for us the game is now So come on now and hype "your" team. Tell me your game plan. Who do you ...


3 Comments, 45 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
A.A.A.D.D.   1/29/2008

Thank goodness there's a name for this disorder. Somehow I feel better, even though I have it!!

Recently, I was diagnosed with A.A.A.D.D. - Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder. This is how it manifests:

I decide to water my garden.

As I turn on the hose in the driveway, I look over at my car and decide it needs washing.

As I start toward the garage, I ...


13 Comments, 111 Views, 28 Votes ,5.40 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Life   1/29/2008

Ain't life really like a roll of toilet paper?

The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
...


21 Comments, 109 Views, 29 Votes ,5.95 Score
rm_blacknyoung2 34 M
1  Article
Grinds My Gears   1/29/2008

U know what grinds my gears...when ppl dont understand NO for a answer!


1 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
On top   1/26/2008

I hate being on top, i think it's the girls job to be on top


16 Comments, 164 Views, 10 Votes
urbanknight 63 M
4  Articles
What a waste   1/22/2008

What a waste.....has this happened to you?

We walked into the club there seemed appeared to be not alot of action going on. I knew this was going to be one of those nights where we would just be sitting off in a dark corner checking out the scene and hanging out.

We made ourselves comfortable and as good as I know I looked in my brown mini dress with the plunging neckline that ...


3 Comments, 63 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
LadyKumsalot 61 F
4  Articles
Hey, I don't want to be your arm charm either!   1/17/2008

I keep getting e-mail from older inteligent men who keep insinuating that they want to SHOW me the the finer things in life.

I think it is crass and insulting to think I need to be shown these things and couldn't show him a few things as well.

How about someone to SHARE the finer things in life together???

And here is the kicker... if you don't want their attention ... ...


8 Comments, 97 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
LadyKumsalot 61 F
4  Articles
I am not planning to change my life...   1/17/2008

Funny that you don't see that on women's profiles. We are normally the ones who do the majority of accomodating, and I guess we know it. I just think it is an interesting commentary on the fact that many of the men on this site will pay good money for a web page and not fill out the profile, let alone have anything original to say. That is a canned response from Passion for people who need ...


3 Comments, 60 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
glaserw1970 53 M
2  Articles
Bye the way I'm paying attention and definitely a real person   1/10/2008

This is truly sad commentary of the condition of the Xmatch community here that we have to resort to this. We have found in general there are many wanna bees here in the lifestyle they can talk the talk but can't walk the walk. Which is understandable considering the potential strain on a relationship. But all of us secure, real folks here have to pay for their issues, it sucks but it is what it ...


4 Comments, 74 Views, 10 Votes
what do people want   1/3/2008

I notice there are a number of people who place ads which say seeking male, lady etc then going further down their ad it states no single males need apply, sorry people you cannot have it both ways you either want a male, couple, or lady. If you only want a lady just say so do ask for a male then say no, its a waste of your time deleting the replies just as much as it is for people relying to you ...


5 Comments, 52 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
ICumInPeace15 39 M
1  Article
Who are these people?   1/2/2008

One of my hobbies lately has been to turn on my web cam and chat with the woman who stop by to watch. Often, this can evolve into some fun cybersex, with her sending me some hot photos. There are several reasons why I wonder whether a majority of these could be fakes:

1) Only about 1 in 10 people who log on to view my webcam have female profiles. I ignore them or block them, like any ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
LovelandCpl69 68 C
3  Articles
Honesty on the site   12/31/2007

We're having a hard time understanding all the dishonesty we've found here. It takes several forms.

1) If you claim to be a couple and your wife is never available, do you think we're too stupid to figure out what you're up to? And if you arrange a meeting with a couple expecting to meet another couple, do you really think we're going to say, "Oh well, let's bring him home and have sex ...


8 Comments, 152 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
I would like to respond.   12/30/2007

These ladies tell in their profiles that they are horny, and want to fuck.want 1on1 sex and no strings attached.They also check their e-mail quite often.And by now ive should have gotten something??


7 Comments, 131 Views, 11 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_knt966 50 C
1  Article
vancouver island is doing well   12/29/2007

We've been to a couple of off premises parties on the island and they're really fun. The people organizing it are vipvictoria and they're doing a wicked job.

keep going you guys, you're doing great!


2 Comments, 51 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Whats Up   12/26/2007

I met a couple on here.He wants me to fuck his wife.She was not into at all at first.Now she is and hes not.We've made out a couple of times What should I do.


7 Comments, 141 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_lvcrmfilin 49 F
2  Articles
Kudos to American Sex Dates   12/16/2007

I would like thank the American Sex Dates STAFF for their prompt attention to the afore mentioned abuse of my profile. I know that some of us on here aren't always happy with the service we receive. The IM doesn't always work correctly. There are numerous quirks and glitches we would like to see fixed. But I wanted to let you all know that in this particular instance American Sex Dates performed wonderfully. The ...


3 Comments, 94 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
rm_lvcrmfilin 49 F
2  Articles
PIRATED PHOTOS   12/16/2007

I was just contacted a short time ago by another American Sex Dates member who sent me an e-mail that they saw MY photo on another profile for a woman from michigan.lustalicious63, to be exact. We did a search for said profile and sure enough there was MY photo on her profile. Of course we can't be sure that it's even a female can we!Considering who ever it is PIRATED MY PHOTO and used it to represent them ...


4 Comments, 203 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
Reading 101   12/15/2007

Why do so many people who wish to respond to questions , points and advice in the magazine section fail to read the words? What Is it with the responders? Are we to be so bold as to submit to the embarrassing simple fact or statistic that we as a nation have to prove we are failing in all levels of intellectual progress in the world including a sex site. Or is that a sex site has a select few ...


4 Comments, 71 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Gun Control ! ! !   12/13/2007

Read carefully !

"Those who hammer their guns into plows will plow for those who do not." ~ Thomas Jefferson ! ~

1. An armed man is a citizen. An unarmed man is a subject.

2. A gun in the hand is better than a cop on the phone.

3. Colt: The original point and click interface.

4. Gun control is not ...


63 Comments, 616 Views, 47 Votes ,7.46 Score
rebelguy33 52 M
1  Article
Wink?   12/12/2007

I get a wink...then get hot listed...added as friend...see ya on IM...and you won't even talk to me at all...what's up?


4 Comments, 79 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
Friendly chats   12/8/2007

This is a rave, just to say that the chat rooms have improved to a certain degree in my opinion. The reloading is a little better even if some chatters seem to be there, but they don't show up. The chatters are usually easy to get along with, some exceptions there of course. Thanks to everyone who has made chat a more enjoyable experience these last few months.


3 Comments, 64 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
xSexiMommix 34 F
1  Article
Idiots.   12/7/2007

I'm sorry but I am not a person who likes bullshit. I will however need to address the men who e-mail me with a one liner such as "wanna fuck." Also the people who use "net-speak", I'm sorry darling but if you type in a way such as this "u iz bootifull we fuck?" I'm sorry but no. Learn to speak, and in turn type. I am an *English* major and it really bothers me. First of all, I don't want to ...


10 Comments, 280 Views, 21 Votes ,5.72 Score
jd52000 51 M
25  Articles
RUDE PEOPLE ON American Sex Dates   12/6/2007

PRETTY MUCH IM NOT SURE HOW OFTEN THIS HAPPENS TO ANYBODY ELSE, BUT IM SICK AND FUCKING TIRED OF PEOPLE ON American Sex Dates THAT WONT TALK TO ME AFTER I SEND THEM A FACE PICTURE. I KNOW IM NOT BRAD PITT OR ANYTHING CLOSE TO HIM. I UNDERSTAND IF I EMAIL SOMEBODY ON American Sex Dates AND THEY DONT RESPOND. THATS TYPICAL. HOWEVER AFTER TALKING TO EITHER COUPLES OR SINGLE LADIES FOR AWHILE THAN THEY ASK FOR YOUR FACE PICTURE ...


9 Comments, 165 Views, 12 Votes ,0.86 Score
response   12/2/2007

Why is it that when a person sends a wink or adds someone to there hot list that Person doesn't respond? A no thank you is better than nothing.


6 Comments, 109 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
It's here !   11/20/2007

The christmas season has begun, how do I know for sure you ask? Because I have the stupid. CHA CHA CHA CHIA song stuck in my head, and every 30 seconds it is replaced with the clap on clap off song!


0 Comments, 36 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score