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voyeuratheart58 65 M
1  Article
Toys   3/18/2008

My wife is a wonderful and very sexual woman, yet is not at all interested in toys??? She says that the only toys she needs, I have. She no problems acheiving multiple orgasmism and I do enjoy making her wiggle. Would love to change things up a little and use toys or other changes. Been married 20+ years. Just wonder if anybody has any ideas. It really sucks when its good and I want more..


5 Comments, 90 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_mbowden69 50 C
1  Article
Male Profiles   3/18/2008

Why do most, not all, men who post pictures on their profiles deem it necessary to show nothing but pictures of their dicks? While it is nice to have a good package, I can't imagine that is the first thing women look for. I know my wife doesn't.

Not knocking anyone, just curious how it's working out?


4 Comments, 105 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
skeiblack 46 C
4  Articles
WHY PEOPLE HATE ON OTHERS?6547   3/18/2008

WHY PEOPLE HATE ON OTHERS? 467647


2 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
I can't stay hard..   3/17/2008

I been having problems staying hard while having sex with my wife. It seems that I just can't get turn on like I used to with her even if I wanna fuck her brains out. Any suggestions on what could be cousin this problem?


3 Comments, 149 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_tricksdick82 41 M
1  Article
Is it wrong or right???   3/16/2008

Ive been in a relationship for a while with a lovely women whom I love very much but I have a fantasy of being with a TS, but im finding it confusing as I dont find men attractive what so ever but when i think about being with a TS its a completely different story, Am i just weird or are there other straight men like me???


1 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Naudia_Nice 40 F
6  Articles
Some ideas why you might not be getting responses to emails   3/13/2008

Have you sent an email to someone and haven't heard back?...do you just write it off that they aren't interested?

Well I have noticed that that may not be the truth...You may want to check out your bulk and filtered folders in your email.

I have emailed members and thought maybe they weren't interested...but when I looked in my filtered or bulk folders low and ...



4 Comments, 116 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
sweetirishrabbit 67 F
0  Articles
Pool sex anyone?   3/11/2008

I was swimming in the pool in the back yard one summer evening. My husband was messing with something in the shed. He's such a prude when it comes to sex! (which is one of the reasons he's now an ex.) Anyhow, I was contemplating how to get him into the pool for a little naughty skinny dipping and hopefully some hot sex. So I did what I knew would get his attention. The next time he ...


6 Comments, 586 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
enterourworld 66 C
5  Articles
Increasing your endurance   3/11/2008

Anyone can have sex, but making love for hours and hours is an art. This expertise was developed over years. I have been learning from the best for over 50 years. This techniques works, its not sexual deprivation its building your endurance.

A female can have a partner or be alone. Having a partner is much better but not necessary. You can try it both ways.

First, get in the ...


3 Comments, 222 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
firegryphon 47 F
5  Articles
Show some class: Social Skills are a Must pt 1   3/10/2008

I know it sounds stupid, but what do I really mean when I say 'show some social skills'? What I mean is, don't say anything by American Sex Dates mail or in a chat room that you wouldn't say to me if we were face to face in a public space.

Just because I can't reach out and smack you like a red-headed step-, doesn't mean it's ok for you to say whatever your pervy mind comes up with.

This post ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
99rolands 49 M
4  Articles
Standard member contacting others   3/7/2008

I understand that a paying member should absolutely get to do more things, view profiles, pictures etc, but for those standard members, is there another way besides gathering points and hotlisting someone to let them know that they are interested? Flirt for a standard would be great, it allows the Standard member to say, "hey, I think you are good looking or whatever, check out my profile" and ...


10 Comments, 179 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
just4kicks1700 42 C
6  Articles
is it worth it for membership?   3/5/2008

Is the membership worth the money?

What is the difference between the gold and silver??


3 Comments, 123 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
just4kicks1700 42 C
6  Articles
advice on contacting?   3/3/2008

anyone have good advice on how to safely contact people on this site?

has anyone had any problems??


3 Comments, 92 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
stuey365 39 M
1  Article
Should I get circumised?   3/2/2008

I've often wondered whether sex is better with or without a foreskin. C an anyone who has experienced both give me advice as to whther or not ishould get circumcised?


7 Comments, 166 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Shaving for Men?   3/1/2008

I'm wondering what everyone's thoughts are as far as shaving for men. Do women like the smooth feel or some neatly trimmed? Which leads me to the next question: Is using a razor better than the products like Nair and the like?


5 Comments, 139 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
playwhileiwatch 59 C
2  Articles
How does a couple find someone for their first threesome ?   2/27/2008

I am looking for another attractive sexy women to play with my husband and myself. We would do same room sex - my husand can just watch or participate if we all agree. I really want him to join in. I can meet just the women first for comfort level or we can meet together for drinks.PLEASE NO SINGLE MEN - LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A MAN... PLEASE STOP SENDING DICK PICS.... ENOUGH IS ...


0 Comments, 133 Views, 0 Votes
OriginalGetARoom 44 C
16  Articles
SO, YOU'RE NEW TO THIS? SOME GAMES PEOPLE PLAY . ..   2/22/2008

We're not experts . . . but here are some games people play/stuff people so for you to watch out for . . . with any of this, if it's what you're looking for - good-to-go - to each their own; however, but for those who aren't . . .
1) Guy's pretending to be a couple or posting pictures of your wife/girlfriend/other without her knowledge
We know of cases ...


5 Comments, 526 Views, 22 Votes ,6.01 Score
why we are leaving this site   2/19/2008

want all my freinds to know we will be leaving this site, because we have been told we cant have anymore freinds, unless we upgrade, we dont agree so if its not sorted goodbye, will stay for one week if not loved yous all xxxxxxx was brill to know yous all stay happy and safe xx


6 Comments, 235 Views, 13 Votes ,2.30 Score
gifts   2/11/2008

is it wrong to expect to recieve gifts from a guy that you plan to meet and have sex with?


9 Comments, 150 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
Dr.Pepper67 49 M
3  Articles
Shaving part 2   2/11/2008

Thanks for all the great ideas about shaving but I have one more. How do you shave the ball sack???????


2 Comments, 136 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
OriginalGetARoom 44 C
16  Articles
A UNIQUE SEX QUESTION? HERE'S YOUR ANSWER . . .   2/6/2008

So we went to Cosmo's website to look for something and ran across this . . . .

"Over the years, readers have e-mailed Cosmo about some very peculiar carnal conundrums " We had to add our responses as a certified sex doctors . . .

"I got earplugs because my boyfriend wakes me up from constantly scratching his ...


1 Comments, 235 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rm_Horsn_round 52 M
4  Articles
Braless in Public   2/4/2008

from "A Short Pictorial History: Cultural Attitudes Towards Female Breasts", author unknown.

Some experts are concerned that wearing a bra may contribute to breast disease, including breast cancer. Dr. Sydney Singer and his wife Dr. Soma Grismaijer studied 4, 500 women in 5 cities across the U.S. and their habits in purchasing and wearing bras.

* Three out ...



0 Comments, 64 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_choclatesnow 43 F
24  Articles
What puts you in the mood to masturbate   2/3/2008

for me when I wake up on a Saturday in my snug warm bed and there's no need to get up I feel great and always just end up masturbating.


0 Comments, 68 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_choclatesnow 43 F
24  Articles
( fem +fem )   2/3/2008

Put on some Romantic music, dim the lights and burn some candles. Place a duvet on the floor and then bring your partner into the room, leading her by the hand. Lay her down and slowly undress her as you kiss her. It is best to do this with some Oils, or alternatively you can also use Moisturiser. Put some oil or cream on your hands and run your hands all over your partners body, sensually ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 0 Votes
rm_choclatesnow 43 F
24  Articles
From the Front and Behind ( lesbian)   2/3/2008

This one is definitely one to try, essentially this is doing you girlfriend from both the front and behind. As you are laying next to her, she should have her right leg on your hip with her legs slightly open, you should then place your left arm over her so that you can touch her from behind (with your left hand). Then, with your right hand begin to touch her clit, play a little, don't go ...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_choclatesnow 43 F
24  Articles
Oral Sex   2/3/2008

Oral sex with your girlfriend is, I would say, probably one of the most erotic and fulfilling experiences when it comes to sex. The best advice I could give to anyone is to relax and to take your time and explore every single part of her. Use your mouth gently, dont just dive on in there!! Use long strokes with your tongue from top to bottom covering every inch of her, don't be afraid to suck ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Players_Paradise 48 G
80  Articles
Taboo Sex   1/28/2008

We've been to many clubs and private parties . For the most part people we encounter are nice and pretty open sexually , but there is one thing that we've noticed . Taboo Sex --- Interracial Sex .

Peoples profiles on here and many other sites say they are OPEN MINDED and COMFORTABLE with THEY'RE SEXUALITY . But when it comes to SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS with people of other ...



12 Comments, 669 Views, 23 Votes ,5.70 Score
naturallyaged 60 M
4  Articles
How to rate friends   1/28/2008

Friendship









I find through my travels that people misuse the word friend. If you meet someone one day and the next day they ask you if they are your friend you are most likely to reply that they are even though you know nothing about them. Many a wise men have stated that a person is lucky to have one true friend at death. Does that mean that ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
eagleone9111 59 M
4  Articles
do ladys realy love giveing BJ s   1/22/2008

i had a meet the other day the lady told me she just wanted to give me blow jobs and more than one now thats cool with me but i asked her if i could do anything for her she told me that she gets off giveing bjs more than anything eles are their other lady like her out their


9 Comments, 206 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
trust issues...   1/21/2008

I'm sure this is from my fucked up marriage... but I find my self not trusting the man I'm with... and really he hasn't given me any reason to feel this way... I don't think he is or would cheat... it is more along the lines that we are moving in together... he got the place and it is all on him... he isn't asking me for any thing... when I have lived so long with being in control of my bills ...


15 Comments, 398 Views, 20 Votes ,4.78 Score
koi0320032003 32 M
3  Articles
How do you?   1/16/2008

How can I get my girlfrined to give me more blow jobs. I loave when she gives me oral but it is usually hard to get her in the mood.


7 Comments, 143 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score