Married but needing sex (oz)

This group is based in Sydney but is open to anybody in Australia provided they wish to contribute some MEANINGFUL OR INSIGHTFUL DISCUSSION to the subject of extra marital sex.

DO NOT JUST ADVERTISE YOURSELF AS BEING AVAILABLE FOR SEX OR WANTING SEX. You will find this approach does not go down well with other group members who are here to make friends and enjoy some intelligent discussion and light-hearted banter.

It is assumed that most people on a sex site are looking for sex so don't waste space stating the obvious. It will get you nowhere in here and if anything, it will get you blacklisted by other members as being inconsiderate or socially challenged.

Above all else you must be respectful and polite to all other members otherwise you will be banned and reported immediately. Members police the groups and are quick to point out when others post something inappropriate or rude and I'll ban members if there is enough support to do so.

PLEASE Do not join this group if you have never been married or have no relevant personal experience to contribute to this subject. Do not join if you are not going to contribute. You do not have to join to read the group, only to post messages in it.

This is a place for married men and women to come and find others in the same position who have lost that sexual spark in their lives or have found themselves in a sexless marriage.

Ideally the group is aimed at people who are otherwise happy in their long-term relationship but who cannot fulfill that sexual need and who don't want to lose everything else they have built up just because of a change in their sexual circumstances.

The group is for like-minded people to discuss their circumstances and maybe meet up with each other if they find they get on well together.

To a certain degree, good sex is much easier to find than somebody you can share the rest of your life with. We are certainly not advocating cheating on marriage partners so if you don't agree with this as a solution to combating sexual denial then don't join. However, please don't give anybody a hard time on here until you've been there and experienced the frustration yourself.

This is a forum to discuss the problems of such a situation, and perhaps to learn from others who have managed to resolve these circumstances with their partners and how they were able to restore that aspect of their relationship.

Otherwise, it is a place to find people in a similar position who would like a no strings attached physical encounter to fulfill their sexual needs. In finding other married people, you are more likely to discover individuals, like yourself, who understand how important discretion and secrecy are to you. Single people are perhaps less likely to abide by the discretion rules you lay down although I understand that will not always be the case.