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Only_one_14 51F
1197 posts
5/20/2020 8:12 pm
I’ve been thinking about this all wrong

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Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/20/2020 8:19 pm

Sometimes the best move is to do Nothing....


Masters_sl_a_v_e 51F
97 posts
5/20/2020 8:28 pm

Yeppers. Let the "One" find you. Keep on blogging and who knows that one of these days your "One" finds you. Fairy tales can come true.


clittywhisperer1 55M
1333 posts
5/20/2020 8:50 pm

the secret to a journey of a lifetime is sometimes to just sit still and quiet and let the universe come to you .the more you grasp the further the object you seek will move away ,by sitting still you will draw in what it is that you need . there is an infinite number of the ones for each person has many soulmates in many dimensions and times .


easy_going2014 53M
13204 posts
5/20/2020 9:11 pm

you are what you want to be

hmm

interesting analogies

Boris & Natasha, Romeo & Juliet, Trinity & Neo

perhaps, doing nothing is an option

but, we control our destiny

sometimes we jump out there with reckless abandon and crash land

sometimes we are patient and miss the plane

and, then, other times, the right one comes along

free will with options

I choose mystery, passion, life, love, pain, ecstasy

stay safe

this one might slide in

Sara Bareilles - "I Choose You"

Let the bough break, let it come down crashing
Let the sun fade out to a dark sky
I can't say I'd even notice it was absent
Cause I could live by the light in your eyes

I'll unfold before you
Would have strung together
The very first words
Of a lifelong love letter

Tell the world that we finally got it all right
I choose you...
I will become yours and you will become mine
I choose you...
I choose... you
(Yeah...) oh, oh, oh, oh, oh

There was a time when I would have believed them
If they told me you could not come true
Just love's illusion
But then you found me and everything changed
And I believe in something again

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McKinney_M 40M
41 posts
5/20/2020 9:42 pm

Hard to read knowing I feel much the same about many of the things you mentioned. Thank You for opening up and sharing.


isuknufukme2 65M
68 posts
5/20/2020 10:13 pm

This is a very insightful posting. I believe you are right in your analysis of the game; it is truly the endgame that is the difficult thing to decipher.
I wish you favor in your search of the One. As to whether you are Trinity or Neo.... who I nows....maybe they ARE you.

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Paulxx001 63M
17049 posts
5/20/2020 10:57 pm

Wow... Quite a few of my favorites listed.
The first time I watched it, I agreed that the red one was the best choice. But after the tenth time - I was kinda leaning towards the red. I mean steak 🥩... Come on!
So ya have the power to tell - just by a bunch of words strung together? 🤔
Kool 👍
Ya don't need anyone's advice. Ya know what to do.
The thing with standing still is - those fricken bushes grow up beyond your view of the horizon and the sunset and a whole bunch of stuff.
They do block the wind though... 🍷🍷😎

... is there another way to look at it.
We Have Lost Forty Million Good Men WTF


jajo696 65F
2121 posts
5/21/2020 1:37 am

Stream of conciousness here.

The first secret is what we dont show others, the second secret is what we dont show to ourselves and the third secret is the truth.

All this time i thought the blue pill.....was for men and to enhance sexual performance. Hmmm

Seems like i ve been thinking this all wrong too ~~

as i listen to Teena Marie singing Deja Vu ( Ive been here before )


lindoboy100 57M
21302 posts
5/21/2020 3:09 am

Carrie-Ann Moss........ooftah!! One of those beautiful women who becomes more beautiful as she matures with grace.......

Neo's not really my type, but aye, Carrie-Ann Moss........oh my!

Pull ma finger.........


WyoCowboy7751 67M
611 posts
5/21/2020 5:21 am

Kind of like going Round & Round on the Merry-Go-Round !! Grasping at the Gold Ring !! Eventually ; You finally GRASP that DARN ring !!!!!


Blueyedguy823 53M  
450 posts
5/21/2020 6:05 am

I kind of feel the same way, I think. "I wonder if I’ve been around this place too long that I actually know how the system works," is what I say to myself now and then. Its like watching a bad magician do the same illusion over and over. After a while you kind of figure it out. Then I wonder why i am still here if I have it figured out. I think it comes from the same place as the urge to pull the arm again on a slot machine, but I've walked away from many a slot machine.


dogslife2live01 68M
1930 posts
5/21/2020 7:57 am

don't take the one that mother gives you
it does nothing at all

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


justaguyinalaska 54M  
502 posts
5/21/2020 1:22 pm

I concur with your choice of *role models*.

Natasha and Boris are middle-aged, long-term companions. They cling to each other, soldiering through their Sisyphean task of destroying moose-and-squirrel. As Villanelle would say, "Boring!"

Romeo and Juliet are tragic, star-crossed lovers that shine only because they are doomed. I do not see you as a martyr for Love.

Trinity and Neo resonate because of their synergy. In particular, Neo's unabashed (however frustrated) love for Trinity not only informs his character, it elevates it into the rarified air to which we all aspire. Again, brilliant choice.

As for a "waiting for Godot" approach? I question both its efficacy and its congruence with your kinetic engagement of life (a summary judgment derived from following your blog).

What you seek is out there. Keep moving and it will be yours.


Tmptrzz 57F  
80181 posts
5/21/2020 3:37 pm

Very interesting read today, and you pretty much nailed it about the Day's of our lives here. It's unfortunate and sad too. You know I have always said hun this site is what we all make of it.. I hope your evening is a sexy one..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:30 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Very interesting read today, and you pretty much nailed it about the Day's of our lives here. It's unfortunate and sad too. You know I have always said hun this site is what we all make of it.. I hope your evening is a sexy one..
You are very correct about what you make of it. It’s mental stimulation with a lot of snark for me😂💕


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:32 pm

    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    I concur with your choice of *role models*.

    Natasha and Boris are middle-aged, long-term companions. They cling to each other, soldiering through their Sisyphean task of destroying moose-and-squirrel. As Villanelle would say, "Boring!"

    Romeo and Juliet are tragic, star-crossed lovers that shine only because they are doomed. I do not see you as a martyr for Love.

    Trinity and Neo resonate because of their synergy. In particular, Neo's unabashed (however frustrated) love for Trinity not only informs his character, it elevates it into the rarified air to which we all aspire. Again, brilliant choice.

    As for a "waiting for Godot" approach? I question both its efficacy and its congruence with your kinetic engagement of life (a summary judgment derived from following your blog).

    What you seek is out there. Keep moving and it will be yours.
You always have a way with words that resonate deep in me. Thank you, for always being here💕


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:33 pm

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    don't take the one that mother gives you
    it does nothing at all
😂😂

I’ll note that for future pills😘


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:35 pm

    Quoting Blueyedguy823:
    I kind of feel the same way, I think. "I wonder if I’ve been around this place too long that I actually know how the system works," is what I say to myself now and then. Its like watching a bad magician do the same illusion over and over. After a while you kind of figure it out. Then I wonder why i am still here if I have it figured out. I think it comes from the same place as the urge to pull the arm again on a slot machine, but I've walked away from many a slot machine.
I’m a slot machine addict like I am a mentally sexual creature. I’m here for cheap thrills 😘😘


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:36 pm

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    Kind of like going Round & Round on the Merry-Go-Round !! Grasping at the Gold Ring !! Eventually ; You finally GRASP that DARN ring !!!!!
Yuck, merry go round make me barf. I’ve been dizzy many times around here.... it can be thrilling and painful 😘


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:38 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Carrie-Ann Moss........ooftah!! One of those beautiful women who becomes more beautiful as she matures with grace.......

    Neo's not really my type, but aye, Carrie-Ann Moss........oh my!
Yup, she is not a double bagger for sure. 😂😂


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:38 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    Stream of conciousness here.

    The first secret is what we dont show others, the second secret is what we dont show to ourselves and the third secret is the truth.

    All this time i thought the blue pill.....was for men and to enhance sexual performance. Hmmm

    Seems like i ve been thinking this all wrong too ~~

    as i listen to Teena Marie singing Deja Vu ( Ive been here before )
😂😂 blue pill😂😂


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:39 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Wow... Quite a few of my favorites listed.
    The first time I watched it, I agreed that the red one was the best choice. But after the tenth time - I was kinda leaning towards the red. I mean steak 🥩... Come on!
    So ya have the power to tell - just by a bunch of words strung together? 🤔
    Kool 👍
    Ya don't need anyone's advice. Ya know what to do.
    The thing with standing still is - those fricken bushes grow up beyond your view of the horizon and the sunset and a whole bunch of stuff.
    They do block the wind though... 🍷🍷😎
Oh Paul, you should know this by now- I see all😘💕😂


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:42 pm

    Quoting isuknufukme2:
    This is a very insightful posting. I believe you are right in your analysis of the game; it is truly the endgame that is the difficult thing to decipher.
    I wish you favor in your search of the One. As to whether you are Trinity or Neo.... who I nows....maybe they ARE you.
Ahh, the endgame. Is there one? Psychopaths don’t end games.... they thrive on them😘


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:43 pm

    Quoting McKinney_M:
    Hard to read knowing I feel much the same about many of the things you mentioned. Thank You for opening up and sharing.
Welcome 💕. Maybe it’s all just an illusion or maybe the game doesn’t end until death do us part😘


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:44 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    you are what you want to be

    hmm

    interesting analogies

    Boris & Natasha, Romeo & Juliet, Trinity & Neo

    perhaps, doing nothing is an option

    but, we control our destiny

    sometimes we jump out there with reckless abandon and crash land

    sometimes we are patient and miss the plane

    and, then, other times, the right one comes along

    free will with options

    I choose mystery, passion, life, love, pain, ecstasy

    stay safe

    this one might slide in

    Sara Bareilles - "I Choose You"

    Let the bough break, let it come down crashing
    Let the sun fade out to a dark sky
    I can't say I'd even notice it was absent
    Cause I could live by the light in your eyes

    I'll unfold before you
    Would have strung together
    The very first words
    Of a lifelong love letter

    Tell the world that we finally got it all right
    I choose you...
    I will become yours and you will become mine
    I choose you...
    I choose... you
    (Yeah...) oh, oh, oh, oh, oh

    There was a time when I would have believed them
    If they told me you could not come true
    Just love's illusion
    But then you found me and everything changed
    And I believe in something again
Would you like to slide in?


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:46 pm

    Quoting clittywhisperer1:
    the secret to a journey of a lifetime is sometimes to just sit still and quiet and let the universe come to you .the more you grasp the further the object you seek will move away ,by sitting still you will draw in what it is that you need . there is an infinite number of the ones for each person has many soulmates in many dimensions and times .
Many soulmates..... let me wrap my brain around this concept


Only_one_14 51F
744 posts
5/21/2020 8:48 pm

    Quoting Masters_sl_a_v_e:
    Yeppers. Let the "One" find you. Keep on blogging and who knows that one of these days your "One" finds you. Fairy tales can come true.
I don’t know if I want the fairytale.... it’s more like feeding the misery I crave😘


McKinney_M 40M
41 posts
5/22/2020 5:46 am

    Quoting Only_one_14:
    Welcome 💕. Maybe it’s all just an illusion or maybe the game doesn’t end until death do us part😘
So true isn't it. Someone said something about their "shitty" life yesterday and I said I wonder how many others would say the same but pretend like everything is fine. I'd rather someone just say whatever it is then pretend anything.

Thank You for the welcome. I don't normally roam in here but saw the link to your blog and was pleasantly surprised by your post.


thick_thunder 40M
14 posts
5/30/2020 12:18 am

What if you take both pills?


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