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Searching for a trans girl
Posted:Jul 6, 2020 12:35 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2020 12:40 pm
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(Written by the guy the page)

So, I'm looking for a curious and open transgender who wants experience black cock. I love a girl who is submissive and can take BBC well. I love oral (both ways), and I'd call myself a versatile top, so I'm also looking for someone who enjoys receiving it. In my experience, a lot of trans girls prefer to be total bottoms and aren't too comfortable with receiving oral, but it's so much fun! I love a girl with a nice cock to with, too.

This is just a quick summary of what I'm looking for and will likely add more later.
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The "straight" guy
Posted:Jun 29, 2020 9:10 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2020 9:43 pm
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Written by the chick on the page

First off im automatically irritated by the amount of straight guys on here. I dont even believe in most dudes being straight. Or wouldnt or never had or "i would never do some gay shit" guys. In my experience most dudes are only REAL straight as long as they are 1.completely sober. 2.Think there are ppl around that will tell or judge them. Those seem to be the two biggest. Most of you jerk off hypocrites are beating off to gay shit, T girls, and god only knows what else. But fine... lets pretend your fucking straight lol In my mind straight is often accompanied with basic bitches and boring as fuck in bed. And i really dont feel like going back to that bull shit.

Only way im fucking a "straight guy" is if I feel like my criteria is filled. This will be the hardest slot to fill. (Pun intended. Its a problem of mine)

1. You are not a basic bitch.
2. Probably black but open to other options
3. At least dick as big as my bfs.
4. Is not trying to be more than on call when i want you. I already have a bf this is a one sided occasional deal in fucking me. I dont care what your doing or who your doing. But no gfs or wives (unless they are cool with it)
5. where as to on the other things on the unicorn list we kinda want to be friends. i dont want to be too close to this one. Your job is sex here. Nothing else. I dont need to have a bunch in common with you. I want this to be what i want and that is all. SO if we dont line up in a serious way on fucking. Im not picking you.
6. Not sexually boring. I need someone who considers themselves prideful in making me cum. This is your only purpose to me.
7. first time in 5 years i have said this. Can be whatever age.

right now that is all i can think of may add more later.

hopefully this clears up some stuff and my mailbox can get a little quieter. I very much appreciate the interest but i need to be specific here. My bf and i are very happy with each other. were only here for sexual specifics. Because we have never had anyone like ourselves. In the way we can actually live with one another, and love each other honestly. We want to explore and share sex. Even if its on our own. But with quality finds over quantity ehhs?
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Seemed like a good time to post some thoughts.
Posted:Jun 21, 2020 9:36 pm
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2020 10:06 pm
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Too many ppl out there r trained to think you need “stuff” to be somebody. We’re trained be insecure fucks trying chase some bull shit. So someone else thinks your worth something. I encourage you stand and look in the mirror. Practice naked (ladies no make . No hair done). Love and get know yourself. Anyone can make themselves stacked with clothes, jewelry, make , cars.... bullshit. It means nothing. that means anything is how u look someone in the eyes. Look yourself in the eyes and what do you see? What do you feel? That’s what your carrying outside. And now more than ever we need confident, calm motherfuckers out there. Men , women don’t care what your race is or your titles. We need lead the world in healing and knowing ourselves. Together we can get out of this fear and start being what our species was meant to be. Stop playing the games of insecurity. Stop giving the system money. Let’s learn how to grow shit. Take care of ourselves and tell the system to go fuck itself we don’t need them. we have is ourselves and don’t care if you like it or not. We’re in this together.

-the chick on the page
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Weird things learned the last year
Posted:Apr 16, 2019 11:11 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2019 10:02 pm
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Many guys. worthy and strong. Egotistical and entitled have tried to break into submitting to their versions of a relationship. All have failed. Because if u trip on security measures i just cant listen to u. Even if its a good deal even if you are the one. My head is just like from my past experiences. And i warn guys i dont lie to them about it.

I cant be broken but i can be tricked into domestication. Here is what i know happened. I was in no place emotionally to be in a relationship. Suffering catastrophic loss of my heart, soul, mind, the lowest point in . I still not ok but i dont really have a choice. My current bf knows all too well. How to domesticate me without me knowing as follows

1. He communicated everything from his fears to listening to mine. He asks questions to better build a reality not based in paranoid thoughts.
2. We agreed not to be monogamous, but we talk about everything and know everything about each others thoughts, ect. The ironic part is since knowing i can do what ever i want. It doesnt cross my mind as much. Although i have taken new sexual interests.
3. cooks and feeds too much (although this one i had to put a stop to) No one has ever worked so hard for on this one. Tracking down a good tiramisu for my bday bringing it to the hotel i wanted. Going out to dinner and having the best conversation. Tying to show what life can be like if i accept love and stop chasing bullshit.
4. Personalized presents he knows i wants. listening to them as they .
5. Being brave enough to not be afraid of his sexuality or mine.
6. not living together. I alone time i cant be around ppl all the time.
7. Lots and lots and lots of different not repressed sex. Its amazing what i will do sexually if someone isnt being an asshole to me. This is honestly the first time i can say . I wont get into crazy details. Just its been good

I think it took about 6 months maybe 7 and i just woke and was like....

i in a relationship?

And is how it happened. And now i get to go to Canada where his family has a cabin by a beautiful lake. shooting for the place in captiva florida or this place in lceland we both knew about and talked about our first walk. Traveling with him is fun. Im less stressed when he remembers everything.
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OOOPs worst American Sex Dates hook up (to date) **revised sober written**
Posted:Apr 13, 2019 11:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2019 10:09 pm
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Im assuming if i stay around here this story will be topped. It was held by a tie between my ex (who the second time and beyond was so amazing it ruined me but the first time fucking was a mess. I thought if i looked at him while he was on top of me he might die or something) and the yr old ( He didnt tell me how old he was until after and i never seen him again.) Thanks American Sex Dates!! and that wasnt the worst part. The worst part was the erratic attempts at humping? Since he was decently built it just made it more offensive somehow. These were the old worst

I decided to post the NEW winner of worst hook up. pg version of this after long hours of working out, two beers, and a level of aggression that can only come from not getting realllllly fucked in a while. Which just happened.

without any identifiers but you catch my drift kind of details. Brought to you by and While listening to Korn's

I had been talking to this for couple years now. I thought he was a big fan on here judging by his page. in retrospect i guess we never talked about too much in text besides the occasional pic and him talking to me about his "fantasy". We were going to meet two years ago but he suddenly got a gf. These things do happen and she is very pretty. I was happy for him. Then I get the good old we broke up text and reemergence of messages. Im too busy to really talk to much and so this is pretty sporadic. I informed him that my ex got all my role playing in the break up. When you have an entire relationship dedicated to someones fucked up life it can go too far.I really miss him. So i was on the fence about the whole thing. that this guy was asking of me. But it had been a while since i fucked anyone new. And my bf is going out with some girl his own age. He is making up for chubby dorkdome like tiger woods on the first week of divorce papers. I was in my head doing the usual cynical, jaded, sexually complicated, non believer in new dick is going to be any good shit. Also i was kicking around doing something really really new not my played out old scenario shit. I wasnt feeling brave enough for NEW new so i agreed and we would finally meet. This is where my mistake begins. Im thinking of a new phone number; to just cut out all the possibilities of me being drunk and alone. Or just dealing with the usual 4 a month texts trying to attempt to arrange some basic disappointing only good for them "dickings".
im getting side tracked again. sorry
I had to work right before meeting him so i didnt have much transition time in roles or i would have been better at my lines we proposed at first meet. Thank god i wasnt or this story would be shorter. He finally makes it to the room. He drove 5 hours to me. Im sure it was a very long time to think of why he wanted this ect. Its been years of talking. We dont really know each other and i really cant care to know him. I was trying not to have too much back building in energy towards this and just have fun with him. When he comes in i go off lines and just kinda talk to him normally. But after a few mins we lay down and i try to get things back on track. I really like the way he looks im for sure attracted. I didnt have much time to consider too much after though. Im listening to his heart and telling him its beating really fast. Fast er than i would expect. Playing along i say what im supposed to say and there is a min or two were tearing off clothes. (I am fucking horrible wit patience if i want something) The dick looked good. i mean he is a small guy but the dick looked there. Im a sucker for pale white guys too. .....usually ....these days im thinking of changing it up a bit. sidetracking again.
No sooner than condom is on. And it is in me. All the meantime me begging. It goes in and...........that is it. I dont even know what it would have felt like. I cant tell u.

Now, i am trying to recover the situation and tell him its ok and asking how long it had been ect. And this is where tracks, rails, sad trains end and i really cant tell u what this problem is. He goes into his gf ( which no one told me there was a gf. I guess the same gf?) these days. So improper. SMH And then he goes into his head and anxiety annnnndddd at this point i can tell im not getting fucked. This whole thing is a waste of my time. He fills it in with stuff about his hobbies and other things im asking about trying to just be normal. After all that the closest thing to answer was he had thoughts about me and im not that person. SO IN other words im a actual person and he doesnt know himself. He threw out a landmine for me to hit and he doesnt understand. Scared himself and im left to think about my actions as a "adult". This is what i get for treading back on hallowed ground. He then drives 5 hours back home. I come home and sleep much needed sleep via Tylenol pm
Havent even seen my bf yet. He had a good night with his "friend".

I have spent the day trying to figure out where this sexual cross roads and the universe are sending me.

after working out alot and drinking im not really any closer to understanding. im going to have to resolve this though.

Desperate times......call for desperate measures. Might have to up the depravity past what its been into new darker territory.
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what i THINK i have learned from American Sex Dates
Posted:Feb 27, 2019 3:13 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 12:45 pm
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Im not saying I can fix this site. Im not saying i can get u laid more. BUUUUTTTTT I have a sneaking suspicion 1 sad dick pic OR 20 of the same dick pic but in different positions. MAY NOT (hear me out) be the way to go.

Guys tell me all the time all they get are messages from other guys. Biggest complaint i hear. But u guys make your page like your talking to guys. If women wanted to see dicks all day. No one would have invented pants. Think about this.
Also I think we can all agree women are crazy complex creatures. Thinking 2 fucking lines of a bland sentence like "I like big tits and the outdoors" and one dick pic. MIGHT BE. MIIIIIIIIGGGHHTTT be the dumbest way to get a woman's attention. Im not saying it doesnt work sometimes. Im just saying in a sea of dicks your sad penis and a sentence might get looked over when her whole mail box is just brimming with dicks. BTW almost no ones dicks are so fucking amazing that that is what u should lead with. Except maybe some of the BBCs or rare big white ones. and still i bet women would like to see the fucking rest of you. unless some of you want to wear a full suit and face mask and just have your dick out (please i know some of you just got hard but stay with me) im assuming we will have to see the rest of you. And god fucking damn it. If u cant be bothered to take this to be more than a pic and a fucking paragraph of stuff written I think all of us are assuming your shitty lazy in bed too. If u are not creative here u probably arent worth a fuck ...literally . fucking act like u have some fucking brains and logic and start trying harder. OR Shut the fuck up on complaining why its not working. Why pussy just isnt dropping from the sky. You posted a dick pic!!?? The internet must be broken!!!
I have fucked a few ppl off here and there and it was never because of a dick pic. Its weird shit like i liked their eyes or nervous smile or he was a 19 yr old virgin. I might be the wrong person for this research but.....im telling u you are all fucking this place up.
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Posted:Feb 19, 2019 9:11 pm
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2019 7:41 pm
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I am genuinely confused by hot straight chicks....
Posted:Oct 28, 2018 12:26 am
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2018 5:20 pm
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This is possibly going to sound fucked up to some of you. And that is ok this is just my possibly fucked up head. It is very late and even though i am sober i feel very inspired to write here. Most of the time i have to be a bit wasted to be brave enough to say all the stupid shit in my head.
Back to subject. I cant conceive of why women would be straight. And i absolutely cant understand HOT women that are straight. I can understand guys. I dont buy it most of the time. But u know the fear of being called a homo is real to them. Even to the point where they will just pretend that missing out on fucking amazing sex is. and that is really the fear for them is that they will actually like it. If they tried and it was horrible they would be reinforced in their "straightness". But i think most of them know at least to a small degree that it wouldnt be that bad and that scares them. Mostly because they think If ONE dick gets near them even once. A lifetime of being a boring card carrying vanilla ho goes out the window. And they have to join a parade. Every friend they ever had or family member finds out (somehow...is there like an alarm that goes off notifying everyone) basically like its the nuke of their whole world. BUT back to women......
I seriously cant conceive of them being completely straight. Unless they didnt ever have a clitoral orgasm? But i fell confident in my finger hand game. I can only say that maybe its the wanting to be complete center of attention? Or they are soooo attached to the caricature of a masculine male? yeah i cant really come up with too much here? Even on visibility alone how could any woman say about ALL other women they dont feel some thing on how beautiful other women can be. AND im totally bias i have been bi since i first seen a woman naked. And it was a profound experience and i didnt even know what was going on. Guys were second and it took some getting used to. yeah it just seems like a universal truth that women are more attractive and more fuckable than dudes. and dont get all fucking mad i understand there ARE STRAIGHT PPL In the world. But i feel like the number is soo much smaller than what is out there. Its mostly ppl have been herded by society and family and "religion". That is driving the straight numbers game. AND i dont understand gay ppl either. Its just as baffling to me.
i could be confused all night imagining the reasons a hot woman would be straight? Even on a evolutionary mating strategy. Im pretty sure that "caricature super macho guy" is really into three ways with u and another chick. SO if it came down to this hot chick and another hot chick the bi one has a better chance. Im all over the place now.

until next time.... when i get wasted and explain not only are straight ppl a figment of societies stupid imagination. BUT how monogamy is a lie and i cant figure out why we keep acting like its a real thing. Im not saying ppl cant do it. Im just saying how long do u plan on being with this person?
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I AM probably NOT a quick hook up
Posted:Jun 21, 2018 4:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 12:45 pm
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Between the break up and still not really sure how to feel about other humans. And my new work stuff I have not been meeting ppl. Until I have my work stuff resolved (hoping to be completely done two weeks from now) I really cant spend too much personal time. In fact just being on this site has been the most socialization I have had lately. Also my friends who are close to me are pressing me for time. Obviously they come first. Over new friends. I have two major pic projects stressing me out too. IF your into make up or art direction please drop me a line
Anyways please be patient with me. I am sorry i cant be a quick hook up. Although i did alot of that my first time around on this site. Not sure it is where i am at now in life. On a positive note sorta looking through other ppls photos and vids has been a lot of fun. I am a total voyeur.
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Dicks dicks and more dicks
Posted:Jun 11, 2018 9:32 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 12:45 pm
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ok **deep breath**

I am NOT saying never post a dick pic. Thank you for being so honest and out there. And bonus points for the guys posting with size comparison to like an object. Proving you are not a part of what i call the michael bays of cock shots group. With that being said. It is just so hard (pun intended?) for me to remember u if all u have on your profile is 3 dick shots. And really two is enough. We have established u have a dick. Do u have a body? A chest? I understand the face on the profile some ppl have jobs and families. All these women on here have just tons and tons of dicks on their screens and it just doesnt tell us enough about u. Alot of guys are just getting lost in a sea of dicks. With all the profiles on here it really helps to set your self apart IN SOME WAY. Also if u cant be bothered into a little effort on here it basically says U might be lazy in bed. I promise up your game just a little and it will pay off. Otherwise, we get to your page and we see nothing interesting and another dick. Its just easy to go to the next page. I know it isnt fair. I am just trying to help i swear.
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This is not a blog. It is therapy.
Posted:Apr 30, 2017 12:01 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 12:45 pm
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Things That have happened to me that I liked since being here. No real order of importance or rating

-Got caught by police in the middle of the night "having fun" on a picnic table. Surprisingly, no one got in trouble. First and only time I will say this. Thank god for racist cops who think white guys in suits are not worth busting.

- OK this is my favorite thing. I have heard some of the most fucked up things during sex with younger guys. They take the cake at saying things they just blurt out in the heat of the moment. THANK ALL OF YOU.

- Crossed state lines for someone's V card. Even though it didnt go the way i wanted it to we still talk. Still holding my breath on that one.

- Met a actual non sexual insanely beautiful hiking buddy. I miss him now that it is Summer

-Hearing everyone's sexual past even in ppl i never meet. This place is like Kinsey's wet paper dream. Some really disturbing stuff. Some nice stuff and everything in between.

- I have a few fuck buddies with girlfriends and I think that is actually the best arrangement.

-finally ran into someone who gave me my first squirting experience. U know who u are. Still working on that alone though.

- Fucked i think a decent amount of guys off here. Only really made a fool of myself once off of being smitten

- Two i love yous form guys under two weeks. Which prompted the solid rule of YOU are not allowed to say it.

- Fantastic role playing from guys off here. And more assplay then I ever could have imagined from boys. golf clap to all you guys. You are really fun.

-I love hearing guys off here in real life tell me their experiences off here. I think it makes this more fun.

Leave comments below about your favorite experience or things u like about hanging out here on American Sex Dates
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STOP POSTING FAKE DICK PICS!!
Posted:Mar 28, 2017 5:00 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2019 3:57 pm
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Please ...please please. Not just for me. But for you. This is pointless. Let's say you actually hook up with a woman/girl you met on here. NOW immediately ppl are upset and feeling misled. Feeling like damn, if he lied about this then what else is he lying about? DUDES, dont give me that shit of chicks beings shallow either. If some girl posted a pic but it was from 1997 and she is 50 lbs heavier u would be pissed off too. If u think your dick is small than start studying whatever you can to be a better lover. Work out, read a book, learn how to cook. DO whatever u need to do to stay in the game. If you are so fucking lazy that u think the answer is to photoshop your cock? STOP IT!!! It is NOT worth the let down, the anger, the awkward feelings between two ppl in that first pants come off moment. When your like thinking to yourself "did i invite the other guy over?" Maybe I mixed ppl up? And i know the dude has to feel pressure thinking "well, she is going to notice the 3 inches off my dick from pic to pants off" I am not ordering a sandwich from subway i know what 6 inches is.

I am not even a size queen either!! I am perfectly fine with normal sized penises that know what the fuck they are doing with a vagina. So dont try and throw that in my face. Yes I have had sex with a few guys that might be considered big but for the most part 90 percent have average sized penises.

**deep breath**

I feel better now. Im sure me writing this wont stop anyone. I didnt make one inch of s difference
but i feel better

RANT OVER
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