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I JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND the DILDO
Posted:Sep 11, 2020 11:49 am
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2020 12:54 pm
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I see and get a lot of pictures from people of all types, Men, Women, Transsexuals, that have something, usually some sort of Dildo, inserted somewhere in their body. For a long time, I have wondered why?

I’m told a Dildo is used to bring Sexual pleasure to a person but I really wonder if that’s true.

I confess, I have never used a Dildo, or any other “Toy” so I am coming from completely not knowing if they work or not. I have no experience with any artificial device used to stimulate sexual intercourse.

First of all, how can someone using one of these toys NOT know it’s artificial and not real and still get sexually excited. Isn’t that like licking an empty spoon and thinking you satisfying your hunger? It just seems impossible to me to somehow imagine being sexually satisfied by a piece of plastic no matter how it’s shaped or colored.

Second, I believe a Dildo has to be manipulated, held or shoved in by a person’s own hand. Doesn’t that distract from the objective of being pleasured. How can you provide the necessary action for a Dildo to do its intended purpose and not realized you are doing it to yourself. I just don’t know how this works.

Sites like this one are for meeting real people with the prospect of having a sexual affair. So how does a picture of someone with a Dildo advance that objective. Does a Dildo in your ass mean you want to meet real people? Why would you need to be with another person if can do it all to yourself? I’m confused.

I am one who believes the human body is a beautiful thing. It is natures most perfect creation. If you want to have sex, you should not have to advertise that by having a Dildo stuck in your body. Show your body, that’s what people really want to see.

I do accept the fact that many either won’t or can’t find sexual pleasure with another person. There are many, many legitimate reasons. However, If a person can’t spend quality time with another person, I fail to see how a Dildo is a viable option.

Nature gave us hands that are attached to arms that are just the right length to reach all parts of our bodies. That’s all that was needed for thousands of find real self stimulation and self satisfaction. Civilization and society advanced without rubber devices. We did OK for centuries with only natural means cure our loneliness times.

I am especially curious about by Crossdressers and Transvestites who feel the need so show us what they can do with a Dildo. We know. We don’t need a demonstration of how you have sex.

I encourage everyone respect your body. Just as you are careful what you eat and drink, please be careful of what else you put in your body.

Jan
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I JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND the DILDO
Posted:Sep 11, 2020 11:49 am
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2020 7:23 pm
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I see and get a lot of pictures from people of all types, Men, Women, Transsexuals, that have something, usually some sort of Dildo, inserted somewhere in their body. For a long time, I have wondered why?

I’m told a Dildo is used to bring Sexual pleasure to a person but I really wonder if that’s true.

I confess, I have never used a Dildo, or any other “Toy” so I am coming from completely not knowing if they work or not. I have no experience with any artificial device used to stimulate sexual intercourse.

First of all, how can someone using one of these toys NOT know it’s artificial and not real and still get sexually excited. Isn’t that like licking an empty spoon and thinking you satisfying your hunger? It just seems impossible to me to somehow imagine being sexually satisfied by a piece of plastic no matter how it’s shaped or colored.

Second, I believe a Dildo has to be manipulated, held or shoved in by a person’s own hand. Doesn’t that distract from the objective of being pleasured. How can you provide the necessary action for a Dildo to do its intended purpose and not realized you are doing it to yourself. I just don’t know how this works.

Sites like this one are for meeting real people with the prospect of having a sexual affair. So how does a picture of someone with a Dildo advance that objective. Does a Dildo in your ass mean you want to meet real people? Why would you need to be with another person if can do it all to yourself? I’m confused.

I am one who believes the human body is a beautiful thing. It is natures most perfect creation. If you want to have sex, you should not have to advertise that by having a Dildo stuck in your body. Show your body, that’s what people really want to see.

I do accept the fact that many either won’t or can’t find sexual pleasure with another person. There are many, many legitimate reasons. However, If a person can’t spend quality time with another person, I fail to see how a Dildo is a viable option.

Nature gave us hands that are attached to arms that are just the right length to reach all parts of our bodies. That’s all that was needed for thousands of find real self stimulation and self satisfaction. Civilization and society advanced without rubber devices. We did OK for centuries with only natural means cure our loneliness times.

I am especially curious about by Crossdressers and Transvestites who feel the need so show us what they can do with a Dildo. We know. We don’t need a demonstration of how you have sex.

I encourage everyone respect your body. Just as you are careful what you eat and drink, please be careful of what else you put in your body.

Jan
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Just Some Idol Thoughts
Posted:Aug 28, 2020 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2020 11:21 pm
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Anyone else find it ironic that China, where to COVID began, is also the largest producer of Dildos in the world. They fucked up everyones life and now sell toys so some can keep feeling fucked.

How many Transsexuals does it take to screw in a light bulb?
Depends on where you screw it in I guess.

Shouldn’t the old saying “Boys will be Boys and Girls will be Girls” be changed to “Boys will be Boys and some will be Girls also”.

Is it OK to refer to Anal Sex as a “Cum From Behind Victory?”.

Why do so many men just post pictures of their cock? Half the people of the world have one so it’s not unique if you happen to have one.

If COVID testing can be done while you’re in your car, when will STD testing be available like that?

Hasn’t COVID Testing become the only Test you hope you Fail?

And, isn’t it time sex workers in the US be considered Essential Workers? That was done in Italy and we never heard that it caused any problems. Also, from what I saw, there was no requirement for a plastic barrier between the parties.

During the Lock Down, is Wednesday still considered HUMP Day? As far as I know, not many people HUMPING.

I started today with Coffee and Cognac. Strange world when the best part of the day is so early.

Jan
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Examining Cocks Closer
Posted:Aug 22, 2020 9:50 am
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2020 8:22 am
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I am constantly amazed at the number of photos I get that are just a mans coc It seems the bigger they are, the more willing they are show .

I have thought deeply about this and want set the record straight about Cocks as related their size.

Let’s start by saying nature has a wonderful way of making us all different in many ways. We are tall, short, big and small with different colored hair and texture and facial looks name just a few. These differences we can easily see. Some we find pleasing while others may not impress us.

However, beneath the clothing there are some differences, especially in men, that we can not see so easily unless they are displayed us more openly, mainly the Penis.

For such a small percentage of the body, it gets the most attention on this site and others like this. Without actually counting, I would offer there are probably more pictures of men Cocks than their faces. It’s almost like saying, “Here, meet my cock, the rest of me is not important”.

So, let’s put all other features aside and just concentrate on the Cock, especially its size and its appeal women.

Small Cocks - Few of these are displayed on here. I guess men with small Cocks are less proud and therefore elaborate other qualities of their manliness. However, when the smaller cock is unveiled, women don’t tend reject it. It can still bring as much pleasure during intimate times as any Coc It has been my experience, that men with smaller Cocks are more of a complete lover. They understand that the cock alone is not their strong point so they often spend more time on foreplay arouse their partner. The outcome is the same, just another route the distention.

Big Cocks - I don’t understand why so many men think that a Big Cock is all that is needed in a sexual relationship. Please don’t get me wrong, the bigger cock can be a lot of fun but, in all honesty, it is not all that matters a woman seeking true sexual pleasure. There is so much more that contribute a fantastic Orgasm than just having a Big Cock stuck in you.

While on the subject of Big Cocks, a few words about the Big Black Coc In my opinion, this has become an overrated Badge of Honor for some women. I often see women, and Crossdressers, saying BBC ONLY or BBCs the Front of the Line. This again is a very shallow way describe a sexual experience. In fact, I have found the BBCs are usually very emotionless about sex. Just look at the number of BBC for Hire advertisements you see on the various sites. I suppose if a woman wants add that her Sexual Resume, or even just try one once, fine, go for it.

The Mid Sized Cock - Most men fit in this category, the 5 8 inch Club and that’s a very good thing . These men don’t expect disappoint a woman, or overwhelm them. Most men in this size grouping have the confidence include lingering Foreplay and Romance as part of their Love Making. These men are not Average but well Above Average sexual partners as being complete Lovers. They have neither shame for being too Small nor bravado for being Big.

These are just some of my observations from over the last few .

I must add, I’m under Quarantine again and started my Saturday with Cognac and coffee and time add my Blog.

Jan
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A Question for You
Posted:Aug 7, 2020 11:13 am
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2020 7:59 am
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A Question for you tp Ponder



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Resume updated
Posted:Jul 12, 2020 12:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2020 4:07 am
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While I had the time during the COVID Shutdown, I helped my Ass update it’s Resume in the case a new position becomes available. I decided post this in hopes of her being offered a new situation.

Jan’s Ass Resume, updated July 2020

NAME: Jan’s Ass

LOCATION: Between Waist and Thigh
Happy Valley, America

CURRENT POSITION: Under utilized since March due COVID Isolation

SEEKING: Meaningful Role in any new Position

EDUCATION: Attended several PREPARATORY Training sessions and have been thoroughly schooled.

ABOUT ME:

To begin, I am Educated, Experienced, Talented and well Respected. I have been told I have the unique ability to resolve the Hardest of issues and to find the best possible OUTCOME for involved Parties.

I am often described as a TEAM Player, willing take the biggest of Challenges. I am know be able motivate my Teammates always RISE the occasion and perform at their BEST.

I am well Rounded and am known be a MultiTasker with the ability separate the most PRESSING subject from the SMALL ones.

I am a Leader that others willingly follow and Look too. I openly take a Position that my Subordinates clearly understand and are eager to pursue.

I am open to recommendations aimed at Improving the Process and obtaining a mutually satisfying GOAL I encourage all be as OPEN as I am if our roles where reversed.

I am seeking new opportunities where I can apply my wide Experience in the field of Sexual Satisfaction. I have been utilized in a variety of areas and have always completed my tasks in a timely and complete manner.

My ambition is be the BEST performing member in any UNDERTAKING.

References can be provided if requested. The identities of the references will be MASKED provide for their PROTECTION.

Please contact if you wish an Interview after the COVID has subsided. I am OPEN offers.

Best regards and hoping Hear from you ,

Jan’s Ass

I think she did a pretty good job expressing herself.
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Abstinence vs Indulgence
Posted:May 15, 2020 12:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2020 1:57 am
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It seems , the Stay at Home policy has had a terrible effect on some people, and I include myself. For us that are single, we have been put in a Form of Isolation that has pushed some the edge of keeping their total sanity.

I noticed this by having many discussion on this site with both men and women since the Lock Down began back in March. The internet allow us to talk to others in various states and other countries. I have many friends throughout this country and overseas and a common subject in our discussions is “How are you doing?” and this has taken on a completely new meaning from when that was just a simple Greeting.

It use to be just a simple way to start a conversation but in the time since the Covid-19 and the Lock Down it really has become a question of “How are you holding up under this Shut Down?”. Everyone wants to know the impact this forced isolation has had on others.

As usual, I view this in a Sexual light. It is so obvious to me that people denied all activities and the resulting emotional release have nothing else to think about but our most basic needs. Food, water, shelter and sex. And the order of importance has has been reversed.

Our benevolent city and state officials have graciously allowed us access to Food, Water and of course the Shelter where we must remain. Household pets get the same for that matter.

What our wonderful leaders have in a sense denied us, is the freedom to have sex. Think about it, don’t bars, clubs, restaurants serve as meeting places and often a prelude to sexual activity?

Take those away and then demand we Social Distance and there no means to express your sexual temperature to another person. Internet meetings are the only recourse to those of us who live alone. Is like in the movies of someone in prison getting a visitor and only being allowed to talk from behind a glass barrier. No hugging or anything like that just the ability to see but not to touch.

Being denied sexual freedom has several possible negative results besides being just Horniness which is a legitimate symptom. WED MD sites potential emotional problems, high blood pressure, anxiety, stress, loss of memory, inability to concentrate and others. Even frequent masturbation can’t fully help they mention.

Please note, the potential problems associated with not having frequent sexual relations are common to older people and they are considered “The Most Vulnerable” to the virus.

In my mind, that makes younger people who have to go without sex also very vulnerable to the virus also. This just doesn’t make any sense.

We all know the risks the virus may have. We also know that not everyone who contracts the virus will have a bad reaction to it and many don’t even realized they had it. Certainly not everyone who has the virus will die from it.

I believe it is up to the individual to decide for theirselves if the risks outweigh the possible pleasure or vice versa. We’re adults. The officials that were elected must think some of us are smart, we voted for them so we must by their own definition be Smart.

In all cases, if people willingly consent have sex they should be allowed the freedom have sex.

How about a compromise. Let the bars in NYC open one day a week without social distancing, without masks and gloves and let the people have a little fun. Call it a Sexday instead of a Friday. It could save our sanity.

Let the people FUCK!

Jan
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Be Prepared for when It’s Over
Posted:Apr 15, 2020 10:35 am
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2020 9:54 am
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Thinking forward the end of the LockDown should not take you by surprise as the “Stay Home” did. This will be over soon so you should be prepared for that day. Here’s a few Tips make sure you’ll ready for the day we start return Normalcy.

Have a date, or more than one, lined up in advance. The end of the LockDown will be eagerly anticipated and good men will be in short supply for awhile. Plan ahead and keep him interested.

Keep your house or apartment well supplied with everything you need for a good dinner for . Restaurant, bars and clubs will not be able open instantly. Be prepared have your date at your home. Make it a special evening.

In addition keeping plenty of food on hand, remember have a good selection of wines and other alcoholic drinks also on hand for those first few dates.

Have some new Outfits ready. Since most malls and department stores are closed you probably will need to shop on-line. Delivery may vary so order well ahead of time. Make sure of the proper fit when new clothes arrive in case you need to alter them before wearing them for your date.

Stay as well groomed as you can in Isolation to be prepared for the Big Day. You may need to figure out something to do with your longer that normal hair. Try different hair styles if you can.

Be sure to have plenty of Condoms and Lubricate on hand. Don’t risk an STD just because the Corona Virus is contained. Don’t count on your date to have some condoms, always be prepared.

I’ll pass along more Tips as I think of them. Remember, Success comes from good Planning.

Jan
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Some Recents Things
Posted:Apr 12, 2020 10:56 am
Last Updated:Sep 1, 2020 10:07 am
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I joined a Weight Loss Program because they ship food you.

Did all my Christmas Cards, and mailed them.

Started cutting my Fingernails and Toenails yesterday. I do one a day so when I’m done the Lock Down maybe over.

I signed up for another Grocery Delivery service the other day. They asked for my Mobile Number. I thought WHY? Is it still a Mobile number if you can’t go anywhere?

For company, I started talking to myself in the mirror. Sometimes I have very good conversations.

I thought of a new way to described Transsexuals, “Uniquely Configured”

I made dinner for last night just stay in practice. Guess it wasn’t that good. There were plenty of leftovers.

I tried making Brownies the other day. I didn’t have any Cocoa so made Whities instead.

Stopping sex “Cold Turkey” can cause psychological issues. I have Flashbacks every time I go in the bedroom.

I found a pimple and got excited. Something to do tonight.

I tried Self Bondage but it didn’t wor I kept escaping.

Seems that guys are forced masturbate more during the “Stay at Home” era. Guess that’s why there was such a rush on hand sanitizer.

I’m really getting tired of people on TV that live with someone saying “We all in this together”. Try living alone you idiots.

Jan
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A Conversation with my Ass
Posted:Apr 5, 2020 11:29 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2020 8:59 pm
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Last night after several comforting Nite Caps I was in bed just starting doze off when I heard a voice calling .

“ Janice, Janice wake up”

Somewhat startled I answered,

“Yes, who’s there?’

“Down here, it’s your ass”

“Oh Hi, precious, How are you”

“Is there something wrong? I haven’t had any visitors for a long while. Is it something I did?’”

“No, not you, every body was told to stay home and alone”

“ Why?”

“The whole country is having a nasty virus, very serious”

“What’s a virus?’

“Bad bacteria that is spread from person to person by coughing, sneezing even just normal breathing and it gets in the lungs and can make us sick”

“Can it be spread from mouth to ass?”

“There is not enough medical data on that but I think not”

“Who told us to stay home?’

“The government”

“Who’s that”

“The elected people that make rules for us”
“Does the government have asses also?”

“Yes, but they only take care of their own asses mostly”

“When can I have friends over again?”

“I’m not sure, it may be awhile. You will have to be patient but when this virus is over, I expect you will meet several new friends, all glad to see you”

“New playmates? I want to have fun with them””

“Yes sweetheart and you will have some with old friends that have missed you they tell me”

“Thanks Jan, I feel better after talking with you”

“I know how much you miss your friends, believe me and remember, We Are in This Together. I hope you can sleep now”

“Yes, I will dream about what will happen after this is over. I’m very excited”

“I promise you that you will be first one I tell when this is over so you can be ready to entertain your friends again”
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Fun Things to do on Lock Down
Posted:Apr 4, 2020 2:34 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2020 5:56 pm
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Sorry, I can't think of any.
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Just Some Things From Over the Weekend
Posted:Mar 30, 2020 11:14 am
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2020 2:28 pm
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Shouldn’t it be called “Anti-Social Distancing” ?

I keep hearing politicians saying “We’re all in this together”. I went around my apartment asking “OK, who’s with me?” No answer. I must not be Together with anyone.

I tried to order a Dildo from Amazon. They said it didn’t qualify for Priority Shipping. I beg to differ.

I noticed I was still closing the door when I go to the bathroom. I don’t know why.

I found it ironic that initially April was the day we would be allowed go out. Isn’t that the last day send in your Taxes? I don’t think this was just a coincidence.

And, shouldn’t April Fools Day be delayed? No one prank if we’re in Isolation.

In my area, Grocery delivery is now two days but wine is still 2-4 hours. I haven’t figured that one out yet but I’m happy while waiting for my food arrive.

When deliveries do arrive, I just open the door just enough slid out a Tip, and then wait for them leave before I quickly grab my stuff and immediately wash my hands.

I had a Video Conference Call this morning from work. Everyone called in from home. I couldn’t stop wondering what everyone was wearing, or not wearing, below the screen.

What would we do without the internet during this Isolation time?

I saw the markets in Wuhan, China are reopening and still selling live Bats, Dogs, Spiders and Lizards. No wonder doctors are saying it’s just a matter of time before another Pandemic.

I keep hearing about a Doctor shortage. Could it be that it seems they’re ALL on television instead in the hospitals?

I don’t mean to sound indifferent to this crisis but do we really need to be updated hourly on the exact number of reported cases? We know it’s bad already.

I need to work on taking Selfies with no one else to take my pictures.

Jan
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Observations from Being Quarantined
Posted:Mar 28, 2020 12:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2020 3:34 am
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First, I want toThank Everyone that took the time to send me notes of encouragement, checked on my well being or just helped me pass the time with a friendly chat. I appreciate all of your concerns and well wishes. I really meant a lot to me and showed me that so many people are truly friends.

I have been on Quarantine for weeks now and am doing fine. No symptoms of the Covid-19 Virus and for that matter no one from my staff also on Self Quarantine has shown any symptoms. I plan to be on “Lock Down” until April 15 to follow the guidelines here in New York City.

I am amazed at how well this city is observing the Lock Down. I can see both 5th and 6th Avenues from my balcony and there is very little traffic and few people. The City That Never Sleeps is at least Resting right now.

I believe it will not be “Life as Usual” here for quite awhile even after the stay isolated directive is lifted. Bars and restaurants will need to time reopen and bring back staff. Some places may never reopen due to the financial burden. Without being able to operate and still having to paid rent, many of the small, privately owned businesses will not survive. Even during GOOD Times, they were working with a small profit margin.

I think the Food and Grocery Delivery will see an increase in business even after this is all over. People will see the convenience and safety of this as important. The joy of cooking at home will be rediscovered. New York City will see and increase in the number of scooters and specialized small delivery trucks making deliveries thus probably a reduction in air pollution.

Also, Guidelines for Tipping Delivery will need to change. As many restaurant workers will turn to being delivery people, they will need to be tipped at higher levels. Besides just the Delivery Charge you will need to willing to Tip similar to the 20 to 30% Tip you leave in restaurants.

Talking with friends we also see the Casual Hook Up scene changing. I think fewer people will be willing to take the chance of having sex with a stranger until there are ways to guarantee he or she is safe to be with. Maybe after a Quick Virus Swab test is developed and readily available will people go back to casual dating. As I told a close friend, a good idea would be a 15 minute Swab Test that is highly accurate and sold in Drug Stores next to the Condoms under a sign “Stay Safe, Swab before Sex”.

Society will also change from traditional offices to more people working at home whenever possible. Although this was happening slowly in the US, I see a larger and faster shift to Off Site working. Already new and better means to Tele Conference are hitting the markets.

On a Personal note, I also see a decline in the business. I think that the normal Conferences, Trade Shows and Associations Meetings will be vastly reduced. People will be less likely travel so the number of people visiting New York will decline thus the demand by out-of-towners for an will decline proportionally. Another business that may suffer in the Post Virus world. I haven’t checked which industries are included in the recently passed Stimulus Package but I tend doubt will be getting any Government Assistance.

I believe new and innovative ways masturbate will be created. Forced stay home in isolation this is probably happening and word will surely spread. With the tend post anything new or different on social media, look for people share new and imaginary way of self pleasuring. New Toys will become available to allow people to have diverse ways to self satisfaction. I see a need for Self Squirting Dildo with a Head that gets enlarged as it get warmer or senses faster motion The Life Like Female Humanoid industry will see a boom.

I’m thinking too much. Must be from the Wine I had Delivered and Tipped for.

Jan
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