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What NOT to do....  

Cali_ashly25 36F
11 posts
8/30/2020 9:43 pm
What NOT to do....


Please..do NOT message me and start it like this:

Good morning sexy
When can I fuck you deep and make you squirt?

That is an actual copy and paste of a message I<b> received </font></b>today. I find nothing sexy about being approached by a complete stranger and asked that. Sidenote...that's the complete message. That's all that was sent.

Does anyone out there like that? Am I the only one who finds that an odd way to greet someone even on an adult site? Usually this will be met with either being deleted and ignored. Or some random sarcastic answer. In this case, my answer was "probably never". To which I will promptly be called a bitch or fake or ugly or an ugly fake bitch. (take your pick, I've been called them all)

I know guys will say "well, when I just say "hello" I don't get a response." And I'm sure that there are some women out there who like the whole "talk to me like I'm a dirty slut before you even tell me your name" But sorry, gents, I am not one of them.

Thoughts?

Friendlyfucker63 27M

10/28/2020 3:42 am

Even if someone likes vulgar language usually you at least start with a decent opener.


Funtimez_96 27M
13 posts
3/2/2021 1:19 am

Always a bad way to start a conversation, but when someone’s horny and on this site they act up. It’s easy to say whatever on a computer as opposed to in person. I think we should consider the interactions on here the same as in person until people get comfortable.


Grr8kissrr 49M  
27 posts
6/10/2021 6:37 am

I mean, I guess we should be proud of him for at least wishing you good morning?

I'm fairly certain that there is a vocal subset on this site that are pretty much furiously masturbating to photos most of the day. I'll go out on a tenuous limb to suggest that as such, they seem to think that everyone else is also right on the edge and absolutely, positively ready to burst this minute.

So maybe on that account, this is just an honest question that he only had moments to have answered before he was on the express train to nap town.

It's still a terrible approach and I commend your public service message to those who make the time to take that extra click to get to your blog.

All this being said, you probably don't need me to tell you that there are a lot of horny haters here as well, and it's best to ignore them. My inbox is full of men trying to convince me that I might enjoy being with a man if only I'd give it a try just once. While it may or may not be true, that's my decision to make, and when I point out that I'm not attracted to men, I get the angry blow back as well... So while I'm not empowered to apologize for my fellow gender folk, I feel your pain, and I am sorry to see that this persists.

Sigh. Stay classy Ashly


phototaker303 51M
1 post
10/9/2021 9:23 am

Some guys are just like that, and the sad thing is that some ladies play along or even like that as well. I personally need just a little more interaction before I throw out "Let's fuck" even on a site like this. I know I would 100% love to play around with you, but who wouldn't? You're smokin hot, but I would chat you up first and hope we clicked. I want to chat someday, but keep putting up those great pics. As for the idiots saying your fake or acting like asses, ignore those dumb shitheads cause they aren't ever going to hook up with someone as hot as yourself


Affairs_only 46M
1 post
2/12/2022 5:26 am

…. Wouldn’t it be nice to have scripts that would filter stupid opening email like that one?


Cali_ashly25 replies on 2/12/2022 8:25 pm:
Very much so!

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