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How about we stay in our own stall and mind our own business?  

gymrat1974 49F  
1057 posts
4/24/2016 12:53 pm
How about we stay in our own stall and mind our own business?


I just saw a meme on Facebook that totally rubbed me the wrong way. It said "Why can't we just potty like it's 1999?" And in the background was the picture of restrooms with the traditional men/women signage. First of all, I think Prince would be appalled to know his song was being used in such a way. Does anyone need reminding of the insignia he used when he wasn't able to call himself Prince? Please! If anyone supported the idea of getting away from gender roles, it was Prince. Secondly, what does that mean? Potty like it's 1999? Is that a suggestion that the idea of being transgendered and walking around in public is some newfangled thing? I've got news for you, creator of a stupid meme, even before gender reassignment surgeries and hormone therapy came about, people had been dressing in attire that didn't fit their birth sex for hundreds of years, at least. In previous centuries, it was common for women to dress as men, so they could be safe when traveling alone. And that's merely one example. And that's what it boils down to. Safety. If you cannot tell by looking at people that they might be of the opposite sex for the restroom being used, they are causing you no harm at all, but they are constantly in danger of being outed and attacked. So, let's not worry about "pottying" like it's 1999, and let's start worrying about the safety of our fellow man.

redsled361000 64M
272 posts
4/24/2016 1:28 pm

True.People just don't get it.


Howdy3328 62F  
250 posts
4/24/2016 1:37 pm

agree with you


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
4/24/2016 2:06 pm

good post Prince was a great musician he will be missed


gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
4/25/2016 7:35 am

I'm glad you guys like this one. I was angry. We have bigger fish to fry than who uses what restroom. And unisex restrooms are really all over the place. It's nothing new. It's nothing different. It's being politicized as evil doing, which gives it such negative attention, but it's so unnecessary.


gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
4/25/2016 2:47 pm

I think that's fair enough. I honestly don't think transgendered people are too worried about what others are doing as long as no one is hurting them. They often live in a world of fear.


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